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Are couples club the safer option?
January 06 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Go to couples club in Surry Hills, biggest night is Angel & Demon night. Some couples often arrange to meet other couples they have met online at the club. That way you are meeting in a controlled environment with other like minded people, and if you don't hit it off you there are other couples and people to chat too. Win win. The next theme night might be good on the 17th Jan. you should go. :p
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
We are looking at going on sat 18th to check things out after the meet and greet ? We also intend on going to an A and D night as well at some stage. The sat night is a good start? Meeting with unknown people in a private environment just doesn't sit right?
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all do it.... You have to get to know the people a little first then met them in a public place first to see if you hit it off. Just because you get on online doesn't mean you will like each other when you actually meet face to face. I prefer to meet for a drink somewhere public first with no expectation of having sex on the first meeting. It avoids a lot of awkwardness ... Especially if you meet a very forward couple who try and make the moves on you or even start to get naked just as you have decided that you are not interested.
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Splicey
11 years ago
That idea sounds wonderful. Except there are very few, and the pickings are very slim.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' ... Especially if you meet a very forward couple who try and make the moves on you or even start to get naked just as you have decided that you are not interested. Wow!! Couples actually do that?? that is terrible! lol
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
we thought that was the right approach. Good to receive some confirmation. The hardest part of all this seems to be meeting the right people for us. Not so easy ! Although yolo.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes known to happen...... We realised that every couple we have played with we met while we were attending the couples club.........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi guys....Looke up private house parties as an option to the clubs, as they can be quite expensive. We prefer the parties, as you get a good group of couples/singles attend. Good luck on your journey!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ooops, forgot to mention that meeting "people" from the sites can be a bit of a Hit n Miss, as you really don't know who you are meeting these days, regardless of what they state on their profile.. We've found out the hard way.. At least with the house parties, "What you see is what you get"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can also be hit and miss... In fact sometimes you can't run out of the place fast enough.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couple_Swap, umm yes some times if you meet in a private place a couple can do that. Once my old man was naked within a few Minutes while I was still doing the get to know you chat. I guess he though our date was mighty spunky. LOL. People that are used to some type of parties where you walk around nude, etc can forget that it's quite confronting for some.
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ikknowitsnaughty
11 years ago
We too have an issue with the "date".....has never worked out...and mostly a waste of time...we don't need any new friends ......have enough of those already.......much prefer the clubs or private parties......you either find a couple or single attractive or you don't...........if we don't we have had some of the best times with just us and the sexual energy of others around us....
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've found the posts on here quite interesting. My wife and I have mostly done the online meet ups as opposed to cold in a club and honestly only had about 10% of those experiences been not what the profile had stated. Swinger clubs have been very Miss as opposed to Hit. Dirty clubs (used doms, Number 2s in the shower), people out of our age range or a whole lot of single dudes have been let in. Start hooking up with your partner and others feel like they can just join in. I'd suggest parties, yeah house parties or events listed on here. Meet bulk people with no pressure. Interesting too that some people aren't looking for friends but just for a shag. More power to them, but we would prefer to make friends out of this and get a bit of rapport before shagging and its worked out very well so far.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting read.. I believe in the meet over a drink or coffee so we can all get a feel for each other and see if we want to go any further. Jay.....
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Two_Tarts
11 years ago
The opinions on the OPs question have actually surprised us a little because they seemed to lean so heavily towards the clubs. Everyone has their own views based on their experiences and what they are looking for, but so far we think The_team gave the answer that best fits our views. If we just want sex tonight with someone new and are happy to count as the floor show for the assembled spectators then a club seems great. But our experience is that we don't enjoy the attention and commentary from the assembled masses, the interuptions from people we have never met asking to join in mid act, or the glint in the eyes of the every week regulars when they spot fresh meat walk through the door. For us a night on the town doing something we think is fun where our new aquaintances come and join us is best. It gives everyone a chance to feel relaxed, fun, and sexy, where the agenda is about enjoying ourselves rather than just sex alone. If it goes nowhere it is of no importance because we still had a fun night doing what we like and it never counts as wasted time. If we like people and enjoy their company with their clothes on then clothes off later is very cool, but if we can't relax, have fun and enjoy our time with people fully clothed then really why would we bother getting naked with them anyway. There is inevitably that conversation about people being either pushy or time wasters and the fine line between those two is different for everyone so that one persons pushy will be another's time waster. That is always going to happen and seems to relate mainly to whether we all find each other sufficiently attractive enough to get naked right now or not. Making sure that there really is a mutual basis of attraction from the profiles before you agree to meet at least gives you a good starting point to help with that. So a couples club is definitely easier, if easy is what you are after, but we feel more comfortable actually choosing who we meet rather than rather than leaving it to pot luck where you really don't know what assorted gristle, vegatables, or other school parents are waiting to greet you.lol..
