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Asking women- What you think of foreign men?

September 18 2012

I'd love to know what girls on here think of foreign men. Do you find them exotic? Have you ever been with one? Do you find language barrier an obstacle? What bout different culture? Would you have sex with a local when you visit another country? Have you ever had sex with locals when you travel? People from which country do you find most attractive? Which countries have you bedded with?I'd love to hear different answers.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think it depence on the culture and the person. I share my home with a man and no way I would start something, but also getting to know more about him and where he comes from I would leave my hands of him. He is for once very religious, but as most men in religion breaks lots of rules but expects the women to obey by them. No way would I be with such a person. Also this may now be very bad what I say and please no one should take this personal..... I am not attracted to black males. .. I like french, spanish latino, white men, asian men dont attract me either when I think of it. And language ohh yes....love french and italien accents. Cheers Litonya

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    intelligence,emotional intelligence in particular but an accent mmmm oh yes...and yes I have dated Asian,African,Afro-American,Italian, and Indian men, many of whom I met while travelling.....viva the United Nations I say

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have bedded several asian men, my favourite was a tall, slender, beautiful Malaysian who was 15 years younger than me. Sadly he was deported for overstaying his visa.   I lived with a Mauritian for a couple of years, he spoke wth a sexy french accent and was black. He was sooo sexy but what a rogue.   This year I have bedded two Greek men, I like them both a lot, I think I have a bit of a thing for Greek men now. They are both outgoing and funny but perhaps a little self absorbed. They are welcome back in my bed anytime. Not at the same tme!   I am open and accepting of different cultures and always willing to learn more.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Irish accents get me going, but so do French, Italian even some English, Scottish.. Lol. Do you see where I'm going here...Although I do prefer my men to be tanned and over 5'8".. There are certain races that I'm not attracted to, even though the person may be wonderful. Guess it all comes down to personal preferences...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I'm attracted to european men, mainly from southern europe and the mediterranean region .... maybe its because my background is south european so we seem to think along the same wave lengths.   In general, its a persons attitude to life that is the most attractive. Free thinking, free spirited and happy nature is a good start.   SFxx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I love men full stop! I can be attracted to any man from any race. I have been with men from a few different countries now.... Communication has not been a problem because attraction is a universal language ;) XXX

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Nothing like a sexy, fluid, rolling Italian accent accompanied with a meaningful look to make me drop to my knees ;)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'City_Kitty'Nothing like a sexy, fluid, rolling Italian accent accompanied with a meaningful look to make me drop to my knees ;) Beh Ciao Ms Kitty ti ravishing pezzo di bellezza lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Thank you for the responses :) they are very refreshing to hear.     Quoting 'City_Kitty'Nothing like a sexy, fluid, rolling Italian accent accompanied with a meaningful look to make me drop to my knees ;) as in the Sopranos?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I love the exotic and different, accents, brown skin, different cultures outlooks , it all effects love making... South American lovers yum, Irish accents- panty wetting material , Afghanistan eyelashes - to die for, New Zealand Tatoos - hot, 22 year Old French Backpackers *swoon*, Spanish kisses- divine....I don't mind where they come from , just how we click;) Minxy x

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I'm also interested in the opinion towards Asian men. It seems that there are a lot of stigma towards them as well as large cultural differences.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    any particular Irish accents? Like Dublin ones? or Cork ones?

  • inspirit

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    12 years ago

    objects so much better when there is no need for words

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    So far it's mainly been Dublin.. But I'm hoping to broaden my range... Quoting 'MattDub' any particular Irish accents? Like Dublin ones? or Cork ones?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Dublin and Limerick ones Mattdub x

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I know we shouldnt generalize but I tend to go for the Europeans too, and like most of the other girls I swoon over an accent! mmmmmmmhowever have found some aussie born Italian & Greek heritage guys tend to be a bit self centred, I blame their mums for treating them like little demi- gods! In my younger years I had a few wonderful experiences with Asian men in their own countries, as a holiday romance always enhances the memories of a trip.Fell in love with a Pakistani tour guide on a trip though the Karakoram mountains! Had sex on a Shakira boat on Dal Lake in Kashmir, India and had a fling with a Thai hotel worker after he retrieved my diamond ring from the bottom of the hotel pool! But if they had of been here I wouldnt have looked twice at them! The language barrier just adds to the whole experience of an overseas holiday! I did have a couple of asian lovers here in Aus too when I was younger and I must admit these 2 chinese guys were wonderful lovers-the things they did Ive never had done since! used to think Aussie lovers were boring ! lolnice forum topic Dieselnoi - its good to reminisce !hugs Cutiexxx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MattDub'any particular Irish accents? Like Dublin ones? or Cork ones? Northern Irish please Matt! Let's see... Irish, Northern Irish, English, Scottish, German, Dutch, Italian, Zimbabwian, American, Aussie...   The Belfast accent definitely wins.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Being born on a tropical island, l came here when l was 12 years old. Through my teen years my parents always wanted to me to hook up with a guy of similar background, but for me, l always felt attracted to the aussie personality. Dated italian, greek and german guys Found the italian and greek guys too full of themself which was a turn off for me. The german guy was bordering on rude.. So it was no surprise to me when l landed my blue eyed aussie guy who l married. He, however is a mix of aussie, maori, and irish... So l got interesting mixture.. lol Mr jj has a liking for island girls, natually, lol also a soft spot for asian girls Opposites attract.. yes. ?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Any Irish accent will drive me crazy...and if you can add that Irish dancing to your skills i'll probaby marry you lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Personally i love foreign men I LOVE turkish, italians, and greeks mmm so hot hehe and russian accents As for aussie blokes im not a big fan

