M48 F48
Attractive/Very Attractive Description
December 30 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can't have voting on attractiveness as it is subjective. Just as you yourself have just said. ^_^
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RHP User
12 years ago
What is considered attractive/very attractive to one, is not for the other I must admit if I click on a profile and see the box marked - Very Attractive - for reasons even unknown to me, I click next. I am imitimidated by beauty and turned on by intellect
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RHP User
12 years ago
have a face pic in the pg ,then it is up to the viewer to make that judgement call.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You want people to vote on your attractiveness and to show your score on your profile? I don't think this would be a good thing
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RHP User
12 years ago
I meant no attractive,very attractive or average ,just a pic for anyone who you want to see your profile ,,,,I vote for no voting,.
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jensta
12 years ago
Mine says Attractive ... have Face Pics in my Gallery So when there is Interest ... then they can look and see for them self
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know some ladies don't think much of my looks butoithers can't keep their hands of me. Ok, I know one that can't keep their hands off me
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RHP User
12 years ago
Learn to proff red funlover72
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RHP User
12 years ago
Learn too proff red finlover
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RHP User
12 years ago
When its an attractive person its objective (at least in part) not subjective lol. When its based on the physical and the person is lucky to be an attractive person we might like to make ourselves feel better in saying its subjective but thats bullshit its objective lol. Personality and internal traits are a perfect example of subjective because there is nothing physically you can use to judge looks on lol. Come on people lets have some honesty the physical is objective and shallow while the internal qualities are subjective.
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RHP User
12 years ago
if a person isn't photogenic dosen't mean they will be dead set ugly in real life.I have met a couple of guys that their pics did nothing for them. Then again somei havemet look so much older hen their pics. So no to voting. Face to face is best.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...my own mind, thanks. There are a multitude of things that go into determining who is attractive or not, most aren't captured in a two dimensional photo or words you may choose to use in your profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I absolutely agree
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't heard that term used in ages. :D I said "fcuk me dead" the other day. That made me laugh too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I (male) find when going out on the town that less attractive girls are walking around like they are God's gift to men and the more attractive girls walk around with crap self confidence. It saddens me.There is no way to tell from someone ticking a box of themselves in a profile whether they will be attractive or not. Some people have high self esteem,some don't, some think it best to lie and say they are hot when they are not. We have seen 'very attractive' people and will agree with what they have picked, some we do not agree with. We do realise that this is what our opinion is as to what is attractive and also what their opinion is. You can't argue that someone is not 'very attractive' merely because you don't think so (although I sure do at times 'you are kidding yourself').It doesn't end there though, what about those that say they have an 'athletic' body but are clearly average from their pictures or those that lie about their age. The only true way to tell any of this is to hold out until you see proper pictures. Until then its all up in the air.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can you have one without the other? The difference between the Objective and the Subjective is one of understanding and its not easy as we do not often learn this,It's something i think you tend to seek out for yourself so i will give it my best shot to try to explain how i understand it to be.Objective is the Knowing and Subjective is the Believing,Objective is the Thinking and the Subjective is the Feeling. Confused? I sure as hell was, then i came to the conclusion that we need to understand the boundaries of what we know so we can get past our beliefs and feelings, surely we want to be objective if that means telling the truth as we see it.I believe myself to be average,given what i consider attractive in a person i think average suits me fine.
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RHP User
12 years ago
how can we say that physical attractiveness is not subjective when an object of beauty is only that ,when the viewer perceives it as such. There are so many factors involved which influence our individual preferences,how we are enculturated,our past experiences,both positive and negative,our family background,indeed many factors contribute to our judgement that we are totally unconcious of. Physical beauty in my opinion is indeed in the eye of the beholder.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let's all just submit a DNA sample so that some pointly-head can tell us exactly whether we're an Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Delta and Epslion and they can explain exactly which chromosome are the really sexy ones. "O wonder!How many goodly creatures are there here!How beauteous mankind is! O brave new world,That has such people in't."
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RHP User
12 years ago
The truth be told Attractive or not, that’s the question. I will lose in the picture department….look at me. I mean look at the women on here, most are soooo sexy and beautiful. I will lose; no one will tick my button as attractive. So then I have to delete my profile from RHP and hide???? OHH MY GOD>
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who is to say what is hot and what is not? Alot of people on here tell stories of having their self esteem and confidence shattered, they have come here and found likeminded people for funtimes, friendship and flings. To have people vote on your appearance would be horrible... what would it really achieve? The only thing that matters is whether you find someone you are potentially going to meet attractive, so demand a face pic. If they don't float your boat, politely move on... Why would you need to know what others think of a person's physical attributes? "Shall we meet up with so and so?" "Hmm I don't know, they don't have any 'attractive votes'...", It sounds like teenage bullshit to me, and isn't this an adult dating site? Sorry I don't mean to be harsh, just don't see what purpose it would serve other than to separate the populars from the unpopulars...
