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Asking to go on another site?
February 03 2018
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RHP User
7 years ago
I totally hear you. One of the things that a community based site has is the necessary functionality and features to keep the introductions and initial flirting or skirting to a safe, relaxing level. I have had quick requests to move chatting to an instant messenger and although I'm not really put off by that I do think that it makes it less easy to determine who you are dealing with. \\'
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RHP User
7 years ago
That its not working for these guys? Maybe it does work for them? It just doesn't work on me. If you are a guy out there who this is working for please comment? LC.
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lovebitten
7 years ago
But happy to exchange mobile numbers. If a man won't do that, it's a NO from me! - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
7 years ago
I dont know how many messages you get for what ever membership level and it really isnt explained on the site. For example... someone takes out a membership with 5 messages a day. Many seem to thing that is just 5 messages. To send to you or others....they believe that they only have 5 messages back and forth with you so they want to move offsite so they can send 4 other messages to another 4 people. What they dont realise is that one message to you can go back and forward a gazillion times. Message 2.....another person a gazillion times. Message 3.....another persona gazillion times...and so on til they have used their 5 individual people per day. I have explained this to many on here, once they realise how it works they are usually happy to stay on site. Then you just have your jerks and scammers who want freetime access all hours to hound you .
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
We like to start a 4way chat using a popular instant message app because then it's a much more interactive and flowing conversation - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
They are the jerk scammer types rubi_blossum. Just because this is a sexual site doesn't mean they get to be pigs and it's okay. Thank you for the rundown about messaging. LC.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Absolutely shits me. And possibly one reason my block list would be comfortably in double figures lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Funny you say that. I thought it was just me. I hate kik also. It feels like they have something to hide and because I rarely use it, I'm only talking to one guy on there atm who I've known for a few years now, but I don't often check for messages and unlike texts, it doesn't display a number near the icon on my front screen, meaning other messages go unseen. I routinely text and because my phone is temperamental, it randomly turns the sound down, I rely on seeing the new messages on the front screen for quick reference lol I just don't see the need to use kik
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are some sites where there are more than enough dodgy profiles.The first sign is when you get a message with an email address and invitation to contact them there...NEXT.
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sweetgem
7 years ago
Some men do treat RHP as a free brothel that they think they can just come in and make demands to suit their needs! Or they might think of RHP as a sex land where everyone in here would have sex with just about anyone! It’s the problem of little head ruling the big head 😄😄 Dead as my profile, I still get flirts from men, simply because of my profile pic! 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
In your other post. No....is still a complete sentence. CM ... 👍😉⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I receive many messages a day on kik and mostly from guys who do not have a photo. They say they have seen my profile on RHP and wanted to send me a message. I NEVER respond to these. It is absolutely plain rude to look me up on another site and message me without an invitation whilst I am not able to view their profiles and determine for myself if I wish to enter into conversation with them. This site is a safe zone and set up with a messaging facility which I think needs to be utilized until both parties are comfortable to take the conversation elsewhere. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
We have had so many guys pretending to be girls or couples it’s quite annoying You wouldn’t believe the story’s people make up why they can’t verify via phone lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have two posts going on the same subject. After 6hrs i thought the first hadnt passed admin. I look like a noob. LC.
