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Ask me???!!!! Don't need to, it's already answered!!!
March 08 2014
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sweetgem
11 years ago
The same topic/question have been made and asked numerous times in the Forums, so maybe do a search in the Forums archive on the "Ask me" subject and you'll see all the comments and thoughts that you're after :-) I used to rant about little things that I've encountered on RHP too, but after my recent disappointing experience with a man from RHP, I have learned the truth why history has continued to repeating itself, because I have allowed it to! It was me who let all these bad experiences got to me! Hence, I stopped complaining or whining, because it really is not worth it! Lazy people will continue to be lazy no matter how many RHPers have raised their voices in the Forums! So my suggestion is, when you see a profile that is basically a template profile and/or full of the "Ask me" lines, you just click close and move on :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem'I have learned the truth why history has continued to repeating itself, because I have allowed it to! It was me who let all these bad experiences got to me! Hence, I stopped complaining or whining, because it really is not worth it! ...move on :-) Can you remind me of this on Monday morning... or any other time 'the world' gets to me, please?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've just gone through the process of creating my profile and thinking about what I would and would not answer. It occurred to me that by not answering some questions, I'm actually also doing some 'filtering'. If the colour of my eyes or even the girth of my love muscle are important to someone visiting my profile... well, we're probably not really going to get very far.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just a non committal way of completing a profile for many. Initially filling out our profile I was lost for words and just kind of defaulted to carsales format. When I looked back at it today it was just boring. But worse than that - it felt like forcing me to fill out a profile before I knew what I wanted to say kind of sabotaged things. Out of 102 views only a handful of flirts and messages... wish I had the option to hide more info than what we can already as my profile just made me feel silly. So OP I would not think too hard about it. This person is probably just browsing and is otherwise very non committal right now! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I now ignore them. Same as the template profiles. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Welcome, Are we not on here for the same reason?? Answers are going to vary from posters on this question. I believe people come to this site for various reasons, some want just a "Fuck" and others want more like friendships as in on going sexual relationships or even friendships. I have met people from here who I have not "fucked", but yet have strong non-sexual friendships with. Are these questions not pre ordained for their relevance and importance to potential fuck prospects? Can you explain by what you mean by "fuck prospect"?? To me it simply means, they have been too lazy to complete the questionnaire on their profile. There are oodles of people on here looking for what you are looking for, however I dare say, majority probably want a bit more then to be called or treated as a "fuck prospect". Sorry, When I hear that or someone speak like others like that it automatically turns me off. I want to at least be treated as a human being with the respect and dignity I deserve others, others may just like being called "a fuck prospect"..We are all individuals so answers are/will vary. Do any other horny RHP users find this frustrutaing? Not really, I skip the generic profiles with a "Grey Ghost" pic, all "Ask mes" with a generic "Temp plate" and what they are looking for. They are just too exciting for me! ;) Good Luck and all the best. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have some interest why not and a message and ask?.....if your interest is zero ,move on.I am sure heaps of "fuck" prospects will message you now with all their ''ask me'' boxes ticked.xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Welcome! Potential fuck prospects, really? Sounds a bit... unfriendly, I think. You'll hear from most forum posters that "Ask me"s are an instant no. Including me. But having said that, I find negative profiles are worse than blank ones. The"Save your templated dirty talk and cock texts for "paid for" entertainment or the next skank that comes along." in your profile is an immediate no for me. That's just my opinion though.
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I like seeing the same question come up. If you've been here for any length of time you'll recognise that there's hardly anything new, ever. Just different ways of asking and different was of answering. Just ask me! :p It is annoying seeing a profile where the person who's photo attracts a click of your mouse, discovers nothing. Ask me? What a waste of profile space. Next. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're not all on here for the same reasons, and it's a bit silly to think we are. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kermit_the_trog' I've just gone through the process of creating my profile and thinking about what I would and would not answer. It occurred to me that by not answering some questions, I'm actually also doing some 'filtering'. If the colour of my eyes or even the girth of my love muscle are important to someone visiting my profile... well, we're probably not really going to get very far. For the girth of your brain?As for that well, your right some women go for big cocks, the ones in the pants and the ones with that attitude. That being said, tis a buyers market and if you want to sell something then you have to describe what it is your selling. Some people want a house with two bathrooms, so how are they to know what`s in the house if you do not tell them. The other thing is, if a profile is not filled out then its often a given that person is an internet wonder, has no intention of going offline at all, or is a married guy who is trying to get in and out under the radar. To the opSweet gem said it all, move on down the road. The ones I love are the people who send me a flirt( its right at the top of my profile NOT to send a flirt) then its the one what do you think of me, and there is nothing on the profile and no picture What do I think? that your frontal lobotomy is working very well. Its ok to start a topic that's already been done, most people who are new do not know where the search button is and the fact is there are always new people with new thoughts. besides I have a touch of the forget it all, at my age its all new to me. LadyT from the nursing home, eating her gruel
