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Attraction ,we all have our preferences but have you ever

April 21 2014

been attracted to someone that completely goes against your type? What was there about that person that "turned'' you? xx Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Still, I don't ignore people for looking different. The world would be a boring place if we all looked the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am a stubborn Taurean though, when my mind is made up, good luck changing it. I have however had a guy who made me cum that I was not attracted to and although he went to great lengths to pleasure me, I can't go back there due to the lack of attraction. I have had people who have grown on me too. As for my type, I am not sure what that is, I know what I don't want and I know what I want when I see it but describing it is difficult.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Tell me , At 99 yrs old , is it true that some men close to your age that have a drivers licence at nearly 100 yrs become attractive to all the old bangers at the nursing home . I ride in a Datsun 120Y would surely be better than breaking a hip trying to get the stairs of the common bingo bus .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes I have in the past...only once though. Although I do classify myself as a nerd, I absolutely love the outdoors and being active and that was pretty important to me in regards to finding a potential partner. However, one day a lady caught my eye and she was incredible. Witty, smart, articulate and really great conversationalist. I really enjoyed listening to her and we had some great discussions and debates over certain topics. Was really invigorating if you know what I mean. But, she hated the beach, anything to do with exercise etc. I went with it for a while and did what she wanted to do. But she hardly if ever went and shared what I wanted to do. It made our relationship really hard and yeh finally we broke up. I guess looking back, I definitely value the time I had with her...but will not make that decision again.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    Bald biker type....so not my type usually.....first meet swept me off my feet I was seriously impressed and quite taken.... But after the third cancellation I am now over it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' Bald biker type....so not my type usually.....first meet swept me off my feet I was seriously impressed and quite taken.... But after the third cancellation I am now over it. Three is too many, cut him off for sure. You are better than that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... are you worried that's against the type of most people? ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We all have a fatal attraction thing I think. I found myself rather besotted with a previous rhp member that was not the norm that I would have chosen to meet. But my god, blew my mind....... he is long gone now and simply a hot memory :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It seems that there are a few kinky fetishists here interested in incredibly old me...go figure huh...mind you they have usually convinced themselves that I am more than a little disingenuous... xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, and I now don't automatically discount someone because they are not visually my type (within limits - I'm thinking hygiene here!) I have found if you connect mentally, the attraction then develops, no matter whether the person matches your visual 'ideal'. The best sex generally happens when there is a strong mental attraction!

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    Indeed yes. However not on first sight/meet. As I have gotten to know the person I have become more attracted to them. Always because of personality and the sexual connection. An interesting question Q and one worth contemplating. I never married my type tho I was with him for 20 years. I have gone out with my type and have come to realise I don't really gel with them. Go Figure lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As a fellow taurean I can so relate to your stubbornness. And yes have had the question of attractiveness that I thought I had been questioned. ... what challenged my thoughts? I'm still questioning.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My 'type' is a long tall piece of pelican shit, tall & skinny, gorgeous..... tight arse cheeks, swoon..... But he can be a physical opposite if he makes me laugh and engages my mind. That's all you need to 'turn' me.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    It's true! Aquarians...are barbarians! Went against all my values and core values. His bullshit and stories were so believable, that his pants actually caught on fire!! *sighs* If only he gave up the drink and other illegal addictive substances I must say the poor chap, taught me a few things or two. So, can't really complain. I thank him to this very day. :) Foxy

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' Bald biker type....so not my type usually.....first meet swept me off my feet I was seriously impressed and quite taken.... But after the third cancellation I am now over it. There is a good chance that's the problem, probably couldn't start the bastard, but he would not tell any one about that. And there ain't no way he would catch a cab.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    A Man's man, strong arms, a fair bit taller than me, nice teeth, smells divine, a nice mixture of naughty & nice, can make me smile/laugh and with one kiss can make me weak in the knees.......yep that would be lovely, please and thank you......a girl can dream can't she......💋

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    A twin cam Harley will always start.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    After about 5 years of swinging, I don't think we have a 'type' any more, and even our once narrow age range has expanded. We now have characteristics which apply to a range of types, non smokers, drug free, good personal hygiene, good teeth, and able to hold a conversation without racist or sexist comments. Nice people come in a range of 'types.' This May also explain why people will go for someone who is not their type, because the other characteristics outweigh the type preference.

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    Bloody auto correct

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    11 years ago

    where two characters who have been fighting each other the whole movie so far, then the guy tries to kiss her and she slaps him, then they jump each other... I've done that...She annoyed the ever-loving shit out of me for ages, then one day we met up somewhere and she came back to my place to talk about something else and i don't know why, but i couldn't help myself. Who knew, right?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Was visiting friends up the coast . They took me out to the local where I meet some new friends including a rather plain looking lady who normally I wouldn't look twice at. Anyway, cut a long story short after quite a few ales we ended up back at her unit . One thing lead to another and before I knew it we were rolling around the bed exploring. Turned out this rather plain looking lady had one of the nicest shaped bodies I ever set my eyes on...Perfect sculptured breasts with puffy nipples . I was surprised how turned on I was and how good the sex was.. but I still wasn't attracted ...