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'Ask Me' Are you kidding me???
August 13 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
When coupled with the standard profile prompts it doesn't really inspire, does it :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
?
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RHP User
12 years ago
wrong thread lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
most of these profiles are fakes.I have noticed that they usually have no photos and template answers .The shadow people of RHPx Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
... with Hesione. A lot of bogus profiles & time wasters. I personally don't reply to these folk. KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've seen too many profiles with too many 'Ask Me's. I especially get thrown off with the 'Ask Me' under the height question...? It takes less time to select a couple of drop down options than to actually input text into the About Me and Looking For sections... I prefer the profiles who have the categories all filled out but the text parts leave something to be desired. At least all the essential information is there..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your looking at this the wrong way. It's a good thing.It means "Lazy fuck, you can move along please".. I'll bet the rest of their profile has had the same effort applied.. They have just saved you some wonder.. Give that wonder to someone who’s put an effort into attracting it..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know when I see a row of ask mes I stop reading. If they don't fill out this easy part, there probably won't be anything worth reading in the comments section. They come across as nobodies or people who can't be bothered to make any effort to complete a profile. Why would anyone be interested in someone who can't be bothered to take the time to attempt to fill out their profile. It is not rocket science. I'd be concerned they'd put as little effort into a meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some people are too terrified about been recognised by friends or co workers, especially those with public jobs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I too also find it frustrating that people put little on their profile bar "If you want to know ask me" or something along those lines and then when asked don't ever respond, why ask to be asked in the first place then?
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RHP User
12 years ago
The one I giggle at is looks - see my picture and there is no pic or just a pic of a cock!!! LOL Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have no idea why you would put this up and then expect people to message you. I am more inclined to poke you with a stick. If you have nothing to say about who you are then I am not inclined to try to find out. I suppose if you are a woman youwill get messages anyway but it smacks of not really being interesting enough to put something up. Mike
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playful4u
12 years ago
The "Ask Me" profiles are just not team players
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or they have no intention of meeting, its all smoke and mirrors here guys simple if you see an ask me then just dont bother. The truth is some people use it as a hook any attention is better than non at all. Though its nice that some people have suprised me when they are much much better than what they put on their profile Some people are just not into the whole write like D.H. Lawrence thing in the end its their choice and its ours to respond if we want to. Or not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why the ' ask me's ' WTF would I want to ask you anything if you're too lazy to describe yourself ? Time wasters.. Next please....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Or they have no intention of meeting, its all smoke and mirrors here guys simple if you see an ask me then just dont bother. The truth is some people use it as a hook any attention is better than non at all. Though its nice that some people have suprised me when they are much much better than what they put on their profile Some people are just not into the whole write like D.H. Lawrence thing in the end its their choice and its ours to respond if we want to. Or not.have to agree.... we have found its easier to sidestep these people than ask a million questions...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I see it all the time !!! Plus couples rarely list cock size !! Drives me nuts ! ........more than one " ask me" gets a delete from me! Also irritates me when I read " if you want to know something ask me " , just screams lazy or arrogant ....either of which are no big loss to miss out on ! * I may or may not be a little tired and cranky tonight :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a "why ask me" on my profile. In regards to smoking...why, because in social situations I enjoy a cigar. So I don't regularly smoke and its not a little or a lot, it's very occasionally. But agree that in most of the profiling there is a suitable question. If you can't be honest about what you look like here then maybe you shouldn't be here. Good topic question, I'm enjoying reading the comments
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RHP User
12 years ago
The classic " Ask Me" profile, with naturally no photo or a hidden profile, and down in the narrative area is, normally in capitals, proclaiming to all that he/she/they will not respond and threaten to block anyone who dares contact them without a face pic in their profile ...... The height of rudeness I think ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont take any time at all on these as i agree with you all on the' if people dont have time to fill out a simple Q & A then how much fun are you going to be? It is my opinion that by giving the most information you can and by penning yourself a simple but informative description without writing a novel, especially if you are witty enough to use a little humour (OMG - personality exposure)there is far more chance that i might find you more interesting....otherwise ......next! I dont understand why people cant be more specific .....drives me crazy
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RHP User
12 years ago
RPH Why??? Is this type of profile allowed on the site, especially when most are non paid members just taking up space? We are not members at the moment but have been more than several times in our journey and no doubt will be again but we really deserve better support to weed out the would bee's that take up valuable space, not only to RHP but to us the genuine couples/singles looking to meet other genuine people. Hugs, Shell & Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
Most of them are just time wasters. why can more people just be upfront about stuff.
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DonnaBrett
12 years ago
Yep ticks us off too! Two of them in particular..if they put 'Ask Me' to the smoking question we automatically take it as a YES! ...and as for the safe sex question....there should only be two answers YES or NO....none of this 'sometimes' or 'if required' stupidity. If you say either of those two answers, that means NO...and you're off the menu!...and on the subject of timewasting profiles..people who send flirts saying "I think you're hot, what doyou think of me?" but they don't show faces!! How can anyone answer that? You could have a head like the north end of a south bound camel LOL. If you are making first contact with someone YOU should ensure that the contactees can see your faces so said contactees can decide then & there and not have to ask for photos. It's not that hard!
