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Are there any genuine non-judgemental guys who really want to meet in Hobart??????

September 15 2012

I am finding this site very frustrating as with other sites i have been on but not on anymore.I get flirts galore and i respond but then nothing?????I have just experienced scenario with a guy from another site - we started chatting last Monday and he seemed really nice - wanted to know more about him - i was hesitant because i have self confidence issues - he was fine with what i told him - i made it clear to him if he was sure he wanted to meet me as i am on the large side - he said it didn't bother him - so here i am feeling a little more confident thinking finally someone likes me for who i am and then BANG last night he said after seeing a full body pic of me which i was very hesitant to show him as i hate my pic being taken - he said i should start taking better care of myself and go to a gym - i was hurt by his comments especially when i had told him what i was like.I also told him that i have been with a couple of guys and they have told me that i am very attractive and sexy for my size and they would definitely have fun with me again.Where do guys get off wanting to know info and then leave you feeling confident and then bust your balloon.Well all i can say is just because i am a large size girl i can still fuck as good as the rest of them!!!!!!!!!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some of us are genuine ;) Though the same some also do not pay for credits on these sites. Keep your chin up. Fuyn times are sure to cum your way ;)

  • ron_hys

    ron_hys

    12 years ago

    What a complete asshole. I so sorry that someone could do that to you. His loss sexylittlesecret anyway bigger girls make better lovers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That's just not good, large ladies are just as good if not even better, if both people willing the sex can be great.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    just here to chat,,maybe more tzr999@live.com.au for more

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes there are, i think larger women are great lovers and know what they want and it's a shame some men dont get that! and if larger women are not there thing they should just move on and not people down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks guys for your comments - certainly makes a girl feel good about herself knowing there are genuine guys out there that like us bigger gals.Thanks for your support

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sexylittlesecret'Thanks guys for your comments - certainly makes a girl feel good about herself knowing there are genuine guys out there that like us bigger gals.Thanks for your support

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I LOVE BBW i think they are beautiful and real..and are great lovers and dont worry littlesecret i would take you out any time and make love to you..if we hit it off natually....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey sexylittle would love to hook up if your keen...coffee and a cuddle nothing better..i am a trial member but you have one message you can send maybe i could be the lucky one...LOVE BBW..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hey sexylittle . . . looks as if you are getting lots of attention now . . . but likewise if interested come over and have a look at my profile

  • ForeverLovers

    ForeverLovers

    12 years ago

    Hi sexylittlesecret. Mrs FL here ....... another BBW from Hobart! It sounds to me like you did everything right in your contact with this guy ..... so his loss.   I've always been very upfront about my size because I know that larger women aren't for everyone. Some people are focussed on body shape/type, others are more interested in personality/sensuality. But because I'm very conscious about my size I make it very clear on our profile my height, weight, body type and then in our description I go even further. It just means that when people make contact, they have a much better idea of who they are contacting.   My suggestion to you after looking at your profile (love the username and profile pic btw!) would be to complete the "Looks" and "Body Type" sections and spend some time getting more specific in the "About Me" and "I am looking for" sections. In my experience, the more info you put in the better the contacts you will get. If ever you are looking for ideas, of course you're welcome to look at our profile, but also do searches for other women on RHP who have indicated on their body type they are "Large" (under Advanced Search). Some of these women have very sexy and inspirational profiles.   I don't ascribe to the "BBW's make better lovers" and "the more cushion, the better the pushing!" sayings these days. Life isn't that black and white. Everyone has something to offer regardless of their size or shape. On a site like this it is simply a matter of getting your wants and needs out there, expressed as succinctly as possible, and "advertising" yourself in the same way. By being genuine and open yourself hopefully you will in turn get to meet genuine guys.   And a little hint to anyone reading this who just has the RHP suggested phrases in your profile ...... it's kind of a turn-off. The way I look at it is this; if someone can't be bothered writing something about themselves and what they are looking for, they probably aren't going to be the kind of person who would entice and seduce me! So take 10 minutes and give your profile a makeover and hopefully you will reap the rewards.   Best wishes sexylittlesecret ...... I hope you meet the person you are looking for, and have great fun in the process!   Mrs FL x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    well maybe some women in your situation should realise what they want and not play games and tell people not interested in seeing anyone and stay on here...no hard feelings but do have feelings as you do and thats all i have to say on that subject...hope you find what you seek..oh sorry you have i was told...lol...not bitter just a bit confused...stay safe and happy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not all guys are assholes!

  • TasM40

    TasM40

    12 years ago

    As far as I'm concerned there's nothing wrong with being larger sized. Women usually know what they like, or can be shown sometimes, regardless of size!Bring it on :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If you want a decent man...travel. Cause you won't find one in Tassie. They like to talk the talk but rarely do they walk the walk

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    rarely do I find anyone in tassie willing to meet (even after I make it clear Im happy to travel) - well all but the lovely Roxxy of course lol   I see how hard it is for Roxxy and am thinking Sydney is fast becoming her home away from home.   But its not just Tassie guy you are always going to find people who cant visulaise your size regardless how descriptive you are. Its always going to be clearer to them if they can see what you look like.   Kisses Focus

  • hotxxxfun09

    hotxxxfun09

    12 years ago

    Hi sexylittlesecret, im frustrated with this site as well, it seems that people are very judgemental, i am a little bit shy with posting photos of myself on this site as hobart is very a very small place, id love to meet you over a coffee and see what happens, you never know we may just end up chatting, i love people for who they are inside. As only being a guest member i find it hard to reply to anyone, if youd like to say hi id love to hear from you. Big hug and keep your happy face on. hotxxxfun09

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    heya to me he and all the rest of them are dicks really they can't handle bbw, curvy sexy women I myself found bbw curvy women are way better in bed lol so I guess his lost don't worry to much I'm sure you'll find a nice guy if not Sydney's the go lol take care just me 2cent Francis

  • Nedd455

    Nedd455

    12 years ago

    Hi there Sexylittlesecret (luv the nick)   Dont let it get u down I have run into the same problem on ocassions, I'm not judgemental and just enjoy spending time with all sorts of ladies, luv to catch up for a chat some time and see where it leads us too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ASSHOLES are the one who ask for something (pictures) then use abuse to other as a form of compensation for their own short-comings

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    sexylittlesecretDon't worry! Not all guys are the same. Some are shit and some aren't. I guess you've picked the wrong one. I wouldn't mind going out with you, you seem like a nice person. I don't know what you are after but I guess it's not that complicated. Let me know what do you have in mind maybe we can work something out. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Merry xmas everyone and a happy new year

  • Nedd455

    Nedd455

    12 years ago

    Hi Sexy Would luv to catch up for a chat some time - enjoy Curvy women xx