M44 F43
Are you a profile vouyer?
April 18 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
My profile is regularly viewed by couples and men. There's one couple in particular who frequently view my profile, I have no idea if it's him, her or them. There's a few men who also quite often view my profile, I have no problem with this as they are at least up front enough to "openly" visit my profile. It's stating the obvious that those who don't "openly" view a profile leave no calling card so we never know who else has visited our profile.I also get a few women visiting my profile, but most of them are looking for unattached men.If I visit your profile you will know I've been there, that's my choice.There are way too many template profiles and way too many "ask me's" on them, all this leaves only a few women who would be interested in me or of interest to me.I'd be interested to hear of what's happening on other peoples profile viewing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You say that people keep checking you out. That's your biggest issue here? Lucky you. And why be annoyed about couples who are't interested opening their PG for you? Maybe they just think fair is fair, since they got to see what you look like. I don't see how this would inflate their ego's, if they wanted to be admired, they'd put the pics in their Public Gallery in my view. I say take the interest as a compliment and be flattered. If someone does annoy you, there is this cute little Block button just begging to be used.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a particular couple that views my profile three or four times a day. The female is looking for votes for the amateur pics comp. I've told her i'm not interested in voting, but yet she continues to look every day. She has a hot body, but it's funny how you get sick of seeing something attractive when it's shoved in your face three times a day lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
To see what kind of pics other couples post....I don't seek them out, if they view ours,that's when I check them out..... I'm just curious and yes I do compare, who doesn't? ......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had a serial viewer This person lives interstate and is also a paid up member, so they could contact me if they wish, but they never have Yet every day for months he viewed me , anything up to 30 odd times a day I cant quite tell you why, but it started to grate me and then creeped me out, so I've now blocked him He wasn't a an ex nor have I ever lived in that state so I really don't know why the continual viewing True he did nothing to me, and I'm sure he meant no harm but it unsettled me and feeling flattered only lasted so long, so I blocked him So OP as Meander says, Block button is your friend.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You say that people keep checking you out. That's your biggest issue here? Lucky you. And why be annoyed about couples who are't interested opening their PG for you? Maybe they just think fair is fair, since they got to see what you look like. I don't see how this would inflate their ego's, if they wanted to be admired, they'd put the pics in their Public Gallery in my view. I say take the interest as a compliment and be flattered. If someone does annoy you, there is this cute little Block button just begging to be used. Well said! And also I guess they maybe plucking up the courage... Who knows???
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has someone viewing my profile made me feel uncomfortable...he was also starting to comment on my posts in the forums ...So I blocked him,even though he could no longer see my profile he still kept on clicking on it so his name kept on appearing..this happened every time I logged on..finally I sent him a message asking him to stop and he did.....We actually have no idea OP who is viewing us if they are in stealth mode..For example I recently viewed you 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have photos up so cant complain if Im getting viewed, after all, you put photos up to attract attention. And there are a couple of guys who view me daily and never make contact but it really doesnt bother me. I check out profiles and if someone catches my eye I will go back and have another look. Its a compliment....my male friends on here moan that they get hardly any views/flirts/messages so we women and couples really should be quite happy that people are looking at our pics! And as Mea says, if you feel that uncomfortable, the Block Button is there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Interested to know O.P if you change your profile pics. from time to time. I have on occasion checked out a profile several times as the profile pic changes or they add other pics to there profile. By the way I think I have the same couple Fit. I am sure the competitions on here make some view profiles to fish for friends and views. When it becomes stalking then hit that button. Yet I am sure that voyeurism would be quite common on these sites
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Cazz61
10 years ago
I had no idea they ppl could view your profile with out you knowing.( your never to old to learn something new every day lol ) Does it bother me that guys or couples regularly check out my profile? No not at all!! If it did I wouldn't be here or have pics for ppl to see.If someone finds me sexy enough to be on their spank bank I say thank you!! You make this old girl smile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is a compliment when someone checks out my profile. Even if it's just the boys with the dick pics...admittedly those compliments feel a bit unsatisfying...but, I tell myself, maybe it's just some lonely lad looking for tips on how to writean awesome profile. The script and the photos are there to help convey the portrait of Me to one who doesn't know me from a bar of soap.They're not a trail of breadcrumbs...or is that petals?...leading to my Bachelor pad.So look on ladies...and gents if you must...a bit of gentle stroking has never hurt my ego. I'm not that handsome or charming.