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RHP User
11 years ago
You must go to the wrong house parties..As we've "never" experienced a need to run out the door at one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What do you mean by house parties? I have been to organised parties where anything goes and all are welcome. Sometimes most of the people are quite old, all men, etc. Just not stuff that I am into... Or has a bad vibe or very sleazy vibe. It happens. I know people that have gone to a party and will never ever go again because they were so shocked with what they saw. Meh they were pussies lol.. But again it happens :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
First house party I went to was for kinksters I suppose. There was a woman there in her 70's who introduced herself as kinky granny and she told everyone she was very old fashioned so if you wanted her to suck your cock you would have to approach her and ask.... And a man around 60 who was a cross dresser called Michelle who was asking people to his fist his arse. I was shocked! Now I am used to those things but at the time as a newbie it was all very confronting. I am sure a lot of people would be shocked at that and may want to leave?? I guess it all depends on the people doesn't it. :) PS- no I never saw kinky granny in action and to this day I have never seen anyone get their arse fisted.... But I am keen to watch!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry Swingers clubs are usually quite vanilla so you won't see any of that... :D
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
I've always said that line dancing was the only thing I wouldn't try. Will be adding seeing geriatric arse fisting to that! Wow! Suddenly the path forward has a few thorns in the way! Fine line between pleasure and pain I guess:) oh well.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry Yesyoudo, I didn't mean to put you off!! That house party was a anything goes type of party for all bisexuals, no age restrictions, etc. I had met a few people at a meet & greet that attended these parties on occasion and they asked me to go, so I did... not sure if it was an eye opener but I am sure my mouth hit the floor a number of times. hehe Yes there are many thorns and you need to always do your homework. If you go to a house party ring the organisers and ask them if about the party if you are not sure. But Luvnya can give us better tips about house parties as I have only been to parties of two different organisers so I am no expert. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
My old playmate and I had some great experiences there. Everyone is very respectful and there is no pressure to play. You can just watch and see how you feel.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well I happen to know that a large group of RHPers will be at CC on the 17th January & for quite a few it will be their first time at a swingers club. If you are free you should go, the group should be there from around 10.30 or so. :D
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry should tell you it's a sexy beach party dress up theme on the 17th and that if you think you will want to go a few nights over the weekend you can purchase a weekend pass. Details on their website.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
On Saturday the 18th for a social get together and laugh if Couples Club is too full on for you but you want to meet a few like-minded people in a zero pressure, "normal" (yer right!! Lol) environment. Details under Events, drinks night Sydney. Ignore all the single guys registering they rarely show up! Besides it's a social event....drinks, fun and potential new friends. ~ Sry Meeks just thought I'd give it a plug!! Lol x
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RHP User
11 years ago
always love meeka's upfront and straight/honest posts
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
Indagine, we have already placed our interest in attending the social evening. We were looking at moving over to the couples club later on that night. Although we always struggle to keep to plans :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah for sure it is in more way then one ;)No stalkers at your house No problems for the family at your houseYou can walk away when ever you want tooYou don't get stuck in a bad situation, as in you can't get away fast enoughMore people to meetBetter convo'sGreat laughsFun friendly cheap night out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a couple we have tried private parties, meet and greets, swinger clubs they were all fun but we would not consider have sex with complete strangers safe at all. We much prefer to meet couples one on one, view their profiles, see their photos, make sure we are all on the same page.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'On Saturday the 18th for a social get together and laugh if Couples Club is too full on for you but you want to meet a few like-minded people in a zero pressure, "normal" (yer right!! Lol) environment. Details under Events, drinks night Sydney. Ignore all the single guys registering they rarely show up! Besides it's a social event....drinks, fun and potential new friends. ~ Sry Meeks just thought I'd give it a plug!! Lol x Here's the link: http://redhotpie.com.au/Event/The-first-2014-Sydney-meet-and-greet-31718
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
After reading all the opinions I would have to conclude that the advantages of the 'club' or 'party' seem to outweigh the meet, greet and escape alternative? Although the idea of making friends with benefits is a major driving force for us. We are now determined to attend the coupes club next friday and compare to our previous approach of friends first. What the hell is a beach theme thou? Pam anderson? the hoff ? Shark bite? some help would be good. This is obviously a pure research project to ease the path of those that follow. Stay tuned !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well do you have a mankini!! :p. How about a sexy sarong or see through shift, sexy denim shorts, a g-string, etc. I don't really know but I will say as long as you are in your come fuck me clothes you should be okay. I will probably be in a little lingerie number and very high heels... Not very be beachy but I don't care. . ;-) You know what, you can meet people at the clubs where you may hit it off and peruse a friendship outside of the club. Happens all the time! You do not have to have sex with anyone if you don't want to... There are some couples who go and don't play or only play with each other... But maybe exchange numbers with another couple that they have struck up a conversation with. It's like a big naughty meet and greet. It is just one way of meeting like minded people while you are all half naked. Not the only way and what you do when you are there is totally up to you. I have have been known to hold a man's hand, wipe his brow and offer my encouragement while he is having his cock sucked. "Come on you can do it, breath breath breath" hehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thee is an informative thread about couples club in this section where couples describe their first time at the club. You should read it. I think it's called The Couples Club -Sydney.
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Yesyoudo
11 years ago
Ok its a nice black rip curl singlet with some tony abbott's for me and maybe some high heels and a life buoy for the hotty wife ! sounds like a blast. Will report on the adventure. :)
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QLDtwo4fun
11 years ago
Talk to people on line and organise to meet at a club or party.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You're all in luck, a very close mate of ours (who has a profile on here) is opening a new swinger club in sydney in March. Knowing who he is, what sort of a man he is it's going to be a great club. Hearing the details of what he wants to achieve sounds fantastic. Can't wait for it to open, at least there will be another option for us all to go to. Competition never hurt anyone :-)
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ikknowitsnaughty
11 years ago
Can't wait ....pls post details when you can
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RHP User
11 years ago
We went to the Surry Hills club for our first event and as a toe in the water... It worked. We had a great evening and some really cool couples. The things we like most were that we never felt pressured and the people were lovely. So with that experience under our belts, we felt brave enough to meet new couples . Since then, we haven't looked back and have loved (almost) every moment. Very much looking forward to hearing about another club :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sydneycpl88
11 years ago
We decided to start out by going to the Couple Club. Having never done anything before, we went along to Angels and Demons night and we had a blast! We have been back numerous times and each time we have an awesome night. Loads of hot couples and everybody makes you feel really relaxed and comfortable. Do it! Even if it's just to watch
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