M53
Are we really so petty
April 29 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
You wont be recruiting me as a sub anyway. This is fantasy land for many. If you do not measure up visually then you are not going to get past a first message so make those pics the best you can. Does that make me shallow? Do I really care? I have met many from this site who can and will say shallow is the least of my personality traits... Mate, I am deep, soul deep but I am here for a perv...not a lasting connection. So put up those cock pics or I just aint interested. Now your profile does say it is 8" to 9" so put 'em up Baby, lets see the goods.
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RHP User
13 years ago
what everyone is looking for Max...you are looking for your thing (thats great) The girls are looking for their own thing too, and yes attraction plays a very big part.They are not shallow simply because they need to feel that attraction, they are being decisive , as they are the ONLY person who knows what it will take to get them off. If the girls say yes to every guy who decides he likes her...what does that make her? easy? absolutely no standards? desperate?You boys need to realise there is a real person behind the profile, this isn't a fucking shopping catalogue
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maxy Maxy Maxy... come on we all know first impressions count and as DGT says we have to feel some sort of attraction. It's not a personal thing, we can't all be everyone's cup of tea. And yes, I judge people by their photos because it tells me something about them. To me its all about the face. And if you think I am shallow because of that, so be it. A guy I met awhile ago likened RHP as logging on everyday and looking at the menu. Too bad he was only interested in cheap takeaway and not into fine dining. xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
up to the point of telling you to use that "enormase" brain of yours to think about proof reading your own comment before hitting the post button... And well said D_G_T...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I feel pretty Oh so prettyI feel pretty and witty and gay And I pity Any girl who isn't me today I feel charming Oh so charming It's alarming how charming I feel And so pretty That I hardly can believe I'm real See the pretty girl in that mirror there? Who can that attractive girl be? Such a pretty face Such a pretty dress Such a pretty smile Such a pretty me! I feel stunning And entrancing Feel like running And dancing for joy For I'm loved By a pretty wonderful boy
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RHP User
13 years ago
It could be.....(and perhaps us women are a shallow bunch... tut tut shame on us.....cause guys arent are they ?) ..but I just finished reading your profile.....and as much as I admire most alpha confident man, your last sentence of "being the best out there" just make me smirk and shake my head...yeah rite...whatever........tell him his dreaming...!!!! Too bad he was only interested in cheap takeaway and not into fine dining. Loved that line Meeka..
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
and name SLK
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bit of a change..the pic is pretty isnt it ? gorgeous blue..hope you are well
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RHP User
13 years ago
Max, have you been told it's because of your photo or are you just assuming it's your photo?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think its the pic that is putting them off - its the profile! Pusscat
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RHP User
13 years ago
You see Max, it is not your pic or your enormous brain,....best to use a spell check if you make that boast..in your profile you come across as arrogant and charmless. We non-subservient big girls are not looking for that Max,but I admire your sense of humour....you did at least give me a giggle. A stable of Subs?....neigh Max neigh.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think It's more we all know who and what we are looking for. I think most people judge a picture and what your profile says well i do there hasto be something there.The same as mine someone's red my profile and theyasked for a picture they didn't like it "oh well no worries" I'm not everyone's cup of tea.I didn't know you were judged on the way you wrote written words !!! "I now know you are"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ohh, FFS, it's dominaNt NOT dominate! This itself would explain a lot and I didn't even get past that to read the "I'm the best" line.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why does the image of a broken down old barn with a tumbleweed rolling slowly through it come to mind.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you're 40 I am a fabulous fucking 27
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think all you'll find in that stable is a lot of horseshit Krissy
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RHP User
13 years ago
'petty'? for not liking a photo? how does that work? for us, there has to be a physical attraction...so yea, we'll say no every time on the basis of a picture/pictures we don't like.....'petty' would be calling us 'shallow' for being honest......that, we just don't get at all.
