RHP

RHP User

M47 F36

Any single ladies??

May 04 2017

I'm not sure whether we are doing this correct, however, what are girls looking for in a couple? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A male and a female usually. Too many profiles the male is hidden and the female is the bait, assuming there is a male of course.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Assuming there is a female

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But you have MMF bi listed as a sexual preference. Which basically says you are bi-sexual and play with men. Otherwise sounds like you guys want to hook up with women, but are you interested in the social aspect too? From what I have read the 35+ women will ask for more info about you. More pics of Mister and they want to know what you will do for them. Something I have often read is "why should they pick you over other couples?" You need to seduce women, but your profile is just "hit me up if you're keen and like my photos" and that's not enough on RHP.

  • noeleena

    noeleena

    8 years ago

    Hi. What I have seen and noted is the difference in age,s, and I know I,m ruled out, with our group in Ch Ch - NZ I,m the oldest, next age group below myself is 57 so what hope have I, = none, the next age is 34 to 37. And I know from others from different forums, keep say oh,,,, age is not an issue , oh,,, is that a fact,,,,well it is . So for your ? what would I be looking for in a couple,s group, nothing, because I have been ruled out of being asked to join in, the issue I see is they those I see have their clicks and if your single you just don't count in their play time at all , yet allmost all say they are looking for single women and a mix of others, men and women. in practice it does not happen that way , so on the 13 th this month in Ch Ch NZ we will have 61 attending and 5 of us single women and no single males. This will be my 5 th time , So what should I be looking for , what would be nice,.the other detail I noted is if your a couple you will be asked to have play time with an other couple, So ether I,m missing something or not sexing enough, and that maybe the reason , or really I,m out of place and being single is the issue,, and I know not to ask as I,ll be rejected, plus I have no show of finding a partner , who would wont to be with myself, What I do find disheartning is some one will send to me a message and I reply and don't hear back, so why send a message to me in the first place . very strange. ...noeleena...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Tell us what you and your partner will do for/to us. Any couples profile that sounds like,"we want another woman to spice up our sex life" sounds like you are bored with each other and just want a sex toy to get you off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I would like to get a 'feel' for the couple and how they connected. Confidence in each other and in the possible play situation is key. Both the male and the female must be truly interested in playing and that this is evident to me (she must want the play as much as him and NOT doing it for him). When my BF and I play with a single lady/unicorn/third, it's mostly about her pleasure, not ours so to speak. Yes of course our playmates reciprocate (mostly) but we have 'our shit' together to have the best experience possible :) she's not there to entertain us, where all there together to pleasure each other. We work very hard to not exclude our playmate and this includes anything from having dinner, drinks etc to all sharing the bed and sleeping overnight together in the same bed. We make it a whole experience where possible :) If any jealousies arise, keep your poker face on and deal with it once your guest is gone, even if the night didn't pan out as you may have wanted. When I was playing more actively, this was what destroyed some play dates for me. For example, one play the lady decided she would set the rules before we started ... they should have been explained before hand. She was to get licked first, she would suck him first and he would fuck her first ... ok, her rules and I get it BUT Her real motive was to assert her dominance! When she started making commentary during the play like 'are you enjoying my cock?' is when I walked out. It can be incredibly tricky or wonderfully brilliant :) Good luck Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Try balancing your picture ratio. Put up pics of both of you so women know you're both genuinely interested. Also try putting some more information about each of you. Your likes and preferences. Most single women like to feel like they've connected with your profile and have similar interests before flirting or contacting you. If the information is lacking or not there, some great women may just be bypassing your profile. Good luck :-) - Posted from rhpmobile