Are they couples or single guys?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  RHP shouldnt allow a profile unless, or until, its been verified with a photo. and yes, the pics hould be updated too. perhaps they can cycle photos out of the system once theyve been on a profile for a certain amount of time....and make space for recent pics.......a huge amoung of couples are really guys, typing with one hand and searching for something they dont really want to catch.......its about the chase, not the capture.......or didnt you know that?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Heaps of couples here are pretending to be single guys. We always get the old 'she can't make it but I'm free' b-s. Pretty lame to offer before everyone has even had a chance to meet. We got caught out a few years back with this guy pretending to be a couple in north Sydney. He lead us to believe he was with a partner until we got there where she mysteriously had to drive to Canberra 30 mins before we got there. What a doofus. He was heaps creepy anyway so just as well lol. But yeah we get it all the time, single guys faking it. People writing to you like they are demanding pics is a giveaway. Anything to do with private chats is a single guy trap in our experience. Always makes me lol when they private chat us on other sites and say they have a list of girls they can bring and take you thru them one by one. Desperation stinks dude......

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We find a lot of single guys on couple profiles too.When the man says that he is available to meet, but something has come up for the woman, our response is simply - "We would love to meet you both so we would prefer to wait for an opportunity to meet the two of you together."And not a single one of those so called "couples" have we then met.

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  rupamohan

  13 years ago

  Forcing PPL to verify is not a practical solution. What is practical to do..   1) Give choice to block winks / msgs from single men / unverified members etc..   2) Add another section in profile "Rules" this section can be exclusively used by members to state further rules for intiating contact. When some one tries to contact ...this section needs to flash / highlight in the window where you tick to send winks/ msg

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  so.....the 'softly softly' approach will work? we dont think so.......piss the losers off, and guarantee that paying clientele actually get what we pay for..... the 'verification' pic is for site management only...and should weed out the wankers and dreamers from those who actually intend to follow through............the way it is now, theres nothing stopping a 14 year old boy from putting a profile together......there are too many loose ends to make profiles actually real, or remotely genuine.... touted laws that require credit card verification to join adult sites (even as non paying) might help...but they arent here yet.......... blocking them after theye winked/flirted/messaged you is already too late....and handing it to consumers again lets the site off the hook........its a piss off to receive messages (we receive dozens each week) from frauds and fakes..........rhp needs to fix this...they are the supplier of this flawed product.........

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We already have both of these... The block function and search criteria, but it's still a sausage festival of fakers. Its not hard to lie on the Internet for these guys

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I guess it is hard for the poor single guy to get a look in so he has to try all means to do so. I find that even though my profile states no couples, they still look, they still send messages and flirts by the dozen. Often thier profiles are stating no single women, men only. Maybe they get to thinking that they may like the change or the variety. Lord knows I cannot be THAT irrisitable when thier wives are soooo perfect..but still they look. Jane is a tidy tasty lil thing as well. When you change your profile, a message comes up on the stream of the people who have rated you hot and your friends so then they go back into your profile to see what changes you have made. Nothing more sinister than that happening.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We dont get a lot of that now since we added the note below at the bottom of our profile......Or are we awake to it now and any talk about " Does your wife like a mfm 3 somes " Its a Goodbye , without any further communication.     Please don't approach us as a couple and change the plan to a MFM 3 some without your wife as the answer from us will be a instant No.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  This has happened to us several times now, probably our own fault as busy and dont have time for chat/webcam etc. We've had couples agreeing to meet and then the day before telling us that they broke up last week and it's now just the guy.....or the most common is "my wife is away this week, but I'm free". Like previous posts we never hear from them again! We now only interested in verified couples and have stopped ticking Men for searching as the volume of winks & messages increases x 100s!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We don't rely have a issue with guys sending us messages if its during a time when we have guys turned on in our profile mlike now then they are welcome. If its a time when we don't have the ticked then we just delete them without even reading the message no probs at all its not like your going to be able to stop them.It was more that I thaught it was funny. I was just having a laugh at how all the fake couples get busted when they message us again as soon as we turn sigle guys on. I really dont think ticking (single guys) is a change in our profile that would come up as something new if we were on a couples hot list. My guess is we come up on a search when the man of the fake couple types (couples looking for single guys) in the search criteria. Now if they are a couple they wouldn't be searching this.I really think perhaps RHP could make it harder for a single guy to make a fake couple profile. I don't think there is anything RHP can do about the real couples who are just window shoppers though. Especially if they are paying members its there choice how they want to use the web sight.As far as changing ones profile to stop all this we prefer not to mention it all .No matter what you decide to type in your profile and no matter how extra large or extra bold statements you place in your profile. It will not stop people from sending a message it will be ignored or just not read in the 1st place. All it ends up doing giving you a profile looks like a mix between a huge rule book and a complaints box.It creats a real negative stigma to your profile. Its like going into a restaurant and when the waitress comes to take your order you say. I will have the fish but don't burn it, put to much salt on it and if I find a hair in it I will be very upset upset. Don't even think about bringing it to my table if its taken more than 10 min. If I find a bone I wont give a tip. Well that night be honestly how you feel when your order is taken but it starts things off real negative and I wouldnt be suprised if they spat on your fish.I feel the same happens if you fill your profile with complaints and rules.Tim

