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Are we the only ones

September 10 2017

Are we the only ones who get annoyed by Sending a well thought, detailed message only to receive a one sentence reply which ignores everything we have said? Flirts and messages simply saying can i see more pics? The net is full of them guys! Requests for friendship with zero prior correspondence, or simply a flirt or worse still not even a flirt? Single guys asking us to message them when they are too tight to even by a membership of their own? What are the "you blew the opportunity" actions for you? (take note peepz)

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funcple7385

7 years ago

We've also sent out detailed message and recieved only 'hi' or 'what's up'. Got a few friendship requests from people we've never communicated with and have also had the private photo requests from people writing max two lines who are outside of our looking for profile. A quick look at their profiles usually shows too many 'ask me' or no photos at all! Our 'blew it' actions would be: not being bothered to write at least a few lines of correspondence ( would equate to little communication in real life), little to no effort in own profile

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Mischeviouslad

7 years ago

No. You are not the only ones That is pretty standard (minimal effort) behaviour in this asylum. I treat it as a screening tool. No effort means no interest. - Posted from rhpmobile

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inspirit

7 years ago

@ Asylum!! We are mad in here.. Even the Hatter. OP.... I think it happens quite a lot. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

what inspirit said.. but it is usually single males doing the complaining..and they often get told to suck it up.... just sayin'

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

For many, the lights are on but no one is at home. Our instant turn off " How are youse / use ? " - Posted from rhpmobile

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OkeyDoke45

7 years ago

If you sent a detailed message and only got a Neanderthal reply, well that's just bad luck isn't it? Move on - everybody else has to. Unsolicited flirts and messages, requests for pics are a bit of an annoyance but again, move on. I feel no obligation whatsoever to respond to any of these.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Is this a wind up? Sigh, the Mr isn't visible in your public pics and you wonder why they ask for more pics lol haven't seen you on here for quite some time. Going by this topic, guessing you need to advertise. Fix up your profile, sorry but you're not new so not a lot of tolerance here for desperate advertising

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RHP User

7 years ago

with 564 friends, maybe time to move to another city lol regardless of the apparent judgement, like it or not, that right there would have me scrambling for the back arrow. Do I care how many people you've fucked? Not really, but who yes, how fussy are you? Appears as though anyone is fair game, which doesn't appeal to me or the other very big possibility is that you accept every friend request that's sent to you? Either way, not appealing, not to me, appears desperate, like anyone will do

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Sawadee

7 years ago

I'd imagine quite common here.. I've been on the receiving end... You take the time to write a polite decent message to amount to sweet FA.. Besides being rude , it shows the person up for who and what they are... Pain in the arse... Not the type of people you want next to you in the trenches...

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RHP User

7 years ago

I have 8 pics in my private gallery ,some people keep asking for more. My answer to them is meet in public for drinks or coffee see how we go.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

So can't help there and surprised you'd need to either. How about you just try doing the opposite of what u do now.. novel idea lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I always send reasonably detailed messages which are always potite and friendly yet very rarely receive a reply. Some do take the time to look at my profile but others don't even bother to read the message. Very hard for genuinely nice guys to meet people on dating sites of any kind. Profile improvement tips appreciated ladies.

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Curious1965

7 years ago

I have to say I like your profile pics "two with no limits" but then I am shallow. But seriously the key is to have low expectations very few people ever craft a whole paragraph together these days not to say I am good either. - Posted from rhpmobile

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LetsFrolic

7 years ago

That are guests and stay that way and demand you message them because they wont be bothered. Its very egotistical and ugly. - Posted from rhpmobile

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sweetnsensual

7 years ago

You aren't the Lone Ranger It can be disheartening when you get a flirt and you reply detailed message and get a hi back I think it's from a lot of guys who have fake profiles or they are surprised to get a real reply!

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MsSexyDeviants

7 years ago

I had a flirt from an attractive couple. They were a guest. I normally don't message guests for my own reasons. But i decided to... Sent a message just sayin hi...to get the conversation going. And got just a 'hey' back. Yeeeaahhh.... Sorry I should have known better. Lost your chance. I also don't communicate with people who only have photos up of one of the couple. Don't have much of a profile Don't read my profile Or people who expect me to take off my two biggest paying work days, but won't set aside a weekday night to just meet and have dinner. I don't think I ask too much...

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RHP User

7 years ago

Mr U reporting a one off due to topic..... I am actually illiterate when it cums to 2 dimensional communication. Those who know me, won;t believe it for in person I am a social butterfly of high intellect that can communicate on any topic at all levels.. I am able to express both body and verbal to animate my communication back to my point, I've spent 5-10 minutes to get this far with about the same number of spelling errors, i need to paint that same picture on here and will take me 20-30 to reply when i can face to face in 5. This means all responses from me are long as i need the details express in full and understood. This, as well as the time I've hogged the keyboard from her such as now.... causes her editorial nature to correct most so there is another 5 min effort filled with detailed facts from a genuine interest to the lucky recipient. These replies that start from as little as TY up to 1 sentence long, indicates to me a time waster not worthy of any more of our energy. but there are a select number who's responses are rude, not answered fully hence prompting more clarity or suggesting something we have clearly stated as not an option. These poor souls used to be verbally bashed in PM (not in forums for it discourages involvement) or if on chat.... It wasn't nice and with the aid of my loving girl has educated me to respond without malice or projecting harm in anyway, be honest and educate them on how they made you feel about them and how they could approach it to others in future. The more educated and passing knowledge on the less left to perform this act and i would have another 40 min in my life to do other things, probably knot. In summary, yer it causes a whole range of negative emotions but if your willing to offer help in education instead of complaining you are turning a negative into a positive for both and who knows.... have a new friend D

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