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Attached man playing with partners consent/ Profile feedback
September 28 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am pretty sure there will be women who wouldn't give a fck if you were doing it with your partners consent or not.OTHERS, with try to lynch you, or draw and quarter you.I am just following this to read the comments...
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RHP User
8 years ago
😎🤓😹🙄🕳
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RHP User
8 years ago
some women won't care....others won't go near you with a barge pole cos they're looking for commitment and/or "less drama". Just run your own race and enjoy yourself.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd take cavey's option A and you look really good in a towel
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RHP User
8 years ago
you'll probably find quite a few are put off by attached men but some are okay with it for me it suits as long as the partner knows. Each to their own.
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RHP User
8 years ago
profile seemed all good to me
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry i only meet single guys attached guys are not for me.😊 That is guys that I hope are really single lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It just depends on what they are looking for and if you tick the right boxes xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cos deep down they wanna be THE ONLY one you're fucking...... But..... It's not all about them eh? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I just looked at the pictures but yes, your profile is great, I can't see anything wrong with it, you've put a lot of effort into it, all good
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can definately understand the hesitation, considering the amount of people whose partuners don't know/ change their minds. It wouldn't be worth the potential added drama to some. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Haha I'm more than happy for it to be about then, just let me help ;) lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the feedback poison :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Better make the safe word clear then ey? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had play meets with 7 women in the two years that I have been on rhp. I have chatted to countless singles and couples in that time. What I can say with absolute certainty is that with or without your partner's consent, most people will assume that you are cheating and they will usually only meet for play dates if that does not bother them. I thnk the rationale is that many guys on rhp who claim to have permission, really don't and a lot of women and couples have been put of by single males who are fuckwits. I'm only speaking from my own experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nibblemebi
8 years ago
You'll find that we're all different, as some have mentioned, there's a certain type of woman who'll not have a care in the world what your status is, there's some of us who prefer the single lads (a crazy upset gf can be lethal), and if in a genuine open relationship sometimes allowances are made. It's all about honesty. Bear in mind, you're a good looking Spring Chicken.. you may get in over your head and eaten alive ;) There's some insatiable women around these parts :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Depends on how tight your leash is. Does partner have a time frame and certain rules for your meets? Like you can fuck others, but only for an hr on a Monday afternoon? That's my peeve with attached. The time constraints that I'm expected to work around. I have no problem with attached if they don't come with a rediculous amount of rules that the partner sets. If I want to fuck you all night on a Saturday night,maybe sleep over? Can you offer that? Single women and couples will want a bit of freedom with organising a meet.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Even if you confirm that you're not cheating, attached guys almost always come with rules and boundaries and strict timeframes and I'm not interested in dealing with that. There are some women who will play with attached men though...it's just a matter of finding them. A couple other things to consider...one is that your age might be an issue for some, also you most likely won't get anywhere as a guest. Even single guys struggle as guests. You'll need to be the one doing the contacting in most instances.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Depends on how tight your leash is. Does partner have a time frame and certain rules for your meets? Like you can fuck others, but only for an hr on a Monday afternoon? That's my peeve with attached. The time constraints that I'm expected to work around. I have no problem with attached if they don't come with a rediculous amount of rules that the partner sets. If I want to fuck you all night on a Saturday night,maybe sleep over? Can you offer that? Single women and couples will want a bit of freedom with organising a meet. very true! Quoting 'jeffjohnson1985' I've had play meets with 7 women in the two years that I have been on rhp. I have chatted to countless singles and couples in that time. What I can say with absolute certainty is that with or without your partner's consent, most people will assume that you are cheating and they will usually only meet for play dates if that does not bother them. I thnk the rationale is that many guys on rhp who claim to have permission, really don't and a lot of women and couples have been put of by single males who are fuckwits. I'm only speaking from my own experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
8 years ago
The thing is..... in here, what people say and what is real, are not always the same thing. So to avoid any drama many see if easier to put a red line through those playing solo and claiming permission to do so. Hell, there are those who dismiss anyone listed as single who's profile uses the word "discreet " as code for "gotta keep it on the down low as the missus can't find out". You can't please all of the people all of the time. So don't try. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Putting the shoe on the other foot here. Ive slept with attached women who had their time restraints and it doesn't bother me at all.. I understand they have their hurdles and are only wanting to get out of the rut and have that itch scratched they sometimes don't get at home. Leaves me scratching my head why some women need to complicate things when they don't need to. If you don't like a guy for what ever reason , move on to someone you do..
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RHP User
8 years ago
with married men in open relationships. One went on for 6 months+ and was terrific. I don't really enjoy sleepovers anyway so that didn't bother me. Another had so many restrictions on contact and visits that it was completely untenable. I have a busy life and kids and I expect my lovers to work around my schedule, I don't see why I shouldn't be expected to work around theirs, provided it isn't unreasonable.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks to everyone who has replied. Unfortunately, as always, the assholes ruin it for the honest people hey! Some very valid points here, definately taking it all on board:) as far as time restraints go, as long as I still spend time with miss and she is still feeling the love, we are all good:) (May have to add this to my profile I'm thinking) I think a paid membership will have to be on the cards at some point soon.. Hoping there is some ladies out there that see my age as an opportunity to corrupt me ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We started here some years ago as foreplay only soft play, just to dip our toes in the water so to speak! It went well we built more trust and went on to full swap, again more trust built. It came to the point where finding 4 people who were all into the same thing and wanted some naughty fun got more and more difficult, so we decided to try having some naughty fun separately. Yes we still seek couple fun but we are now open to finding singles that are happy to have fun with us on our own also. We have rules - tit for tat. Which basically means he plays I play, as we all know ladies have it easier than the fellas! But as far as other rules go - dinner, drinks, dancing, even a night away, yes they are available. As we are both getting the same indulgence. We both have single profiles here but don't actually link them to our couples profile. Mr Raw your profile looks good, and I've seen you in action on cam ;) Just be patient fun will cum haha Mrs Tefeela xx PS ladies feel free to hit up Mr Tef you have my permission lol ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're only 20 !! I didn't look at your profile. So is it a girlfriend that you see casually but you live with your parents?might be a whole different story if you don't live together and have kids etc.you are a cutie by the way. "Willow goes and puts a top on while she chats about sex to someone 2.5 times younger than her...." Lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Willow's comment reflects what I've been thinking lately. I've had some success with attached guys, some amazing success, but more recently the ones' I've been in contact with I've found selfish and if they can't hook up when it suits them, they wander off, and what's with the 20 questions asking how 'clean' we are. I had a guy mention this the other day so gave a thoughtful reply reassuring him there's not much chance of catching anything from me, all I've been doing is working round the clock, but also telling him I understand the importance of not taking anything home to his partner blah blah all about him of course. So exchange a few messages, all good, until he asks if I can hook up the next day and I told him the same thing I'm telling all guys at the moment, He would have to be patient. time is an issue, a big issue atm. Never got a reply but saw in my feed he'd gone onto datefinder looking for 5 dates lol and he's worried about what he'll catch from me? Fuck dude, I should be asking you to go get tested After a quick root, and that doesn't cut it with me, attached, not attached, they need to treat us like a person they care about and consider worthy of their time, not a commodity, or a service, they can go and pay for that IMHO
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's my girlfriend of 5 years, we live together with no kids anytime soon (we hope lol)... Thanks! ;) Youthful and ready for corruption haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
That sounds like the perfect arrangement! Equal opportunity and no one gets left out. Thanks! ; ) I_touch Yeah I can definately understand that, some people really aren't prepared to put the time in. Just want a quick fix - Posted from rhpmobile
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