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RHP User
12 years ago
From our experience we have found the 'ask me' profiles to be fake as the easter bunny. :-P Although we even find that people who put some effort & even lots of effort seem to be here even on a minimal capacity so you can never really tell by just profiles. S&s
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
One of the hottest couples we've ever encountered had a profile full of 'ask me's. They were very concerned about privacy. That was their prerogative, we don't find it rude, it was important to them, we respect that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with most of the comments that have been said there is a few that piss me off one is Please Come Back Later and they are online.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally I found it a bit forward to be asked for a whole lot of personal info when we first fill in our profiles, regardless of how many options we get.Christ you don't go and blab out your warts and all life history on a first date. (Well i don't)You give them as much info as you deem necessary to start off with, then if the relationship progresses and you feel comfortable about it, you can divulge more.Like about the time you got busted putting vasalene on the vacuum cleaner nozzle.I don't see how the "Ask Me" is a sticking point.People do ask questions of each other on first contact.I feel that the people who don't want to respond to the "Ask Me", are not really interested in meeting people in the first place.And probably shouldn't.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Delicious you just love big cocks... Least your honest x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'trax49'I feel that the people who don't want to respond to the "Ask Me", are not really interested in meeting people in the first place.And probably shouldn't. Its called time management, why would we waste our time talking to all these couples who may not meet the criteria of what we are looking for when there are others that have made it clear either way? Some of us don't have time to write to everyone 'just in case' they tick some of our boxes. We'd prefer to waste our time on those who already ticked certain boxes. As a couple who has met plenty of other couples, I can say that we are keen to meet people..... who take the time to make their profile clear. Who would want to waste a Saturday night (and possibly hotel room) on someone who could turn out to not meet specific criteria? Fair enough if personalities clash, but if certain things are an instant write off, there is no point in meeting in the first instance. Like wanting to meet after you haven't even seen face pictures. Big risk to take and we don't even understand why someone would suggest it. It's these big things you need to get out of the way before a meet is even thought of. Anyway that is for another thread.
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RHP User
12 years ago
“Its called time management, why would we waste our time talking to all these couples who may not meet the criteria of what we are looking for when there are others that have made it clear either way? “ Usually people write down what they are seeking in the seeking criteria box.If that's not you, move on. Wouldn’t that give you a clearer indication of what they on here for ? I guess we have evolved into the , “I want it, and I want it now era.” Like with the aid of search engines we can find the answers to almost anything in minutes. And we can keep track of our friends in the now. The right now. I’m probably a little old fashioned in so far as dating goes. I do like the time factor. The hunt. People stretch the truth with their answers in the Personal Info section any way. You never really know what your going to get. I met a lady with a “little extra padding” in a café, and the arms of the café chair got stuck on her arse. So embarrassing. I just bolted. If you don’t want to waste money on motel rooms, you could do what I do now. I get on cam with them, via MSN or skype. Then you can really see who they are.If they don't want to do that, then its good bye.
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RHP User
12 years ago
some good answers here :) This ISNT RVSP...we dont want penpals...we dont want to have to ask you cryptic questions. If theres more than 1 ask me, we figure their not ready to be honest, orarnt comfortable with their weight/dick size/race etc etc and move on to hotties...mmmmm
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would imagine the more factual info you can glean out of somebody the better.Asking questions can accomplish that.It may act as a safety valve.Judging by some of the messages I have received over time, I know there are a lot of weirdos on here.From both women and MENWhen my profile clearly states that I am looking for a female.So I can only assume that some people don't read profiles anyway.I have been guilty of that myself.So when the people chuck a wobbly and ask me, "cant you read", the embarrassed answer is yes I can, I just didn't.Unless I knew for certain, I wouldn't take anything anybody says on here as the absolute truth.And its surprising how by asking someone just one question can give you a better understanding of that person.Instead of Ask Me RHP should have put Guess.That would make it interesting. So my advise for what its worth is ASK ASK ASK.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you trying to tell me the Easter bunny isn't real !? I know the Easter bunny, I talk to it. Oops.
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RHP User
12 years ago
why would we bother wasting a message on someone who has ask me in hair color/ hair length/eye color and personality? oh wait a minute...they're "professionals" zzzz...i rest my case ;)
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Mezmerizingeyes0
12 years ago
So when you go on a first date you wear a paper bag and stilts so the other person has no idea as to what you look like? Bet people get plenty of dates from note showing any physical attributes. And to those that want anonymity saying you have long blonde hair really tells people you know that your a swinger. I mean I walked into bunnings today saw a lady with blue eyes and blonde hair and thought oh yeah I recall your profile.
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