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hi! Dieselnoi:) Thanks for the Topic...Honestly I never think of a Guys Origins because I Connect within them I Bypass their skin colour appearance as such ..I See. feel the Individual they are..Each is Unique and Wonderful.. However I do have a Penchant for Italian /Middle Eastern Guys who have Strength of Character, Fun, Passion Romantic Attentive Lovers.. I 've always found them Particularly Considerate complimentarey Polite and soSexy in their Manner and Appearance mmmmYUM!!They respect the Amazing Woman I AM.. I've only Travelled To Tennessee USA My lover was My Husband who came from there ..However all the Guys I met treated me with Respect called me MissLu I miss that now he!he! I was surprised how many Guys I attracted whilst there :) In Australia I've enjoyed Guys who are Italian ,Arabic, English, Australian, European, Singapore Malaysians, Indian ,Pakistani, Shrilankan, South African,.. Each Culture are Individuals .. The Guys from India and nearby have all been Virgins I Tutored thenm on how to be good Lovers..They are Smart but no Social Sexual Skills whern it comes to Women ..Not saying all are this Innocent but those I attracted were.. The Guy from Singapore was very sweet a Little reserved but fun we're still good Friends often keep intouch Online.. English Aussies very Similar ..Fun pretty well Laid Back as Lovers but attentive nice..Tho a couple of the English had a Kink Liked to be a Naughty Boys get Punished ha!ha! The Tall well Proportioned African Guy Solomon was a real Surprise.. He looked nothing Like his Pic..his muscles rippled the light hit his chocolate skin so Sensual he had a very Proud air about him mmmmmmm He was 50yrs Looked in his early 40s..No he wasn't Hung like a Horse he!he! Itallian Lovers are Demanding sometimes mainly if thye have just moved from Italy or still return their .. it's about their needs ..but they also have made very attentive Romantic Sexy Lovers once they realize before hand I don't put up with that crap Guys who reside in Australia lose that selfabsorbed air..I enjoy them very much ha!ha! Arabian Lovers are very Masculine Respectful towards me ..depending on their age can be self absorbed like the Italians but they soon become very attentive Lovers with me if they weren't before.. All My Sexual Encounters have been Unique Intimate Sensual Times I Love every one of My Lovers for who they are not where they come from..Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hey Dieselnoi,   Language barrier? Why? Do you suffer from a speech impediment? Oh I get it. You just naturally assume that if a man is a foreigner there must be a language barrier? This attitude seriously pisses me right off. Not every foreigner "NO SPEAKA THE ENGALISH." My first language is English, I have two degrees in education and a diploma in english language. There never has been a language barrier. That aside, haven't you heard of the oldest language on the planet:"The language of love." Who uses or cares about words when two people in love or lust mesh together emotionally or sexually? The most effective form of communication between lovers, before you utter a word, is with your aura, your scent, touch..finger tips, lips, teeth, your entire body..... Yikes!!!! No wonder so many women stray.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    the OP was simply asking a question...of women.Language is not a barrier in the short term, when both are consumed by lust,I had a great fling with a Neapolitan poet in Florence who could speak no English and I had very little Italian.He was one of the sexiest and funny men that I have ever met...however if we had continued into a serious relationship then we would definitely have had to learn each others other language.The language of love would not have been enough.