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uneventful
10 years ago
When you hit the 'next'button on browsing. .. your profile just happends to be next in the tray. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LifeUnscripted
10 years ago
They might just be clicking next through the profiles nearby. They might be browsing and have forgotten exactly who you were based on your name and needed to go in to remember. They might think you are hot but you are too short, or their partner is not interested. There could be a million reasons, just don't overthink it you will drive yourself crazy, lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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ajaussie
10 years ago
its fine if people are checking the profile regularly. its only wrong if they get rude and keep contacting you.....even you have declined there request and have conveyed the message that you are not interested in them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
With looks like yours you should be proud of what you have.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have always had a face pic as my main photo... And anything 'overly provocative' has been in my private pics. I've always considered that the majority of ladies don't want to be stared in the face with a dick every two minutes.Last night, I decided, for the first time, to put something 'different for me'... Not thinking it would make much of a difference. Was I wrong! In less than 24 hours I've had (conservatively) 4 times the profile views that I'd normally get. It's nothing 'special', I know, so I don't know if it's curiosity, comparison or interest... But they have been equally from men, women and couples. I consider it no problem from anyone. I look at profiles of people I'm curious about... Not necessarily sexually. I'm as straight as an arrow, but I have looked at couples and men's profiles just out of curiosity, to see what they say in their written profiles, how they express their interests and desires, what they're into etc... But I have never continually viewed a profile over and over, unless I'm actively talking to a specific lady and messaging with a view to meeting. If someone looks at me, I will, naturally, look back and see who they are...
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PL1963
9 years ago
I often check out a lady or couples profile, If I think they may be interested, I view their "friends" to see if there is anyone similar to me. If so, I then send a msg and hope for the best. Yes Muso, I'd love to hear how experiment has gone. Cheers Paul.
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MysteryMr
9 years ago
I tend to look at profiles when I'm on the forums so that I know who I am responding too.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
I mostly get checked out by men or couples (even though I have no interest in either, but they would not know that before hand, so no worries), very rarely single women (what I am interested in), and the odd one that does runs away, never to be heard or seen from again HaHa. I no longer take any notice. If I see the same woman 3 or 4 times in a row, I may take that as a hint she is interested and only a guest, and therefore send her a message, but hasn't happened yet, so won't hold my breath.
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Insomnian
9 years ago
Just wait for them to contact you ? Surely if they're interested that's what they'd do, and if they don't, then you don't lose sleep on it or have to go through that first message bs... I've plenty view my profile, depending as I've said before on how active I am on the forums. If they send a message, I reply. If they don't, I don't. As has been stated, there's many different reasons why these people may have stumbled over your profile, from using the Mobile app, to any number of other such reasons. As most others have said, view it as a compliment. This place, like any other place shouldn't be a chore. If it's getting that way, maybe it's time for a break ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
They are suffering from a bout of indecisiveness. You could message them back perhaps...... and say ''Hey Dude, you've viewed my profile 25 times in the last month. you gonna make a move honey or just keep peeking at my profile. There's only so many times my eyes can cope seeing your profile light up my screen." On the other hand perhaps they are just forgetful, in which case you could message them and ask if they'd like some recommendations for brain training exercises to improve memory retention. I could think up a thousand or so other reasons, but I'll resist the temptation..........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some couples/ladies have some absolutely gorgeous pictures that keep tempting me back to their profile, especially if they keep swapping the main one around, I think there might be new pictures available (not looking too often though, and remembering the fact they might be nowhere near me, or I've already made or tried to make contact, sometimes just to express my appreciation). The other thing is because I search through all applicable women/couples, I don't necessarily remember all their usernames, and if they have a new picture or frequently change it, I can mistakenly assume it's a new profile, and new profiles are tempting as there's only so many recently active profiles (esp women) to try and contact in a search area (in this case Melbourne/Vic). Or in a couple of cases, they have written a description of a particular fantasy or activity on their profile in a way that is incredibly arousing and right up my (non-literal) alley. So I'm tempted back occasionally to read it, and remind myself that because it's been posted by others, it's possible for me one day :)
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