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Looks are only skin deep remember. There's soooooo much more to a person than their appearance. Pretty wrapping helps but in the end it's only wrapping, what it conceals is the determining factor. I mean, how many of you would stay with a shallow vapid self-absorbed individual just because they look good? Huh. Litonya I know some older gentleman who'd go gaga over you!! Never sell yourself short, it takes all kinds and men/women like each other in all shapes and sizes. We aren't a one size fits all. Errr otherwise I'd still be a virgin!!!
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inspirit
12 years ago
was attractive.... they say dogs look like their owners
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im with Shina. I tend to be a bit put off by a person who rate themselves as very attractive. If they have photos much prefer the look at my photo option.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think RHP maybe should remove that option from profiles. Like others have said, we really cannot be the judges for our own level of attractiveness for many reasons. And voting would only suit the more attractive people and make everyone else feel like crap! Although on my profile I have attractive. Only because of what I've been told by some women. I see my self as average. Then again I had a lady on here willing to meet for a coffee until I sent her my face pic. So who can truly be the judge?? Micksecrets
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is not attractive sniffing the old green draw back is not attractive bad breath is not attractive how you behave is what determines your attraction to others Pictures are only two dimensional and if get someone to take a shot of me from the back of bum fuck, and then I have on dark glasses and its an eclipse , I can look fucking attractive as well Besides when a guy is buried in you up to his balls, he don’t give a shit! you can be as ugly as a hat full of arse holes and some dude on here will fuck you..god bless em one and all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' The truth be told Attractive or not, that’s the question. I will lose in the picture department….look at me. I mean look at the women on here, most are soooo sexy and beautiful. I will lose; no one will tick my button as attractive. So then I have to delete my profile from RHP and hide???? OHH MY GOD> any man that takes you to bed will wake up with a huge grin on their face your passionate and delightful so no your not allowed to leave RHP TR with the artists eye, sees the beauty :)
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jensta
12 years ago
With Confidence it project outwards We are all beautiful in our own right ... we all are attracted differently ... beauty is in the eye of the beholder from a profile point of view looking at a pic ... that I say is Average if he says Attractive on his profile ... I like that it shows Confidence Confidence is Sexy ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that the voting system is a great thing to have on dating sites. Its a shame its hard to find what your score is on RHP. There are other dating sites that provide that feature and its a great way to assess ones self.The masses get it right, not the individual. There is a famous test where a large number of people (100 plus) are asked to guess the number of jelly beans in a jar. Most of the time no one comes close to the actual number but when you sum all the guesses and average them a surprising thing happens, it always gets very close to the real count, only a few percentage points out at most.Thus I trust the knowledge of the masses and it helps my self esteem a little. When I was young I did not have the best view of my self, and being but a shallow young adult I could not be seen with a girl that did not tick all the culturally defined attractive boxes.Yet now I don't give a rats what the profile says about looks. I look at the photos, then read the profile. Then I may or may not contact them.I have had dates with ladies and had no clue what they looked like (its fun in a crowed pub or restaurant trying to guess who it is going to be) Its the chemistry, the click that count. When you like someone they suddenly become beautiful. You look past any imperfection and focus on all that makes you smile and feel lucky to be friends.If you have an intimate partner its a level of trust that is not given to idle acquaintances, and to be focused on what you like it's easy to make them feel sexy, beautiful, admired, and wanted. When it comes from truth it has a natural easy flow of praise. Who does not like to be complimented when it comes from the heart.I have meet a lot of people from RHP over the years, and usually when the click is obvious to both of us the women tend to do a strange thing. They go through their flaws, I have a scar, or I don't have all my teeth, stretch marks, and blah blah blah, Look see (My god, we have not known each other for more then an hour and you are stripping down to show me what you don't like). Well I know they dig me and I struggle with a quid pro quo. I have my insecurities and most defiantly am mind fucked, so I let that out. So then if we both don't run its a delight. The most sexy people I know are an amalgamation, never just one thing (like their looks), and people that years ago I would not have consider in any way, are now lovers and best sexy friends. I hope forever.Looks is something for the young in mind. Sexy is something that can only be seen with maturity. The only thing I see as ugly is those that want to change me, yuck that's gross..Oh and that click has only about a 5 minute time frame, can only be gauged in person, and only works with a reciprocal response. Shame on those that have run when the click is there. But that's a different subject all together.Your are all sexy wonderful people.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...but only for an hour or two. Quoting 'On_Safari' I mean, how many of you would stay with a shallow vapid self-absorbed individual just because they look good?Then I'd move and look for someone of substance wearing a big wicked grin.
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playful4u
12 years ago
Haha, I have not heard that term since was in High School Quoting 'Meeka100'I haven't heard that term used in ages. :D I said "fcuk me dead" the other day. That made me laugh too.