  • inspirit

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    12 years ago

    i happen to mention....tie em up

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I tork strine

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'PassionateMoment' Hey Dieselnoi,   Language barrier? Why? Do you suffer from a speech impediment? Oh I get it. You just naturally assume that if a man is a foreigner there must be a language barrier? This attitude seriously pisses me right off. Not every foreigner "NO SPEAKA THE ENGALISH." My first language is English, I have two degrees in education and a diploma in english language. There never has been a language barrier. That aside, haven't you heard of the oldest language on the planet:"The language of love." Who uses or cares about words when two people in love or lust mesh together emotionally or sexually? The most effective form of communication between lovers, before you utter a word, is with your aura, your scent, touch..finger tips, lips, teeth, your entire body..... Yikes!!!! No wonder so many women stray. ummm, is there any reason why you attack me? I am only asking question.   In reply, if you are a foreigner you have language barrier- I have met a lot of Americans who cannot understand a word of Australian accents. Of course you can speak English, you can communicate- but there will be slangs or words that the locals are using and as a foreigner you may not be familiar with it, and that is a barrier. As a person who has two diplomas in English you should understand this. And you said English is your first language, so ofcourse you will never have to experience this yourself- particularly in a situation where you are the one struggling to communicate. Imagine you speak Chinese as your second language for example, would you be able to communicate fluently as you do in English given you have no speech impairment.And yeah, I know the language of love- but do you think that you can have a relationship with someone without being to communicate clearly to the person?Also, no one here cares to know how many degrees you have. Just be polite and don't attack anyone for no good reason.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Was your tirade really necessary ?   The OP asked for opinions on many issues regarding foreign men.... language was just one question and it was ""Do you find language a barrier.?" How do you know he was referring to sex ? ....he may have been talkiing about general communication...like "Hon can I borrow a toothbrush if I stay over tonite"? or "Want to split a pizza ?   University degrees mean you have studied....but in the real world pretty much count for shite   .........I guess rudeness transcend all languages and races         I miss American men

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I am a complete sucker for an accent , makes a man instantly 40% ( approx haha) hotter !! Italian , French, Irish - team that with a uniform , deadly combo!!!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Ladies where are the Canadian Studs sitting? lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I would say the feeling is mutual. lol...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    max pell is a guy with french & italian parents & he is so hellfire exotic to look at.....in my experience european men are tuned in more to erotica than lets say our typical aussie bloke and his american counterpart. this is not a judgement just what i've personally found.I have no control over who turns me on, i don't analyze it i enjoy it....i reckon dr phil's a bit bloody hot, so's antonio banderas, lenny henry, adam lambert, & even a coupla hard core gay male celebrities have got enough testosterone to feature in quite a few mental images i've enjoyed over the years.i also think whoopi goldberg and ellen degeneres are hot & i've always considered myself hetero, so there ya go......hopes this helps you young man........cheers from rD............

  • Cheekyarses

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    12 years ago

    I just love men who are tall dark & hansome. Italian men are sexy.....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'NaughtybyNight81'Ladies where are the Canadian Studs sitting? lol Canadians are gorgeous, especially from Quebec with a bit of french accent thrown in with the canuck ...yum   Met my Canadian husband online. His accent over the phone made my knees go weak....lol Damn good lover too! What he didn't know about love making wasn't worth knowing.   SFxx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    What a ridiculous over-reaction.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I had a two month fling with a ladakhi man when traveling in India. There were huge cultural differences, particularly regarding attitudes to sex, but we were each attracted to the character and personality of the other, so it worked. It's great where, for whatever reason, you both know the relationship has a short lifespan. Theres no worrying about the future or being frustrated by compromises or day to day life together - you just savour the moments and enjoy each other.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'I am a complete sucker for an accent , makes a man instantly 40% ( approx haha) hotter !! Italian , French, Irish - team that with a uniform , deadly combo!!!!! half spanish half greek over here.   we should talk. hahaha

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Quoting 'City_Kitty'Nothing like a sexy, fluid, rolling Italian accent accompanied with a meaningful look to make me drop to my knees ;) Beh Ciao Ms Kitty ti ravishing pezzo di bellezza lol Solo parole, Mr Enigma haha.Regarding the OP's further question as to Asian men... unfortunately I subscribe to the camp of generally not being attracted to full-blooded Asian men, no matter how much I try (and I've tried). I can never shake the feeling that we're somehow related! :/

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'City_Kitty' Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' Quoting 'City_Kitty'Nothing like a sexy, fluid, rolling Italian accent accompanied with a meaningful look to make me drop to my knees ;) Beh Ciao Ms Kitty ti ravishing pezzo di bellezza lol Solo parole, Mr Enigma haha. Regarding the OP's further question as to Asian men... unfortunately I subscribe to the camp of generally not being attracted to full-blooded Asian men, no matter how much I try (and I've tried). I can never shake the feeling that we're somehow related! :/ Well i'm Half Italian Kitty so i couldn't help myself :) lol Devo dire che le gambe alla ricerca mangiabile in quella foto lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I’ve been every where man...sex and travel English, can be rather nice but tend to keep their socks on for some reason. USA men are by far the best I have had and honey I have had my share and then some. French men not my thing at all, never had one but I find the French rude so fuck em..or not Chines well nope I am to tall , and have had a bit of a kiss with a guy from my school but not my thing. Israeli ohhh god yes Arab again yes very hot Bedouin brothers German yes, nice and clean and athletic Italian yes, very passionate and love it when they speak Italian to you while fucking. South African , yes but a bit arrogant but then I like alpha males Not partial to black guys no idea why, have dated a few but no sex as never felt the urge and one of them was a very very hot looking USA guy. No chemistry Irish if they stay sober are ok, but a lot are hopeless when they drink and they do like to drink And really a lot of men I have no idea where they were born so it never came up..other things did. Mexico way, yep hot Canadian yes , yummy I am doing my best for world peace, make love not war

