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Are older women more fun in bed
January 31 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think older women drop some of the inhibitions they held in their youth. I dont think you can say... oh yeah... older women are better in bed... I mean.. what's the difference between an old starfish and a young starfish? HugsStalky
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qwertyandme
13 years ago
I love sex, it has got better with age. will try lot more things now and more open to new things. no starfish here I love to be on top
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RHP User
13 years ago
is that sex, and the enjoyment of sex just keeps getting better Agree with Stalky about" droping inhibitions of youth". That confidence in yourself that you get as the clock winds on truly reveals itself behind closed doors (sometimes not so closed;) when you no longer care if "this red g string makes your arse look fat" you just want to pleasure and be pleasured...well at least thats how I see it:)Minxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most definately things improve with age. We no longer worry about what someone else is going to think about us, most are not as self conscious as we were when we were younger. Life has knocked a few sharp edges off. As we age we also have a greater understanding of our bodies, the way things work and exactly what we need to satisfy ourselves. Normally not so shy in telling the man what we need either.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am far more open now and I know what I want and I also know what my partner would like me to do to them. Over the years I have learnt my craft and have been practicing a really long time, you know what they say practice makes perfect. Im more a cowgirl than a starfish!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know if I'm actually any better at the act, but I'm less self-conscious about what my partner is thinking of my flabby bits, if my "oh my god" face is looking completely spastic or dying of mortification because a fanny fart happened - it's not MY fault he pushed all that air in!However, after hitting 30 sex got WAY better for me. That's what's important right?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think older men are better in bed automatically so logic dictates that just because you are an older woman, doesn't make you better in bed. Sometimes it does but a good lover is attitude, interest, passion and dedication to the pleasure of your partner and the honing of your skills... not always age. Sure I knew nothing compaired to what i know now but young guys have come a LONG way in 20 years since i was 20 and I think the same would apply to young women....at least I hope so. I think you can be 45 or 50 and still both suck and blow in bed and not in a good way.
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cjucme00
13 years ago
Love older women...I've had the most sexiest times with older women. They are much more fun and in most cases willing to try many things. Bring on the older women!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Stalky, the old starfish is drier and obviously provides a tighter fit :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cant say if an older woman is more fun in bed i wouldnt know ive never had sex with them however i can say Sex with a younger guy tends to be more fun for their desire to learn and want to please and older guy thinks he already knows what to do with me and usually doesnt like it when you comment no no i dont like it like that. With that being said who is to say the same thing doesnt happen with an older women? Everyone assumes as we get older we get better skilled maybe we just get set in our ways mind you some of those ways im told are enjoyable.so for me personally i like to listen to my partner to see what they think of what im doing however there are times when i get a little carried away and dont care cause im enjoying myself so much ;)Good question hard to answer
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Stalky, the old starfish is drier and obviously provides a tighter fit :p All starfish like to stay wet to stay alive. ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a whole lay down comedy act, not unlike ( stand up comedy) I think I am hilarious in bed,as a matter of fact some men just cant wipe the smile of their face so I must be funny as hell. Older , wiser,less inhibitions, know what we want, and those lines are laughter lines We start to get that its all good fun, and we stop taking it so serious. We finally work out how all the buttons work and we hand out instruction manuals on how to find them and operate them for the best ride. We do not have to be good little girls any more or nice girls or what ever the heck other conventions are hung around or neck like moral bricks If you cut them loose, yes anyone can be fun in bed. But to do that takes time, time to work out that what other people say or do does not mean anything once your dust. We do not have to do the starfish play dead and hope he goes away. We are more like octo pussy!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky, the old starfish is drier and obviously provides a tighter fit :p As for the older women? HELL'S YES!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mmmmmm I just can't get enough! Cougars are my cup of tea for sure Grrrrr....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think chronological age is a factor, but perhaps more in terms of "life experience" that can either add or detract from both who you are as a person as well as what you are looking to experience in life. The very delicious GG has perhaps said it the best... | Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz'...a good lover is attitude, interest, passion and dedication to the pleasure of your partner and the honing of your skills...I knew nothing compared to what i know now but young guys have come a LONG way in 20 years | Both young men and women have unlimited access to most anything their little hormonal filled minds want to absorb...yeah right, if I had a laptop back in high school and could dial it all in? I'd of locked myself in the attack with a gallon of something slippery, a beach towel and clicked "Hell yes I'm 18" on the security entrance to youporn and been gone for days. I'd probably have been one hell of a contender in the arm wrestling contests held in the pubs too. | I think in both or either...in our youth it's that old thing about "volume over quality" and whilst enthusiastic as all get out, it's the luck of endurance that makes or breaks the game. For whatever reason, the women seem to pick up on the idea that quality counts a bit sooner...maybe that first trip into your favourite upmarket adult shop and you find that nearly the whole thing is dedicated to her and