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RHP User
11 years ago
The op has the right to say what ever they feel they are looking for. Its not date night here , its RHP though many of you are looking for that Mr or Miss all right for me , the reality is that most are looking for sex. Some may cloak it in pretty texts and words and take you to dinner then piss quietly into your pocket, so that they can get into your pants. Their style may not be your cup of tea, but I find it honest and up front and yes it may cut out a lot of potential fucks who get their sensibilities all out of kilter. They are a bit like lot of women's profiles with all the things they do not want. A woman with a strong view of what she does and does not want can get away with murder, she will get plenty of sex with a profile like that. A couple well there is still a woman in the mix so yes they will get away with it with other couples. the lovely single unicorn will stick up their sweet nose and go on to couples that know how to stroke the pretty pony the right way. I just felt by reading some of the comments that I was sitting in on a Ladies Bridge game in 1952 LadyT getting her unicorn horn all bent out of shape.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not a fan of heavy reliance on the "ask me" filler either,Personally, i use it to describe my race only as nothing appropriate has been supplied : )I too will skip over Grey Ghosts and such generic profiles..I've put an honest effort into mine, I'm only really interested in peoplewho do the same.Do i see myself as a potential fuck? I'm an intelligent human, thanks. Arrogant sounding and aggressive profiles are a turn offtoo..I'm here for good times, not to be chastised or lectured.Enjoy the ride
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Quoting 'Kermit_the_trog' It occurred to me that by not answering some questions, I'm actually also doing some 'filtering'. If the colour of my eyes or even the girth of my love muscle are important to someone visiting my profile... well, we're probably not really going to get very far. For the girth of your brain?As for that well, your right some women go for big cocks, the ones in the pants and the ones with that attitude. That being said, tis a buyers market and if you want to sell something then you have to describe what it is your selling. Some people want a house with two bathrooms, so how are they to know what`s in the house if you do not tell them. Great analogy... but I think, perhaps, my point was missed or unclear. If you're looking for a regular house that absolutely must have 3 bathrooms and a double garage, then I don't want you to even inspect my place. We can't even talk about real estate, because we see it for something totally different. My patch of ground is in the country, isn't cleared and doesn't have a house on it. It has a place for everyone to come and park their combi's around a big open campfire and play guitars. There's no point me telling you I have 2 bathrooms, 2.5 bathrooms or 3 bathrooms and a WC in the laundry - because we're talking different languages. So, if you read my profile and think "oh, no cock length, moving on!", we'll then I've played for the win. Of course, that's not to say I have nothing to offer the thread starter, or anyone else identifying as a size queen, but not when they are coming from that frame of mind. Does that make any sense? Or does it just sound like the lengthy justification of a dude with a not-so-lengthy Johnson?
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inspirit
11 years ago
If you're are interested you will.....if not then move on. It really doesn't bother me in the slightest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' If you're are interested you will.....if not then move on. It really doesn't bother me in the slightest. when are you gonna come and visit, by the sea sideor you still gonna be up there in May, am hooking up a van with a girlfriend and heading north. I hope this time a lot further up north.
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inspirit
11 years ago
I have been down since October ... I am only an hour North or Perth now. Will make a time sooooooon.... Check you ph
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nice knockers!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't care either way if someone has ask me all over their profile. How they set up their profile is their business and if I'm not drawn to it I just move on - they're clearly not for me and I'm clearly not for them. I recently posted a topic about not liking particular photos on profiles. I really don't like them and they're instant sign-posts for me that I'm not going to like the person behind the profile. I was however curious about what other people thought of the pics and why the men posted the pics in the first place, hence my thread. I guess your thread's a bit the same, though it does seem to me that it's also pretty critical and demanding e.g. you expect others should all approach the site the way you do and you're annoyed when they don't. Surely being so annoyed is a waste of energy you could otherwise spend on finding profiles you do like! And as Meander said, negativity is a pretty big turn off for a lot of people. Just a thought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I see you took that sentence out. But it's still too negative me. Your use of "!!!???????????????????????? " was part of the reason I wrote a post on people seriously overusing question marks and exclamation points. Stop yelling at me...
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
the OP was just having one of "those" bad days when she wrote this Forum? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I submitted my profile in November with some representativephotos( they're a package, after all ) content that I had presented myself honestly..i don't want to be caught out ina lie, after all.Since then I have fine tuned, tweaked a bit and replaceda few pics with more recent ones.I'm still content that it's an honest sales pitch that shows me as I see myself. The photos for example: I haven't used anynaked stuff yet as i don't spend too much time posing nude in frontof the bathroom mirror. Much..To me, the heavily generic profiles seem a poor sales pitch thati quickly pass over, of course, my time is more precious than they are..but for the ladies on RHP I don't imagine they're particularly a handicap, are they?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' the OP was just having one of "those" bad days when she wrote this Forum? Foxy Or had tongue slightly in cheek?
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