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RHP User
7 years ago
where were you when I was at Warner
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RHP User
7 years ago
On another particular site I get the same thing from women. Only had it a couple of times here. No sweeping statement but I would hazard a guess that the males would like to see a bit more of the females as in photos and what they like sexually and the females, well I think they are just probably scammers
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RHP User
7 years ago
After messaging on Rhp then moving onto a chat app and if you don’t eventually move onto text exchange and phone convos, it’s most likely a ONS scenario/player or a married/attached man, take it or leave it! Having said that I’ve been suckered in thinking they’ve given me their mobile number, but are moving way to fast, it’s likely to be a stalky situation, hello, block! Hmmm, it’s all games and lessons learned.😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
They ask you to communicate on kik straight up and even crazier that they hand over their number. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
On that note..... anyone wanna chat? - Posted from rhpmobile
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lovebitten
7 years ago
Exactly! It's just another tech platform that can go wrong. Keep it simple, I say! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Bexstarr, lovebitten, i touch... I hate kik and have now put it on my profile. Don't ask to go on kik!! I also don't fancy giving out my mobile after one message. What's the hurry? LC.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Happy to chat elsewhere. Not at anyones beck and call and if I harassed I just block
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RHP User
7 years ago
Because we struggle with fakes, even verified ones. Rhp need to do video verification every 6 months. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We're not interested in endless to & fro! If you like what you see & read surely after a few messages make an effort to meet in public or give them a contact Ph no. We don't need to be sent to another site just to repeat the above all over again! By the way... for peace of mind if you do get to second base.. eg, a contact Ph no! And you are on Bookface.. 🤣 Sometimes their profile might show as " People you may know" its a way of Facebook linking you to possible friends you may have through your phone contacts! Sometimes it comes up on our gossip page but only we can see it!! Ps... also sick of the same bullshit profiles!! As for us we both have the RHP mobile app. So when sending a message or receiving we both know of each others actions, no bullshit going on here!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
...but can you name two things that rhyme with "noob"? Tube and lube...I've a one track mind and proud of it! There ya go, name the obvious other two and show 'em if ya got 'em! 🙃😎⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
(Sorry about the essay :blush: ) Switching to IM can be fine if there is good reason to trust (as far as it goes) the profile of the member IMHO - say a fully verified/paid up member with a full profile and maybe some posts here or form you can see. But I had one which was like send me photos and like a selfie right now and responding at weird times of the day. Always check in at midnight and answer at dawn (I replied at first on waking before a ride). Strange, demanding and not really answering questions properly. Way too familiar too soon. For a moment I thought Yay! But as they say anything that seems too good to be true... The photos they shared looked a bit generic so I saved them and firstly I checked the photo exif data (embedded in the image you often will find the date taken, camera type used, exposure and such - any decent camera will record all this in a jpg format no problem - even gps in many cases with phones etc) no data just pixel dimensions. Then closely Looking at the shots it was actually difficult to tell if it was even the same person though that can be difficult so I shrugged. Another good check is to run a google reverse image search but that didn’t show the images up as having been harvested from the web. At the end of the chat I asked for some more selfie photos to “even up the stakes” - the reply was “I will, just post some more of the naughty ones you have” Nothing came in during the next couple of days except the midnight checkin. By that time I felt stung. Not exposed because I’d been pretty conservative (trying to stay polite and retain some mystery myself) but still pissed that I may have been led some way up the garden path. Maybe I’m also being paranoid! ;P It’s so easy to forget how much we can be putting ourselves “out there” these days. That’s why a site like this benefits so much from a thriving community that helps bridge the pseudo-annonimity of the web until we can meet in the right circumstances. Clearly there could be scams that aim for blackmail material but if your careful I don’t really see how they would really succeed with that. (Unless you fall for it) Or maybe they go on and ask for money or help for a sick family member blah blah blah. I’ve not come back to them but would be interested to hear tactics you could use to determine if they actually are legit and just seem pushy and poor with IM etiquette. Btw I didn’t do it on this occasion but for those who don’t know you can get simple cheap or free apps that completely scrub all your exif data from any photos before uploading. Something worth thinking about. I’ve usually done that with profile pics and it was only later I realised that the selfies etc take on Kik are sent with all the metadata (of course!) Finally, I wonder if those sites who populate with heaps of dummy profiles catfish like this to get genuine selfies of naïve and eager men (or women) and some details for the profile text. If so I imagine I might show up on a reverse google search sooner or later lol. Peace out party people \o.O \\’ - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Appears some have no problem passing out their phone number which is directly tied to your personal details including address if you have the means to access it. It can be done.Kik is not. Set up correctly, is entirely anonymous.I get instant notification of messages which is important when meeting and I can block if things go pear shape.I'm comfortable with Kik and never had a problem
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The_Phoenix
7 years ago
But only if that’s what is mutually agreed as our communication method. For me it’s easy and quick to send 2 or three messages if your having a conversation as opposed to using up my daily 5 as a premium member. Equally happy to hand out my number once we’ve actually met and I know your actually not a crazed zombie fembot. Is not just about being open to how you’d like to communicate? If there respect involved there isn’t a problem. I guess there’s your answer. And Annie, I totally agree. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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Haleakala
7 years ago
After messaging through RHP I like kik, it's easy to share a live pic and therefore verify to each other what you really look like/are. I don't like handing out my phone number until I have verified a person because phone numbers so easily link to social media etc. My preferred timeline of communication is: RHP then Kik then phone then meet. Although to be honest meet can come straight after messaging on RHP as a quick coffee or drink can really help determine quickly if you're compatible. - Posted from rhpmobile
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