the guys section is limited to a shelf or two of half of bugger all unless you start thinking outside the square a bit. As we mature a bit...I did not say age, the quant starts to move but that takes a while too and without belabouring this too much, men especially and hopefully women suddenly realize it's not "all about me" and the ultimate in pleasure is what you can give and in return you discover that you get back tenfold what you give. | I think some young guys may perceive older women as being "easier"...I sure as hell did when I was back in uni and would ditch the hot night clubs and head for what we might now call the old cougar bars about two hours before closing. Don't know if it had to do with how much they had been drinking or my utter lack of looking for anything more than firing the gun...but it did work. Guys, if you are thinking that today you may be in for the surprise of your life...you might think you are heading for McDonalds but these ladies are going to hand you a menu with stuff on it you might not even be able to pronounce. | Younger women too...and both here and in the "real world" (yes, there is one outside of RHP et al) start to wonder if perhaps someone more mature might not be a better choice for exploring their own sexuality, and bless their skin tight short skirts, fancy hosiery and stiletto heels for breaking out of the chronological age paradigm. The gate does open and close in both directions. | Sometimes "life experiences" can leave a bitter taste behind or perhaps we start to search for that "youth we never had" sort of experience...but again, older women and younger men? Makes you wonder who is running the game on who at that point. What I don't enjoy and try to avoid bringing to the table are the more negative aspects of my own life experiences....damn I hate listening to all that fertilizer about "the ex" or "what I have missed" or "I'm better because of my birthday age", it's all nonsense. Could be that those counting the years prefer someone with less life experience as they are generally (and I do acknowledge in advance there are heaps of generalizations here...don't bother trying to eviscerate this post based on any of them) less challenging and/or more easily suited to shaping to your current flavour of the day. In this venue...now I just started to laugh, as anything that looks female is on the radar and I love watching all the young guys suck up. "Oh yeah...older women" and "Oh yeah...blonds" and "Oh yeah...women with small breasts"...there does seem to be a theme? | Bottom line for me...have fun and enjoy what you are doing. You never really know what you are looking for until you find it and not surprisingly, we always find it in the last place we look. Now back over to that thread about younger women and older men...I plan on lying my ass off to convince every woman under 30 that us more mature folks are way better and they should jump over the carcasses of the younger guys to find one. | ...thanks, for letting me play.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to agree with a lot of what Midnight said. Younger men are more open about going for older women , I agree, that, yes older women are an easy target to some degree. Lets face it when your in bed with a six pack it beats a keg. The one thing is that if you do the maths , young men like older women for the one night only. And maybe older women like younger men for the same reason. This is not to say that winter summer relationships do not work. They do but I am not talking about a relationship I am talking about sex only. Older women are like plan B girls. You go to the pub, you look around and then you see all the pretty, too hard and have to buy them drinks girls, have been taken while your poking your elbow into your mate, saying “fuck she looks like a good root.” Then the older gal, walks past you on her way to the bathroom and that wicked glint in her eye and that come here sweet thing look, and there ya go! willie turns its one eye away from the young uns to that older knowing swing of hips. I was not lucky to find an older lover till I was around thirty, a married man. Passionate and tortured soul that he was and we made love on his font lawn in the middle of a raging storm at four am in the morning. Just one of those memories that make me smile. I think on rhp older women drive the bus, well all women on rhp drive the bus. In real life like in a pub, younger men drive the bus. Watch them circle like sharks when its closing time and yet they have not said to much to the women before hand. Just my observations.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Old starfish with legs crossed... all gummed up like mozzarella on toast..... pass my rubber gloves and my snorkel love.... I'm going in. hehe.HugsStalky
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jensta
13 years ago
Older Woman ..... better with AgeAs they know what they want.... & know how to make it happenalso no inhibition's ..... Confidence is Sexy..... xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would have to say that on average, older is better. However, I'v had seriously good sex with women my own age and with the same with considerably older. It purely comes down to attitude, willingness to learn and interest in what you're doing. A woman (or man for that matter) who believes lying there, bloke jumps on top, does his thing and hops off is the way to go about it is not going to change whether she is 18 or 40.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to ask, "Older than whom?". If you're asking whether a woman older than your own 23 years would be better, I would say, generally yes. At some point though, she is going to get as good as she will ever be. Ofcourse the same is true of males.
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smo669
13 years ago
While it's always hot to bonk with a hot young girl, all fresh and tight and smooth, I find that as girls mature, find what they really like and lose their inhibitions then the sex gets way better Of course as you mature yourself, the age range that appeals gets wider and wider, in teen years sex with anyone 30 or older would have been totally out of the question. Oh to have the wisdom of middle age with the libido of youth!!!
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smo669
13 years ago
While it's always hot to bonk with a hot young girl, all fresh and tight and smooth, I find that as girls mature, find what they really like and lose their inhibitions then the sex gets way better Of course as you mature yourself, the age range that appeals gets wider and wider, in teen years sex with anyone 30 or older would have been totally out of the question. Oh to have the wisdom of middle age with the libido of youth!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes old women end young men more fun
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