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At the Doctors
March 27 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't at all. I tell the sex clinic. My family doctor gets all the other stuff to deal with... lord knows he's got enough to worry about. hehe. By the way, every time I try and guess the answer to the "how many sexual partners have you had since your last checkup" question, the sex clinic doctor's next question is always "Are you a sex worker". However, the man who seems to put a finger in each ear and sing "la la la la la la" every now and again is my shrink.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
That I have a new partner they dont need to know that it has the potential to be updated each weekend Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
He isn't shocked by us any more and seems to genuinely enjoy our visits.
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RHP User
13 years ago
5 or 50 shouldn't it be the same test regardless. I was under the impression that the number of partners was just used as a guide to how often you need to be tested .It dose get strange when the doc ask's things when you get tested separately like ...how long have you been with your partner and you say 15 years with a ring on your finger.Then you come back 3 months later and ask for another test. he-she must cotton onto the fact your not in a monogamist relationship. Keeping the family doc out of the picture is a good idea.Tim
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RHP User
13 years ago
So I should be truthful then TimandJane? Well they should make a note on my file then, or maybe not. But I am sure I said that I sometimes go to sex clubs with a very naughty friendn the last time they asked me that question 6 mths ago. But what I should be saying is "So, do you know Stalky?" Bwahahahahaah xxMeeks
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RHP User
13 years ago
...as he only lives a couple of houses down from me and I look after most of his equity investments. We of course have confidentiality agreements that we respect...and hey, he can write 'scripts from home which sometimes can come in very handy for those unexpected things that might just come up on a weekend. | And once they're up...it's nice to keep them that way. | | Better living through chemistry was not just the slogan for Dow you know.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My Doctor, to his credit, rarely bats an eyelid when I tell him everything. ... Poor guy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it's because I always hesitate when they first ask the question. Should I or shouldn't I tell them everything. So I think they assume I am embarrassed?
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RHP User
13 years ago
As close to the truth as possible. It's confidential and they can make the best decisions regarding your health which is why your going to see them in the first place. Lets face it it's probably not the worst they've ever heard, although maybe it'll be in the top ten.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The sex clinic wouldnt see me told me if I wasnt on their list I should go to the womens health clinic. The list included sex worker HIV gay etc.The womens clinic couldnt help me so off to the little old chinese family doctor who was pleased with me and said at least I was having fun.I dont tell him how much but I guess if you answer in the high numbers they know your in need of that test.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My last check with our family GP I just said I had a new partner; she know's we've been together a long time and was great. Her only question was whether I had told Mr.But, weirdly, I've never considered a clinic but I think that's a good idea and will do that next time
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont know about you guys, but do you find when you have been with someone new, you tend to feel an itch or something different?? i know it is in the imagination !! My Doc is cool , i get tested every year to be sure to be sure..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'timandjane'It dose get strange when the doc ask's things when you get tested separately like ...how long have you been with your partner and you say 15 years with a ring on your finger.Then you come back 3 months later and ask for another test. he-she must cotton onto the fact your not in a monogamist relationship. I went for my first test a month or so ago since rejoining the scene and I was so worried about what my GP would think that I didn't wear my ring! She didn't ask me about my sex life at all thank goodness but she did seem a little bewildered particularly as she has been my GP since before we had kids. I even had a story lined up that we were having a "break" and that I had been seeing someone else....the things we do....!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We both have different doctors at the same medical centre. He gets his yearly blood tests done and asks his doctor to throw in all the sexy tests, which the doc does no questions asked. Two weeks later we both came down sick (non sexual) so we both see her doctor together same symptoms. Well her doctor was put in a spot....He asked how was his chlestorel sugar levels etc from the recent blood tests, she said yes those two are fine talked about the numbers then very discretly quickly said and the rest are fine in a awkward tone. Hoping the wife would not pick up on it ....lol We do agree with other posters here, Sex clinics are far better for the sexy testes and your GP for G rated stuff. We are definately more open at sex clinics and they did a far better job for us, they requested we tell all our swinging friends about their service.
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jensta
13 years ago
Regular STI Checks .... I tell my Doctor .... my Man has been fucking around ....LMFAO .... I'm Single Tested not long ago .... all is good .... :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
He thinks I am making it up that I really am to old to have sex He humours me and gives me tests he says TR one man is a problem, more than one is more problems , etctaraaaaaaaaaa etcetaraaaaaaaaaaaaa I said well Doc you gave me those hormone patches and its your falt they should be called WHORE Moans patches I think he blushed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I go to my vet.. was wondering if ticks, fleas, worms and parasites count??
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uneventful
13 years ago
there is absolutely NO reason for the Doctor to be asking HOW many partners you have had sex with in the last 6 months .. It is your request to e tested, and in all honesty ... the doctor should be recommending it to you on a 3-4 monthly basis .. considering the pre-requisit is not who you have slept with ... or how many .. but it is who/ how many they might have slept with .. If your out there and open enough to be living the lifestyle .. then be open and grown up enough to request the tests on a regular basis without being embarrassed / shy .. because there is NO reason to disclose all history ..
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