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Are you REALLY ready for raunchy times ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
September 02 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you put it out straight away saying you want sex with them, you're going to turn people off, especially new people.Maybe your first messages saying that, maybe a bit to forward perhaps?Some people don't like that, some people want to get a feel and get to know people first.Find a common interest besides sex, like have a conversation.If I received a message saying "I want to have sex with you" I would ignore or block.You are right tho, we are humans. Our brains do need to be stimulated first!All the best.FOXYCan I suggest, change your pic as no-one wants to see a messy bathroom in the background. That could turn some people off as well.
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
That's just how we roll. Unless we've met someone in person somewhere along the line in which case we will always make the effort to reply.That's when I think manners comes into it, otherwise we invest NOTHING in anticipation around people we do not know really exist. Maybe some might think we're rude for not replying to a cold-call message from someone who does not tick any of our boxes, but our time and energy is limited - and we don't pass judgement on others who do the same to strangers.This is a NSA site - no-one owes anyone they've got no interest in, never met or never intend to meet anything, IMO.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"so have the decency to tell them straight away don't drag it out or just ignore people, to just ignore them is the height of rudeness, have some manners, remember that they have feelings too"You should try being a guy ... fortunately we don't have feelings otherwise we'd all be a whimpering, slobbering mess within a week.I agree with your hypothesis that alot of people do not appear to have any idea what they actually want let alone the intention to materialize it.Isn't it strange how other peoples' misfortune can at times make you feel better
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
If someone reaches out, very politely, and their message includes a request to reply one way or another we'll do it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Manners go long way ? We believe in communication as that is the key to honest play and respect... Some here think they are well above others but seriously they should look into the mirror as they are not 18 any more lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting op, so have the decency to tell them straight away don't drag it out or just ignore people ,, to just ignore them is the height of rudeness,, have some manners,,,remember that they have feelings to.Firstly I shouldn't have days off I am far to opinionated and becoming addicted to responding to these forums, is that bad.Now on with the show, we consider it highly offensive when you send someone a message and they don't respond. What ever the reason, what happened to being polite and respectful. We teach our children respect and in general society demands these basic principles yet some complain when others are non reciprocal and lack respect. If a stranger in the street says hello do we say hi back.....yes we do but obviously some don't. I share your your sentiment op, we don't send many messages but if we do and they are toooooo arrogant to reply we BLOCK. I guess that is just the way we roll.
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madotara69
11 years ago
If you are ready for us. Oh the wife can't make it, she just flew overseas for the day. Sometimes we get sick of answering messages, especially 7am, while we are watching cartoons.Generally we will answer messages, if we read them. So if people see their message as unread, we have not read it, yet. Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personnally I think its polite to respond even if its just to say "Sorry but your not what Im looking for" But even just to write that there would be the occassional idiot who might take offence. Yes you can block them but what if you recieved a nasty message just for saying NO. So I can understand why some may not especially single ladies. Most of us are here to have fun with the people we choose but there are crack pots and immature little so & sos who need to get a life. But personnally I respond one way or the other but Im a bloke its different for me.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're not the type of couple that looks at a profile and goes, "Yep, we wanna screw you." There's no Wham Bam thank you Mam with us, its not the way we roll...We enjoy a bit of message chat, then progress to chatting on the phone to see if theres a slight connection and that the other couple can actually hold a conversation before we commit to meeting up. In saying that, we always reply to messages even if we feel there's no connection....As its the right thing to do, and doesn't take that much of an effort to do so. Manners do go along way, and tells you a little about the persons sending...or not sending.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being a single guy on here you do seem to cop the brunt of silence from people. I mainly write polite emails in hope of a response, because the profile I've just read interests me. But unfortunately a large population of people on here don't have the same level of respect as others I know...If I met a stranger in person who offered a polite greeting, and showed interest? Even if I wasn't interested, I would still give a respectful reply, with the words "I'm flattered", because I genuinely would be. A lot of people take attention for granted!
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RHP User
11 years ago
is never just about sex though....none of us live in a bubble....physical attraction is only just part of the sizzle ,'''clicking ''requires effort and a little conversation....''hey'' ,sup'' while it may have its attraction to the postmodern minimalists among us may not be sufficiently stimulating for most.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You guys messaged us a while ago and in the first message you invited us to a boat party with other couples. Yep, first message. As others have commented, we prefer to meet, have dinner/drinks and see if we really like each other. We're all here after sex however we personally prefer to get to know the people we meet, before sex.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
previous forum Manners ? Do they still exist.... by threesixty. Tall
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Coops27M
11 years ago
I haven't actually messaged anyone from profile surfing on here yet, just responded to flirts or continued conversations from chat but experience from other sites and here has made me come to welcome the occasional snub. I find it adds a bit more reality to the experience as although i like to be polite and respond to people who make an effort and show interest it's nice to know people on this medium show their disinterest by ignoring your existence altogether as it is in real life. I don't take it personally for i'm certainly not interested in a lot of people and even though i was raised and from personal distaste prefer to be polite and respond in the negative, there are those who don't and frankly aren't worth any time or effort to get to know anyway. The fact they are here helps reassure me that there will also be other real people who do know what they want and will do as they say. The saying its too good to be true is fitting as if i was flooded with promises of the earth then i would eventually realise this was another fantasy land and stop wasting precious time :). Just my own positive spin on things i prefer not to see things in a negative light unless they're "too good".- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've commented on this on another thread....I've received abusive tirades a few times for the polite basic thanks yet no thanks & now I'm almost reluctant to reply at all if I'm not interested, but it's a great idea to respond with being flattered....thank you Dev_lous... & thank you for all the other informative comments....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks everyone. I m a newbie and this is still pretty unfamiliar so just working through at my own place. For me I am finding manners & general courtesy go a long way. It's amazing how many people on here don't show manners- if someone is polite it really stands out!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If someone messages us and clearly have not read nor understood our profile (as we are clearly not a match) we will generally not respond. Particularly if its a one liner, badly spelt and is just about how they can get laid... We enjoy a bit of conversation, starting in messages and then meeting up for some drinks and chats....if all goes well, we will then generally look to play. Its a process, it shouldn't be an expectation to get laid, but rather to get to know each other first.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Alius' You should try being a guy ... fortunately we don't have feelings otherwise we'd all be a whimpering, slobbering mess within a week.So spot on, bro !! Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes people aren't being rude but aren't glued to the internet and are out and about and want some time to reply to each msg the receive with consideration. Obviously I would reply to each msg but you priortise replies.....and you dobt want to rule out people too soon unless the DEMAND AND ANSWER ASAP but my fingers hurt from the typing so I need a break, a coffee, a walk ..fresh air Plus I don't respond well to demands but I always think I'm polite. Got to give it to get it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
maybe people want sexual partner variety but companionship with only one and not the other...
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