Taby_DK

Taby_DK

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Are You A RHP Success Story?

December 03 2013

While some people only visit the land of Red Hot Pie for a short time other have been on here for quite a period of time. If your single you may be here looking for a playmate or 'the one'. If your a couple, in most cases your here to swing. I'm curious to see if any of the forum locals are Red Hot Pie success stories, that is: * You met your partner through Red Hot Pie when you were single and then joined again as a couple. * You dated someone seriously from Red Hot Pie but it didn't work out and now you are back and looking again. OR - You fall into a completely different Red Hot Pie success story category. I am a Red Hot Pie success story. I was on the site as a single girl for 4 years before meeting DK in early 2011. I was off the site for about 6 months before we joined up again, this time as a couple and we are loving it! ;) Taby xx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    only seventeen when you joined?...I am a complete failure given your criteria for success...but I also have care factor zero for that....there is a difference between being excessful and successful,IMNHO.

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    11 years ago

    I joined RHP when I was 18, met DK when I was 22 and I will be 25 next year.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    People laugh at me all the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But not by your criteria. I'm successful as noone's been able to tame this wilderbeast :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm not sure what algebraic calculation you used to take 6 from 24 Freya, but the last I looked, that equalled 18. And yes, Ms Taby has been around that long. Now that we've gotten past what the topic is NOT about. I imagine you fall into one of the completely different Red Hot Pie success story categories... that is, if YOU believe you fall into a success category. And that's what the topic is all about... Say hello to your excessful friend for me won't you. .Hi again Taby, how wonderful that things have worked out for you guys to date. I love hearing success stories, Woody and Pusscat are one of my favourite success stories, hopefully Pusscat will post here. :-) Either way I for sure hope to hear some more on this thread..I know me n he found the place successful as far as adding a extra playmate or two now n then went in our time. Now I'm a 'just here for the forums' type of success story. I've got instant posting!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Funlover, sometimes we laugh with you... 😜😄 As far as my success here... Remember that thread about throwing a sausage down a hallway ? Describes my inbox well 😄😄😄😎 "HELLOOOOOO.... IS ANYYYBODYYYYY THERRRRE... !!! I've been fortunate to meet some extraordinary people through this place... A couple have dragged me back to their lairs and left me breathless and begging for more and some I'm hopeful that the future will provide better timing for us, some are simply friends where there is a meeting of minds and no sexual feeling at all... I'm happy with the friends I've made from this place, but I still seek the one... Hp xo 💌 Just as well I'm only here for the forums...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I met my gorgeous fwb on another adult site more than 2 years ago. We then created a couples profile about 12 months later. We have met some lovely people : ) I also met a lady from one of the RHP forums who is now a really great friend. Ms NC2147 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In my own lunch time I did meet someone wonderful from here and we had an ongoing thing for awhile. Then met someone else who I never played with but we are the best of friends. Also met someone who I had an on again off again thing with for about 4 years. But I am not so successful at interpreting acronyms! WTF is IMNHO? In my Not Honest, Not Humble opinion?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Highpriority' Funlover, sometimes we laugh with you... 😜😄 As far as my success here... Remember that thread about throwing a sausage down a hallway ? Describes my inbox well 😄😄😄😎 "HELLOOOOOO.... IS ANYYYBODYYYYY THERRRRE... !!! I've been fortunate to meet some extraordinary people through this place... A couple have dragged me back to their lairs and left me breathless and begging for more and some I'm hopeful that the future will provide better timing for us, some are simply friends where there is a meeting of minds and no sexual feeling at all... I'm happy with the friends I've made from this place, but I still seek the one... Hp xo 💌 Just as well I'm only here for the forums... We laugh at him.....Because he's worth it!!

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    11 years ago

    It's great when you see people on the forums you knew from years ago, it really brings back the memories! There are a few others Ive seen on here from when I use to frequent to forums 3/4 year ago but sadly most have disappeared! :( Taby xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In that I found what I was looking for when I joined. There have also been a few bonuses along the way that I wasn't looking for, one of which is friendships and another is knowledge and information from others on a similar path. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's good to see you too, I've noticed you pop in and out a few times. Keep your eyes open, there a few others like yourself around the place... :-D.You know, I really could go on about how I've found RHP to be successful for me in a non-sexual way. About... The extra appreciation for what I have at home... My love and building trust for the beautiful friend I met through the site a few years ago... My gratitude for the friend, who was meant to be, who helped me find and is part of my new 'family'... The lessons I've learned, about others and most importantly, myself! It's a fairy-tale story I tell ya!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When everyone's stealing your tag line... 😎 Hp xo 💌 Because I loves youse all... 💋💋😄😄💋💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Recently separated, an RHP virgin and so far VERY successful .....I'm so appreciative to have met my beautiful FwB here. Thank you RHP :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Wouldn't the fact that those regulars from years ago NOT being here be a "success story"? I'm trying to cut back on the forums, if I can wean myself off those and then the site that'll be a success story 😏 damn thing is, I'm currently addicted to a few male and female minds here.....and have made some truly wonderful friendships. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That does seem very simplistic, it does depend on what people want from the site, and I'm sadly certain that far more leave thinking they haven't achieved success than the other way around..I'm absolutely sure the success stories would be a lot more interesting from the people who are still here, hehehehe...

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    11 years ago

    I suppose leaving and not coming back is seen as the normal dating site success norm. However for me the success was being able to come back to RHP after I'd met someone and being able to share this lifestyle with them. I always said when I was single that I would rather be single and continue to have 'play only' meets until that one guy came along who could over look the fact I've been with a lot of men, stay for more than one night, actually respect me and most importantly be able to take the gamble of a long distance relationship and make it work through trust and communication. It took 4 years but I finally found him far far away on the Gold Coast (don't think we could live any further apart if we tried lol) I also always said I would never be able to successful date someone who wasn't into swinging and here I am down the track proven right with a loving partner who loves to swing just as much as I do :D In regards to regular forum users leaving, I suppose those who are able to wean themselves off the forums as seen as a success ;) Those of us who could never quite let go have developed a habit that will most likely stick with us until the day we die. lol Taby xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    After wandering through the Wilderness for quite some time , I found Myself again . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • WHY_NOT_LOOK

    WHY_NOT_LOOK

    11 years ago

    Hi Tabby yes I've meet some great long term friends from over 10 years ago, I've had 1 long term relationship from the chat room, the chat up line "you both don't meet people" I had 2 profiles. We met the next day he was late and was late for everything in the next 5 years .. Also have had a couple of casual FB friends some worked some were just hard work. Maybe one day ill put the effort into this site and meet with more like minded people. Good to hear the stories with a happy ending - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I couldn't help myself!! But like others here, if success is measured by the friends I've made here then I am a true success story :) Have I met mr right? No but I've met a few mr wrongs and learnt some lessons along the way !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm afraid. Still, the whole journey is endlessly entertaining.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    By my own criteria I have been very successful. I have met some really lovely people, some will remain friends for quite some time. It has brought me back from the wilderness and helped me to feel like a sexual being once again, to reclaim my sexuality if you will. I have not been here searching for a life partner, though I've been open to the idea, and I'm cool with not having found one. I've had some amazing experiences though I suppose there are a couple of things that I'd still like to tick off the list before I finally throw in the towel...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Awesome, this the longest retirement speech ever !!... picks up towel, folds it and puts it aside... You'll be back... hp xoBecause you're worth it...