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Are straight dating apps killing RHP? Or am I moving into a different play demographic?
September 24 2014
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6exxy
10 years ago
Well this is the same problem straight single guys have on RHP. Single women category is very thin in all ages. There are many options for dating these days, so if you're looking for women it can be hard. Location makes a difference, here in WA it is even thinner. However there are some oppotunities 🌞
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
speak about the demographic you are seeking, but I would believe that you would be reasonably aware that there are constantly evolving new sites to try and grab everyone's attention (and money). A few years ago, sites like tinder et al didn't exist, you only had the more mainstream computer based services like RHP was at the beginning. Almost everyone in the younger generations, love to try all that is new, so you will probably come to find that the bountiful choices you previously had here, a number of them will have migrated to other sites. I don't think it's necessarily an age related issue as you have put forward, as I have noticed that there are actually a relatively small number of ladies in the 'under 30' range when I do my own searches (granted, they are different to yours). I think they have perhaps just become more fickle here and have moved on to the next newest trend. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Think of it this way, a street starts out with one chines restaurant and then along comes an other type, then another type. People go from place to place depending on tastes. Young women are using the internet as the main place to meet guys, for future relationships. Bars are to crowed , too noisy and they tend to just hang with their girlfriends, guys hang with their mates. People drink to much, combine that with drugs and its not always a good night out. I think also as far as my girls are concerned they are conservative, ( very odd with a mother like me) . They and their female friends are all mid to late 20s and not one of a group of about ten has a boyfriend. They all have busy careers, all university educated, some with double degree. My girls and some of their friends actually left Perth as they could not handle going out here anymore, especially to be bombarded with drunk drug fueled cashed up guys, who thought no was a definite maybe. Non of them wear overt sexy outfits, more class than arse. So they use the date sites but still end up with the want a fuck guys on the first date. I feel for women today. there are no nice social ways now to meet up and get to know a guy, you cant do it at work anymore.I cannot comment on girl on girl play but some get pissed at pubs and think by kissing and implying they are bi will get horny toads to look their way. bi seems to be a new flavor to get attention.
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
I don't use a lot of the publicly available apps because they seem to be very straight and just about straight sex and hooking up- also because a lot of them tap into your FB profile or mobile number which means my behaviour becomes more public. I only use Rhp because it's private and it's a bit more kinky and that's what I'm after. With regards to girl/girl hookups for me it's usually Rhp, events advertised in Rhp or bi friendly venues where I can find someone with no tech help 😋 Xxviolet
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
To the good old days of meeting someone organically?? *sighs*.......goneski as technology has taken over! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
In my eyes should they get out into the real world. Living prof here that meeting someone organically and in a natural environment does work. One never knows what's just around the corner...it may surprise you, when you least expect it. Foxy
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dimples4fun67
10 years ago
yes i agree a lot more sites but all the same most want to talk sex straight up even on the dating sites but please go back to your old format chat RHP IT WAS MUCH BETTER i think a lot of people left here because of that. i did for a while and hardly go in chat now. happy chatter
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BrightBubbly
10 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' Well this is the same problem straight single guys have on RHP. Single women category is very thin in all ages. There are many options for dating these days, so if you're looking for women it can be hard. Location makes a difference, here in WA it is even thinner. However there are some oppotunities 🌞 It's just as hard for us to meet guys too sometimes... Sometimes it's easier online, the communication barrier doesn't seem to be as big as face to face.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you for all of the responses. It seems that maybe the world is just evolving.. Finding a sexy, single, intelligent, bisexual woman is almost like trying to find a unicorn lately. But I am still peering at the horizon with my binoculars regardless!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it incredible that there are 19 year olds on here. At that age they should be out socialising with their mates. A sad sign of the times.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have to agree some previous comments that RHP allows the kinkier and more taboo interests come to the surface. There are things that I joined for and have since tried and enjoyed that I wouldn't like to become knowledge of my associates. I haven't had trouble getting dates with girls my age but RHP gives access to a group of people who (some of) have similar views and interests. That is the reason why I am on this site at a younger age, not due to my lack of a social life.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I just think that when you are still in your teens you are still discovering the joy of one on one sex and exploring your kinky side comes later. If a nineteen year old is on here taking part in three/moresomes and orgies regularly, I wonder if he will be able to have a one on one relationship in later life?
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rc_80
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' But I just think that when you are still in your teens you are still discovering the joy of one on one sex and exploring your kinky side comes later. If a nineteen year old is on here taking part in three/moresomes and orgies regularly, I wonder if he will be able to have a one on one relationship in later life? Yeah, because everyone is here exclusively for threesomes and orgies, and by being here, they arent allowed to actually ever go out with their mates.... Having an account on tinder, RHP, bangdownunder, whatever, doesnt mean anything other than they can now chat to and search for potential partners when they arent already out, like a tuesday night in front of the tele...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hmm, I should have said that this was a 19 year old who messaged me, I wasn't generalising. Not everyone is on here for the swinger side, I'm not, I just thought it was sad that the site seemed to actually be this young guys social life. But thank you for your reply........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone uses Tinder these days. For dates, hooking up, prospected relationships.
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nibblemebi
10 years ago
Is very small in my opinion. Finding other attractive likeminded women is like finding unicorns because most of the 'good' women are taken, and very few of their partners are happy to let them play girl on girl alone. I'm lucky like yourself, but I do agree it is so hard to find :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' In my eyes should they get out into the real world. Living prof here that meeting someone organically and in a natural environment does work. One never knows what's just around the corner...it may surprise you, when you least expect it. Foxy Are you sure "All electronic devices" should be scrapped foxxy... What about your fav stash of special errr, implements?? G xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I loved the unicorn reference. I take it you too have seen the crazy/hot clip? I think I'm just at an age where quality is preferred to quantity and gorgeous, available, bi 'unicorns' are doing a better job of hiding.. I guess I should be glad I've encountered even one in my travels :)
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