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You look to " fragile" anyway for a black male.. Quoting 'Litonya' I think it depence on the culture and the person. I share my home with a man and no way I would start something, but also getting to know more about him and where he comes from I would leave my hands of him. He is for once very religious, but as most men in religion breaks lots of rules but expects the women to obey by them. No way would I be with such a person. Also this may now be very bad what I say and please no one should take this personal..... I am not attracted to black males. .. I like french, spanish latino, white men, asian men dont attract me either when I think of it. And language ohh yes....love french and italien accents. Cheers Litonya

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hi! Hun :) Passionatemoment's unnecessary Observation..was Ignorant, down right rude. .I read your Rebuff I felt you expressed yourself in an Inteligent forthright Manner .. You kept on the Topic concerned..and said it with Passion.... Thankyou for saying that I agree whole heartedly with your opinion.. .Particularly because I could feel Your Vibes your Passion why you were saying it... In a sense I was standing with you as you replied.. I enjoyed it very Much .. Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Mrs L, Loves playing with European guys, especially Italian guys... :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Living up to your name....Bite me.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Lmao @ ... "Irish if they stay sober are ok, but a lot are hopeless when they drink and they do like to drink"I know a lot of Irish people ( was even married to one ). All wonderful people, and yes most can drink.Sex and alcohol, that's maybe another good topic for another post. Complete turn off for me and refuse to ever have sex with a drunk woman.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Russian is the best. In all ways, learning the language too haha

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The best accent, so good that I"m learning the language!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    As I said earlier, I was born on a island.. My background is a mixture of French, Afro , and Indian.. while Mr JJ is a Aussie born here of parents who's background are Irish , Maori and English ... So we're both made up of a lil bit of everything... I am just so happy I married a man with a good heart, a great smile and generous nature. This is something I never found with the guys of different nationality's I dated before we meet .. The European guys I mentioned earlier thought they were gods gift to us women , which quite frankly.. they were not ..Leaves me scratching my head when ppl here feel the need to look everywhere else except their own backyard, there are good and bad in every race, yet we dont hear much about the bad...As a girl who was born o'seas.. I can tell you.. theres nothing wrong with your own home grown products...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Russian woman is on top my my list, in fact Eastern European in general.     Quoting 'cave_explorers'The best accent, so good that I"m learning the language!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Hun :) Passionatemoment's unnecessary Observation..was Ignorant, down right rude. .I read your Rebuff I felt you expressed yourself in an Inteligent forthright Manner .. You kept on the Topic concerned..and said it with Passion.... Thankyou for saying that I agree whole heartedly with your opinion.. .Particularly because I could feel Your Vibes your Passion why you were saying it... In a sense I was standing with you as you replied.. I enjoyed it very Much .. Cheers Lu :)  Thank you Madam :) I really do appreciate that.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    "Devo dire che le gambe alla ricerca mangiabile in quella foto" In Italian means "I must say that the legs at the edible research in that photo".... What? I mean u are truly truly cute... But probably less than one eight Italian, hehehe Maybe u can still get away by faking the accent though... I bet that 90 % of Aussies would not know any different. Second Language learning. Not a priority in this country! I suppose if I was a native English speaker I would be a bit lazy too... But who knows :-) Esi :-) (love Australian and French accent)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Esime'"Devo dire che le gambe alla ricerca mangiabile in quella foto" In Italian means "I must say that the legs at the edible research in that photo".... What? I mean u are truly truly cute... But probably less than one eight Italian, hehehe Maybe u can still get away by faking the accent though... I bet that 90 % of Aussies would not know any different. Second Language learning. Not a priority in this country! I suppose if I was a native English speaker I would be a bit lazy too... But who knows :-) Esi :-) (love Australian and French accent) Hahahaaa, too funny! Maybe he wants to do edible research between her legs?? Join the club Mr Enigma. XXX

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just love have French sweet talk in my ears , meeeeeelts meeee. Also met a spunky mixed race man a few months ago who was deeeelishous! Yum.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Waterbabes'Hahahaaa, too funny! Maybe he wants to do edible research between her legs?? Join the club Mr Enigma. XXX A cohort study so we have an orgy...lol