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We're here for the pics as well as to meet people, so apologies to all those women and couples we have pissed off by looking at their profiles a few times. If you really don't like it, you could always put your pics in the private gallery . As it is, we can't see the really hot ones as we haven't paid for a membership. To be honest, we're on this site more for the pics and the forums as we have profiles elsewhere where we can send messages if we really want some fun (although we're more than happy for people to send us messages on here!)

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  rupamohan

  13 years ago

  Though we have profile block function we don't have.. single men / unverified member block function. This will help. Where as it is easy to fake ...it is more or less easy to spot as well. Also we have a choice not to respond to unverified member. The bottom line is if I see who has wasted my time it is 5% fake profiles bcos you move past quickly. 95% timewaster are PPL who are physically real but mentally fake. Now how do u get rid of such fakes ..lol Quoting 'fionabee' I guess it is hard for the poor single guy to get a look in so he has to try all means to do so. I find that even though my profile states no couples, they still look, they still send messages and flirts by the dozen. Often thier profiles are stating no single women, men only. Maybe they get to thinking that they may like the change or the variety. Lord knows I cannot be THAT irrisitable when thier wives are soooo perfect..but still they look. Jane is a tidy tasty lil thing as well. When you change your profile, a message comes up on the stream of the people who have rated you hot and your friends so then they go back into your profile to see what changes you have made. Nothing more sinister than that happening. Quoting 'Ctowntwo'We already have both of these... The block function and search criteria, but it's still a sausage festival of fakers. Its not hard to lie on the Internet for these guys

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The bottom line is if I see who has wasted my time it is 5% fake profiles because you move past quickly. 95% time waster are PPL who are physically real but mentally fake. Now how do u get rid of such fakes ..lolI agree with this although its most likely 50% or so not 95% but it sure feels that way some times. There is no real way to weed this out as its a mental dissension the people are making. Its not like RHP can get them to sign a contract that they are willing to meet in person and not just talk about it.Personally the party - club scene inst really our cup of tea. Although one positive thing I can see with them. You know the people there are real and not just talking about it. They at least have it in them to meet others in person. But its not for everyone us included.One different take on the above that I thought posativly about is social drinks nights. Where a group of people can get a chance to do the meet and great with a group of genuine people. This way its simply a social night in a everyday atmosphere. Its nice to be able to just pop in for a few drinks to show your face and meet a few people at the one time.Perhaps more drinks nights need to be organisedTim

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We are a couple but I (the male) always do the searching and vetting. I am sure that there are many couples where one does most of the looking (sometimes the lady but likely the male more often)and that may explain the increase. In our case we are both in the pictures and I will always send face pictures of us both by email but again I do the corresponding. You could also ask to speak to the lady on the phone, though we rarely speak to couples on the phone for family reasons but will always meet other couples as a couple. Should be simple enough to sort out the real couples from the males pretending to be couples by asking for a 'couple' photo though I guess you could waste time and messages doing so!

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