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Anyone fallen in love with their NSA booty person????
May 09 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
The most wonderful and yet the most painful experience of my life - Posted from rhpmobile
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captainkaos
11 years ago
We are Still in love but unfortunately I don't think that it will work out in the long run............ :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes here too, but we've decided to enjoy each day as it comes - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
but definitely in lust. I have been quite consumed by one and imagine I could easily fall in love also. Like JayJay said wonderful but painful.
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Circe
11 years ago
I have, and I agree with jay jay, the most pleasure and pain I've felt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Like JayJay says, amazing feeling but so painful on the other hand :( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is it worth it?.....I haven't been in love since 1984....and it was a disaster,not reciprocated.... So no I haven't and doubt that I want to xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
We didn't even get jiggy but we were falling in love...she's a smart girl so she dumped me
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
I really don't have a problem with falling in love, and do easily, like everything in life there are different levels of love. But I can also let go of it as well. I just don't think it has to be excusive, or a once in a lifetime experience. Love and peace Tam
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Not me, but two women became emotionally more involved than I was and sought a relationship. Letting them go was difficult.... I still wonder about one woman and that decision. Even if you only want to have sex more than once.... That's a string, and why I say NSA? No Such Activity...... Unless you have sociopathic tendencies and only look for someone to use as a masturbation pocket. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We both did fortunately and are still together and having fun:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree totally :/ it's never straight forward NSA
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Taby_DK
11 years ago
Yep! I have & he's the other half of this couple :pWe met on RHP as singles & have been together now for 2.5 years.It started out as NSA fun for about 8 months before it became an official relationship but I think we both knew it was more than sex around the 3 month mark. Just took him a little longer to get with the program haha Taby xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
with all of my friends and lovers. However, I do believe that it is a spectrum of love. Not all 'love' is the same level of intensity, but it is all real and exactly what we are on this planet to experience :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sadly she fell for me and I couldn't reciprocate. Currently trying to work out how to change this to a single profile...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I guess it's all good...any love is good love...unless it's not enough for...someone...then it's not good or just not good enough.NSA pffft...that's where sex workers come into the equation everything else has bells and whistles!
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Can't say that I have.... To be honest...........falling in love scares the absolute crap out of me! So won't put myself in that position of pleasure and pain. No Thank you. Has someone fallen in love with me...You bet ya! But I didn't feel the same way,No as was not into them as they were into me. Not only that, for me to say "I'm in love you" is not something I go around saying to people I have sex with. Why? Because there is more to love to just sex and a shag here and there. Have I ever been in Love with a lover....never, can't say that I have. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
best 12 months of my life, until I confect my love for her. biggest mistake I ever made. She couldn't get out of there fast enough. Note to self: Next time keep feelings to self.
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I love a lot of people... Different degrees and different ways some I have sex with some I don't :) I wouldn't have an NSA arrangement with someone if I didn't love them. However I don't have or want exclusive relationships... So it is not really an issue :) Xxviolet
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of the few Willy Nelson songs that I don't mind. I've been a little bit in love with all the ladies I've slept with, just not always to the point that I wanted to take it further.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've met a few different women over the years & had NSA fun & sex, they were just sweaty fun memorable moments, but no feelings apart from friendship. But I did meet a lovely lady from RHP , one of her first rules was "don't fall", and since then we have had some fun hot times together on and off over the last couple of years, & developed a great caring friendship , I won't say we fell" in love , but there's definitely a soft spot there for each other.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Can't say I have. I had an infatuation with one recently but that was cured by his unreliability - Posted from rhpmobile
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Antzy
11 years ago
Yes from me! So hard not to if you share the same interests and enjoy each other ;). Won't be doing it again in a hurry, but we were wonderful together :).
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Twisted_Mister
11 years ago
I've had one or two RHP friends that were keen on developing something further, but it's just where my headspace is at. Lovely, lovely people and I feel like a bit of a bastard saying no, but I figure it's not fair on anyone if I don't. PS - Antzy, love your profile words!!!! Ha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
But then I've only meet a couple of men from here and nothing that intimate. I'd prefer to be in lust at the moment anyway, heaps more fun and not so much hard work. I haven't been I love for about 8 years. I'm not closed to it, just haven't found what I'm looking for yet......💋
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Seachange
11 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' best 12 months of my life, until I confect my love for her. biggest mistake I ever made. She couldn't get out of there fast enough. Note to self: Next time keep feelings to self. I feel for you but Not sure keeping your feelings to yourself is the way to go. You were just being honest with yourself. You may be both honest with each other from the start and just wanted a NSA relationship. But things change and relationships can evolve. It just so happened that she was not on the same page as you. I personally prefer to be honest with my feelings and the situation and if I do lose that person, I will just have to swallow the bitter pill but the taste will wear off after a while and life goes on. Good luck, S.