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
Your profile wording is the real tragedy, and to be honest the pic isn't very flattering, but writing a thread about how you're not getting anywhere because sub women are selective is really the icing on the Dumbinant cake.Good Luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' Your profile wording is the real tragedy, and to be honest the pic isn't very flattering, but writing a thread about how you're not getting anywhere because sub women are selective is really the icing on the Dumbinant cake.Good Luck! Apparently this is the national diet of all Wannabedoms
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you 'MissSarahCurious' for that one! Can I export it over to Fetlife? I think I could get a lot of mileage from it over there ;)And I'm glad 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' jumped on the word dominate being a verb (saved me having to do it), that so often screams newbie on bdsm forums.As to the actual topic, we all have the right to our own preferences when it comes to what attracts us sexually, personally a guy having a pretty face is not high on my list of criteria, I look for other aspects, both physical and intellectual as being more important to me. But if facial features are important to somebody in their level of attraction to another then that's their prerogative.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I must be petty I only got called that yesterday because I replied to message with a kind "Thanks but no thanks" after looking at the profile. Yes physical attraction is a major part of this site. When I check someones profile the first thing I do is check out the pics if I like what I see I scroll down to the bottom to see the rest of the profile. But oh well if petty is what it is I am proud to be petty
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RHP User
13 years ago
There ya go Maxy,by looking at these posts, I think you have wandered into the wrong stable.Stalls are empty,fillies have bolted. x Hugs H
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
Quoting 'AllWomanMelb' Thank you 'MissSarahCurious' for that one! Can I export it over to Fetlife? I think I could get a lot of mileage from it over there ;) Where do you think I got the term? ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AllWomanMelb'. But if facial features are important to somebody in their level of attraction to another then that's their prerogative. I am not saying that they have to have a beautiful face.. not at all. But it's something about a persons face that attracts me... I think it has a lot to do with their eyes. Maybe a feeling that I get. Otherwise, a mental connection is more important to me certainly for great sex. xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your profile comes across as arrogant, not confident. If you are as experienced as you say you are then you would know that you need to engender some trust to be able to attract submissive women and nothing you have written does anything to make someone want to trust you. It's all about you and what you want and not what you can do for your subs. A submissive wants to be taken on a journey into the world of pleasure and pain not into the world of someone who thinks he is too superior to bother with a dictionary or spellchecker.Your pic does you no favours. How about a nice shirt in a better light and not your workers singlet in the light from the floorlamp?I think you will find that many of the women don't judge a profile by the pic at all and judge on the overall package.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Max, do women tell you that it is due to your photo, or is that your assumption?I do not believe it is shallow to take looks in to consideration. I don't believe you do either, otherwise why would you have a photo displayed (kudos to you for having one up too!) It's called attraction and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it is also only one part of what makes someone attractive.Your profile wording gives you the opportunity to display some of the other aspects of attraction - your personality. For me, it is this part of "you", that is, the wording of your profile, that I believe is not doing you any favours.It is not just the spelling, it is a combination of lack of care taken to write it, the brevity of it and the distinct feeling of arrogance. A Dom has no need to scream, brag or repeat a title (or two). Use your profile to demonstrate to a future sub/slave exactly why they would want to trust you.Maybe ease up on the 'yelling' ("Obediance is paramount !!!")Explain what you offer to those you seek instead of just bragging (you being "the best out there")That you are looking for "open minded little girls"... yeah, I have nothing for that one.Failing that, just copy the part in to your profile about you seeking subs (no capital "s" Max, let's not forget who is 'top' here ;)) for your stable.That's my take on it, then again I may have the Top, bottom, swItch, all topsy turvy. I did try the sub thing once but apparently demanding that a Dom teach me how to be sub isn't the way it works.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' Quoting 'AllWomanMelb' Thank you 'MissSarahCurious' for that one! Can I export it over to Fetlife? I think I could get a lot of mileage from it over there ;) Where do you think I got the term? ;)Ah now dumbinant as a term I am well familiar with and have thrown around myself a few times, but associating it with bakery goods just adds something special for me - I think I have been low carbing it too long!and 'MistressT' perfectly put, and your last line there especially is spot on.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
You send me a flirt: You obviously did not read my profile as it states NO ONE OLDER THAN 40 You obviously did not read my profile as it states MUST BE OVER 6' TALL And yes, I am petty/shallow...after all it is MY body and I root who I am attracted to in some way! I wouldn't go to a pub or club and pick up an ugly bloke ... I don't believe in pity roots! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Full stops in weird places. it* should be isa experienced* should be an experiencedenormous* (or if you want to be funny try a pun like "enormass weight" but best to stick with normal spelling)I'm not sure how you measure brain spanSentence starting "But I get solely by my photo it's not who I am..." incorrect syntax. Too few verbs, to many objects and subjects.dont should be don't* (apostrophes do count)though should be thought*AGAIN why are there full stops in weird places.I don't want to be a bitch about spelling and grammar but it's the one big turn off as it says a lot about the care that goes into one's communication with others. Playing dumb can be funny but it has to be contextual and relevant. HEY MEEKS - I too read "are we really so pretty" and I was hoping to read a whole lot of yeses.So disappointing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Umm, .....yes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ever since this thread I have the image of Robert De Niro dancing around singing "I'm so pretty".Not a bad ear worm to have.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I like to base alot of my decision as to sexual partners on visual attraction. A night out for us means organising babysitting and can be difficult to do so at times. So it is pointless to meet someone who doesn't immediately tickle my/our fancy. Would you have messaged me if I didn't have a pic up? or if my 'look' wasn't to your tastes? And I guess that is what it comes down to in the end, we all have our own taste in what we find attractive and there really is no accounting for personal taste, some like cuddly some like thin, some like tall some like short etc etc etc... Sex is one of the most private things someone can share with another person, I don't think there is anything petty about being selective about whom you choose to share it with. This becomes even more important when you contemplate a Dom/Sub relationship, you'd probably want to be even more choosy as to who you are jumping into bed with, as I believe there is alot of trust involved in a relationship of this sort. yes, your profile leaves alot to be desired, and I too am betting its not all about the pic... you do sound very arrogant/conceited, I guess being a Dominant you thought it would be perfect... So how's it working for you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
All woman amongst the vanillas !!!!!!!!!!!!!1 very interesting !!!!!!!! Sorry Ms love the shoes
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' You see Max, it is not your pic or your enormous brain,....best to use a spell check if you make that boast..in your profile you come across as arrogant and charmless. We non-subservient big girls are not looking for that Max,but I admire your sense of humour....you did at least give me a giggle. A stable of Subs?....neigh Max neigh. That's hilarious Hesione,Maybe Max not everyone wants to be dominated and that's why you are being rejected ?
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