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Are some people on this site illiterate????

January 19 2011

Hi everyone We are a couple trying this sort of thing for the first time, we know what we want and we thought we had made it very clear in our profile of what we DON'T want. We have listed that we are only interested in women, NO couples and DEFINATELY NO MEN!!! The problem that we have is that 99% of all people that view our profile, send us flirts/messages and request to be our friend are couples and single men. We have stated very clearly in our profile that Adam is not bisexual and Kristy does not play alone with other couples or men , so why does this happen to us on a daily basis? We take the time to read through every profile completely before trying to contact another member and if the warning that we are trying to contact someone who isn't looking for our Gender/Age/ Relationship status "pops up" we respect that and cancel our contact attempt. So why don't other members have the same respect and courtesy??? Can these people even read or do they just not bother reading profiles. We are sure that we are not the only people on here with this problem so we wanna know (a) what is wrong with some of the members on here? and (b) how do you deal with it? Thanks Adam_and_Kristy

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RHP User

14 years ago

Yes, it happens to all of us. I just filter out the ones who have honestly read my profile and respond to those. The rest I tend to ignore other wise this would turn into a full time job. Although it's annoying to have guys responding to your profile, I suppose it's also a huge compliment that Kristy is so hot. You know how guys think... dick first, brain second. I'm sure it won't be long before you find the lucky woman. Hugs, Miss Saturn

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RHP User

14 years ago

LOL, welcome to RHP.....

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RHP User

14 years ago

Set up a reply template... it's easy.The problem arises because profiles are not completely honest. The number of "straight" people approaching other guys for sex is higher than you could ever imagine... and couples put women as their preference on their profile and yet some still approach men. They do that to limit the numbers I guess... but still.. dudes are then just having a crack at it.HUgsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

I have to say if a profile is requesting a sex, of which I am not a member I don't send messages...Mind you I have had them (message/flirt) from couples where it says Females only...so go figure. . . LC

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RHP User

14 years ago

I get messages saying they loved reading my profile when it is obvious that they barely got past the pic. My profile is very specific so they are easy to catch out. Use Stalky's method of a template reply or just ignore them.

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RHP User

14 years ago

To the OP, you can't rip into people, whether they be single males or whatever for viewing your profile. How else are they suppose to know exactly what you are after. BUT and I repeat for emphasis BUT you can definitely vent your frustration at those that then ignore your criteria and assume you couldn't resist their charms.Stalky (as usual, the voice of wisdom here) is quite correct about misleading profiles. I know several couples that have "NO MEN" plastered all throughout their profile yet actively seeks single men. Their excuse is it gives them the chance to select and not get bombarded. Whilst I agree on that and can sympathise it is funny to see them in the chat room telling one guy to "F... OFF" and "READ OUR DAMN PROFILE" yet in the next line offer some single guy a night of fun. No wonder so many get confused here.Mooka

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oh_wowsers

14 years ago

Hi guys,I agree with everyone has been saying. It's so common to get a large number of unwanted messages and flirts, but that's just the nature of rhp. Different strokes for different folks. It's a bit like a party - Say "Hello pretty lady!" to those who interest you and "Thank you, but no" to those that don't. Chill out and just go with it.This said - don't totally discount messages from couples as the female of the couple may be interested in playing but just not wanting to announce it to the world. To save time and frustration, maybe send a friendly template message to say thanks for the flirt/message, restate that you are only looking for women and happy to chat further if this is an arrangement that works for them.Good luck guys!Xx Carla

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RHP User

14 years ago

Im not saying this happens all the time, as im sure there are some funny folks out there,a down right wallies too... but the flip side to this topic is that a wink/flirt doesn't always equal a person wants sex. Sometimes I believe some people are just saying wow nice profile or pics etc..just paying a compliment only.... not necessarily....hey lets play...?? just a thought

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RHP User

14 years ago

WAHT EVA DO YUO MAEN DOOD????? LOL Seriously though there has been some pretty weird arse spelling on here, but obviously for the ones who can't spell, i don't know some people are just more clever than others.....MOST only do a couple of typos, because sometimes the letters don't always come up on the screen, and obviously don't spell check before posting..... But there are some others who i have seen that just don't have any literacy skills AT ALL, mainly the younger ones..... PLAYFULGUY.....

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RHP User

14 years ago

And obviously some reading classes need to be taken for some of these people aswell.....By the way you spelled DEFINITELY WRONG.....lol PLAYFULGUY.....

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'suncoastguy4fun1' Im not saying this happens all the time, as im sure there are some funny folks out there,a down right wallies too... but the flip side to this topic is that a wink/flirt doesn't always equal a person wants sex. Sometimes I believe some people are just saying wow nice profile or pics etc..just paying a compliment only.... not necessarily....hey lets play...?? just a thought Ive done that a zillion times. People ought to compliment each other more.HUgsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Agree!!!! Some people just don't get it!!! Miss_Saturn....one thing I don't like is the generalization that all guys think with their penis first...some do but not all of us, and a like to think of myself as a guy with a brain!!! (that actually works pretty well too!) Xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

Hey everyone, Thanks for all your comments. Nice to see we aren't the only people with this prob. Thanks to Stalky for suggesting the "template reply" idea. Thanks to Mooka for a bit of insight into why this problem occurs (those couples should be more honest!!). To everyone else thanks for sharing your stories. I do understand the 'compliment' side of the argument, but on the other hand we have recieved ALOT of very forward flirts from men and couples. To name a few "Two words, when and where?", "You're exactly waht i'm looking for, please message me" and the most popular "I've got some free time, wanna meet up?". We are definately being honest when we say no men and couples, Adam is definately not Bi, Kriaty doesn't play alone and is very staisfied with what adam has!, We are not interested in other men "watching" and we have no interest in swapping partners. Thanks again, we hope we are more successful in the future.

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