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RHP User
11 years ago
started as just a fwb and very recently turned into a relationship and so far so good!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've received a few very friendly and pleasant welcomes since joining only 2 days ago... Thank you. Have I fallen in love with someone in a NSA relationship?... YES.At 55 (although I've been told a little younger looking... he hopes???). Obviously, I am a fan of the 'Idea' that age is "Just a Number" so long as two people are compatible and happy. I do hope that it's true because I notice far more ladies aged between say, 25 and early 40's here. But I digress (as usual). I mention this because of the age of the lady I fell in love with. I have fallen in love, at least to a degree with only one lady I met on this type of site and I know she felt the same... We had a wonderful time for 6 months and it only ended because of us being at different times in our life (she was 20 years younger) and a child (too much, obviously). In the beginning she was only looking for a NSA arrangement and I was open to whatever happened, which is what I am here for now... Open to whatever happens, in fact, hopeful. It's not something that's planned or even thought about in the beginning, but after a few weeks you do tend to feel that there's more to things than the sex and you then find yourselves enjoying each other's company and the more 'platonic' activities like lunch, then dinner, then movies and then... you realize! So, in the nutshell, YES, definitely and I think it's probably more common than I imagined, given what I've read. I hope so, anyway. When you think about it, it is the way in which we express our intimate feelings for someone we love, as well as being the NSA fun that many have. So I suppose it's natural that 'love' will sneak in and surprise you, given the intimacy involved in the things we all get up to. I've been widowed for 18 years and have met some wonderful ladies on 'Adult' sites (as opposed to more traditional dating sites). I only used the more traditional for many years and only started to look at 'Adult sites' in the last 2 years, having been disillusioned a couple of times, more lately than earlier, with the 'sexual' incompatibilities that can often be simply different likes and dislikes, but generally, unless sex is one of the main objects of the Site, it's not discussed, let alone practiced usually until 4 - 6 weeks (or more with some ladies) after first meeting, which usually follows at least a couple of weeks online, on the more 'relationship related' dating sites. I've found it easier to establish the preferences and ideas etc of that area of a potential relationship on a site such as this. It certainly saves time and the disappointment of liking someone, getting to know them online, dating them at least a few times and then getting intimate (if it goes that far) and finding you both have little in common sexually, which I know can and will kill a relationship. I've experienced that a couple of times (in latter years) and I'm straight and pretty uncomplicated as far as 'sex' goes. I'll be in anything that pleases the lady except that which involves 'real pain' (B&D, SM) or 'peeing and getting pee'd on'...LOL.Thanks for reading... Sorry it was a little long.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Over and over again....so now I'm considering throwing myself under a few others to forget him..... but I can't find just ONE that gives me that ounce of excitement, the whisper of a thrill. Where have all the passionate men gone.....oh yes, they're married, gay or live in WA.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E , I've been asked that question a million times... My answer is always, "At home with their wives/partners..."But there are a few 'widowed' ones that did nothing wrong... LOL (not meant to infer that men are more responsible for breakups...) Hang in there... He's around somewhere and you'll find him when it's time.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Mmmmmm, WA profiles.......😍
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
My transcendent twat twinges and Astounding thoughts exactly!! Foxy
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Seachange
11 years ago
I have NEVER fallen for a NSA as I have NEVER had one... Yes a NSA virgin. I have been married for many years, divorced, then had a few long term relationships after the divorce and joining this site. My thought is that with my work and kids and sports taking up so much of my precious time, I really can't devote time to a full time relationship. So trying this place out and see if NSA is right for me. Looking for FWB rather than ONSs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What is N.S.A ? No Sex Allowed ! Well Im Blonde
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RHP User
11 years ago
...for you - I believe its probably one of the best ways to start a good relationship - you go into it with no pressure, which makes it all the easier - sometimes it will stay as NSA and eventually peter out with no recrimination or hostility and sometimes it will turn into something more - I hope they feel the same for you
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im sure you ladies would have a great time if you came over to Perth for a weekend. Meet some of the lads and lassies of the West
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wouldn't want to either and nor would she. We are both crazy and very different yet share a couple of naughty interests
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I have adored some of my NSA lovers, and been quite happy to keep things simple, but sometimes, one falls so hard and fast that there isn't time to draw breath, let alone acknowledge how you feel I have loved deeply, and carelessly, and love giving my love to someone.... Love to make someone happy, that satisfies me ;) But in the end, NSA means no commitment and it's hard to change someone's mind if they want no commitment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's always the women that say I'm not looking for a relationship etc etc. But it's always the women that crack the shits when you say I can't come over tonight as I'm going out. Then they abuse you and call you a cheat etc etc. Like wtf is going on here you said you don't what a relationship or commitment. Then call you a player etc etc. So to all you women that fall in love with a guy it's all your own fault and if you get burnt you should be truthful up front of what you really feel.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did you just quote my fave line from Meet Joe Black? Well done.
