RHP

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Asking your partner to try bi mmf

May 14 2016

OK so my partner want to do a mmf threesome which I'm happy to do. But I old also like to a bi mmf threesome just to experience it and also if she gets two cock to play with why can't I have two people sucking me off right? My question is how can I bring this up with her (I'm happy to do it here way first it is her fantasy) but after that how do I broach the subject?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    easy does it, go with the straight mmf first, let that play out and make it as much about her as possible, get her really turned on with 2 cocks in the room, but not just the 2 cocks, don't forget your other assets, voice, hands, fingers, tongue, warmth, make her the focus. Kiss her all over, drive her wild, both of you. THEN when she's comfortable in company, because that can be a biggy for people who haven't played with multiples, start to ask her about fantasies, bring it up in conversation, even using some of the forum threads here, talk about how women seem to fantasise about being with 2 bi men and ask how she feels or just wait for her comment without having to ask. All else fails, open up and just ask her, she might warm to the idea eventually but I'd definitely let the other happen at least once, maybe a few times. Sometimes a bit of time is needed to evolve. Good luck and have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But but also came up with the idea when talking to a mate who wanted to try new things but didn't know how to tell there partner what they wanted to try, I suggested get a porno with what you want and bring it up while watching it or just after watching it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Your conversation about the mmf was brought up by the mrs.... So you broach your fantasy by the same way... Maybe after the mmf you could say "I was thinking next time we could go a bi mmf??" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • work1npr0gress

    work1npr0gress

    9 years ago

    Why the need for subterfuge? It's an easy answer, you just talk to your partner. You've clearly developed a good enough rapport to discuss her fantasies, what makes yours any different. Dump your fear, and speak to her! She may be wanting that very thing!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Itouch nailed it. Slowly slowly. My gf was never into that scenario. Now bi mmf is on the top of the list. Tvs were never on her radar either. People evolve with experiences. Steer her slowly in the direction and see what happens. People surprise people. Never say never

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm assuming that since she is wanting to try mmf that she is fairly open minded. So I would just talk to her about it. Tell her that it interests you but you would only go through with it if she is ok with it. What exactly is your fear? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    How did your partner bring it up? Anyway follow your gut. They had the guts to bring it up with you... Can't be that hard now for you to also be honest about your needs. Just bring it up.. Nothing's compulsory in a relationship ... If it is then it's a worry. 😳😎😄😂😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    How does your partner feel about gay and bi guys? Has male on male action ever come up? Is she into it at all?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Id go with the mmf focusing on her in the beginning, then maybe when shes sucking his cock etc offer to help her. See how things progress, she may be ok with a little at first,(jerking etc) and can go from there.. or just straight out ask, honesty is the best, she may be thinking it but ne afraid of how youd react 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MrsLittleBit

    MrsLittleBit

    8 years ago

    I assume that due to your profile really only featuring you, that it's going to be up to you to find the person/persons to play with? Maybe if she's keen you could try meeting a couple, then look for a couple that has a bi male. When you meet up for drinks first (which i'd hope you would do) you could allow them (provided they are more experienced) to introduce the male/male subject?You could also do the same with a single guy I suppose, but it's important that you talk to him first and set it up so it looks like it's his idea. Then even if you say yes to the situation and she says no, it's all on him bringing the subject up.Problem solved?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'CandyD' How does your partner feel about gay and bi guys? Has male on male action ever come up? Is she into it at all? Good advice CandyD. I'm gay and prefer straight/bi guys and pleasuring them. But have always wanted to try it with the guys gf in the room.