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inspirit
11 years ago
and I love every BOB I ever met
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes,.. Very much so,.
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fragnonymous
11 years ago
Like others have said there are different degrees of love and I think generally it's easy to love someone. Lucky us we started out as a NSA relationship but after about 2 years he professed his love and now we are happily married! We fell in love because it was always just us, we weren't seeing other people outside of ourselves due to schedules being able to regularly meet up and also due to the sexual chemistry. Then we were talking every day when we weren't seeing each other. Then she started making food for him on his visits - I think part of that old saying is true ;) The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. Heheh!
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Way2go70
11 years ago
I really have to feel something for someone now to want to become intimate. Isn't it funny how we change as we grow up. 20 years ago it would be the reverse for me. Safe sex then was giving a false name and address. I thought I was doing pretty well to remember her name!!!! Now tho, for me at least, it is about a connection and a sense of feelings that enhance that. Not that I have had many sexual encounters since my marriage and the intense relationship I had after that. And I'm actually happy with that take on life right now..... So for me if I happened upon a 'booty' call then unfortunately I doubt I could keep it strictly NSA.... Time will tell I guess. Oh and to Foxxy - WA rocks baby. Best place on earth IMO. Love everyday here. Sadly tho I share your despair as there are some truly wonderful ladies on the east coast (you included) xx Happy winter peoples :))))
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platinumblonde69
11 years ago
I think its easy at times to say that you have fallen in love but deep down you know its just great sex. For great sex to happen (for me) there needs to be a genuine attraction, and after time I guess you could think you have fallen in love. But at the end of the day I ask myself the following: Can I imagine doing every day activities with him? Family outings? Paying the bills? Haha. Thats usually enough to bring me back to reality. If that doesn't, then when he meets a single woman and runs off into the sunset with her, that usually snaps me. Haha. Keep a level head and enjoy it for what it is...great sex. Plat
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I have but he has fallen in love with someone else and expecting a baby and they've only been together since mid march. Breaks my heart when I think about it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women falling in love with their NSA partner is the stereotype. So I'd guess it's pretty common. At least that's what Hollywood tells me and it wouldn't lie.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely KoKoflamingo very friendly people in the West much more laid back lifestyle makes for more relaxed people
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RHP User
11 years ago
I fell deep for a young lady, where it started out as NSA and mutual physical fun, but we started spending more and more time together, doing dinner, lunch and other "couple" things, that I started to develop deep feeling for her. I knew I had grown attached, once I was always thinning about her, by then it was too late and I to fess up my feeling for her. To say it was very painful, because she didn't want a relationship with me, hence we were no longer on the same page. I knew it was me that had to leave and say goodbye, one of the hardest things to do, but also a life lesson, that if you do NSA play or friends with benefits, is to keep it strictly that. Pity too, cause the sex was explosive! But such is life! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awww so nice of you to say that especially when we have only just started communicating lol I couldn't resist ralf74 Cheers Neil
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Honestly thinking I should probably move to WA for awhile.... Well I do have an extensive list of profiles from over there, defiantly think I'd need longer than a weekend.......😍 some of the profiles are well just exquisite and make my mouth water, I'd love to fall in love with quite a number of them.......❤️❤️❤️
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thedevilsfantasy
11 years ago
Not love but definitely in lust.. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of best and worst times, I wouldn't change it for the world though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sure have and we are getting married soon!! Best booty call ever!! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We started out as the usual no strings FWB, after six months we both felt there was something more to it. We went on for another few months not letting each other know that we both felt there was more. Until one day while cuddling after the most amazing sex it just slipped out "I think I'm falling for you". The responce I got was utter silence. We continued to cuddle for 10or so min then she said are you for real ? This was supposed to be "no strings". We did not see each other for a few days, but when we did, the sex seemed to be even better! It was like we had both surcumed to the fact it was happening but had not yet fully let the other person all the way in yet. This went on for the following three months till we both just stopped fighting it. Once we did it was like sex and everything else just got better and easier too. Let's just say that was 4 years ago ............ We have owned a house together now for over a year and the rest as they say is history.............. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have fallen in complete lust and awe lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You became attached ~ Good for you.
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