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playful4u
12 years ago
NT you can vote on our attractiveness tonight as we are attending the same NYE party
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RHP User
12 years ago
People can be to shallow ,life is more than just looks.Why would people want to be taken on just their looks?This is why some people get bitter in their old age,because life to them is just about the look.One thing ,Honesty ,can be tested on people profile ,they can lie about how they look ect.Life has a way of teaching us lessons the hard way.Sure looking nice is good but its only a bit of the overall package.They should have an IQ rating on RHP would save us all a lot of heartbreak
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ha...playful for you......same here...i'll be in the black kilt ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Myself, i have had mates put shit on me a number of times because they have seen me with a lady that " in there eyes " is not hot , sexy , beautiful ect, to standard of what they think. I have been out with and known as what many would class as a very beautiful lady and yes as much as i admirer a lady that holds that type of appearance in the eyes of many, i have found myself to look far beyond the outer exterior and more to the person themselves and just how they make me feel , Often i find myself attracted to how i get along with the person and there personality. As a male i get other males pointing out and making a fuss over pics of naked ladies ect with so called perfect bodies and although they may look nice to some , it just dose not do it for me. i can find many ,dare i say average/normal looking ladies not naked but wearing some thing seductive or even the right outfit that shows a little of the cheekiness within to be more appealing and even a turn on.OMG,, i hope all that came out right !!! It is New Years Eve and i am stuck in a bloody mining camp ,lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
If physical beauty is subjective then why do we pay million dollar salaries to half a dozen women called 'super models' who have universal physical appeal? Or... Think Michaelangelo's David for example... beauty is universal and timeless and thoroughly objective. "Attractiveness" on the other hand may be subjective... since plenty of beautiful people are repulsive because they're bigots or racist etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Micksecrets81'I think RHP maybe should remove that option from profiles. Like others have said, we really cannot be the judges for our own level of attractiveness for many reasons. And voting would only suit the more attractive people and make everyone else feel like crap! Although on my profile I have attractive. Only because of what I've been told by some women. I see my self as average. Then again I had a lady on here willing to meet for a coffee until I sent her my face pic. So who can truly be the judge?? Micksecrets If RHP did have a voting system, being voted 'Unattractive' by the masses could be devastating! There are many people here that may not be considered good looking in the conventional way. Then, once you meet them in person, they blow you away. Voting solely on what you see in a photo is dangerous in my book, and could seriously damage those with little or no self esteem. Having been bullied as a child, this idea just sends up all kinds of red flags for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I basically agree with that Kizza. From my experience of being on here it has been interesting. I've had a male and a female friend some it up perfectly when they said this place is basically a brothel for women. I'm not complaining or whinging i can only comment as a male interested in females.. and looking at profiles and seeing what goes on the majority of women 35 plus have a majority of male friends in there 20's or early 30's or there attractive. The trend is very consistent.
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RHP User
12 years ago
everytime I read what YOU post.. I want to hug you.. (and I am NOT refering to NT) Anyway.. I wouldn't know subjectiveness from objectiveness if they galloped across my porridge.. One thing I like about Tuscan is her use of ARSE hole... where others tend to be american and use assole... Fair dinkum mate.. is assole something to do with a little equine quadraped with big ears and a fckd up attitude? *shrug* I THOUGHT I was going to wax my old wagon today..and instead find myself waxing lyrical..
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Splicey
12 years ago
We both looked at each other and laughed. We're together because we think the other person is the hottest person on the planet so answering that question would have been a little bias But as agreed, attractiveness involves interactionMrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe I'm nitpicking but I don't subscribe to your notion of "universal physical appeal". I can't see any beauty in the gaunt faces and shapeless figures of the "super models". In line more with your example of Michaelangelo's David, I think the subject of Alexandre Cabanel's "The Birth of Venus" is a more stunning example of female beauty. Ofcourse there will be many to disagree with me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jensman1903... I DO disagree with you about the Birth of Venus. Primarily because the Birth of Venus is actually a work by Botticcelli... And in an amazing coincidence, I actually stood in front of that VERY painting for about five minutes, earlier this morning at the Uffizi Museum here in Florence!! What struck me was that there was a two hour long line to get into the Uffizi this morning...because, it would seem, the works of a small number of very talented 15th century painters and sculptors have managed to bring people from all corners of the globe for centuries, to cast an eye on the same paintings.... Why does the world seem to agree that Da Vinci, Rembrandt, Durer, Caravagio, Botticelli are all the best in history? Because there IS a universal aesthetic ideal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm familiar with it but I don't like it. Which reinforces my view that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder. It is a beautiful painting and a significant masterpiece but Botticelli's Venus (the woman portrayed) does not possess the beauty I would attribute to a deity.Cabanel probably felt the same way. He did his own version (with the same title) and the subject in that work possesses the feminine beauty I would expect of a goddess. I feel that you are describing broad appeal. I can't see that universal beauty exists. Opinions differ. As long as just one person disagrees with your (or my own) version of beauty, it is not universal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wish I could have been standing there with you to view those priceless works.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...the only art I'll be viewing is on my shoulders.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cabanel's Birth of Venus all the way. And not just because her body looks a lot like mine...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok - is there anything above Very Attractive? Like Godlike, Goddesslike.......damn! lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know I'm attractive, so why can't I stipulate that in my profile? And I have pics made available for whomever to forge their own opinions.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'Ok - is there anything above Very Attractive? Like Godlike, Goddesslike.......damn! lol That would be PHOARR.
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RHP User
12 years ago
that conventionally beautiful people all seem to look the same,it's the unconventional beauty that really captures our attention. People gaze at the Mona Lisa too,but she is certainly not a conventional beauty,a dumpy brunette in conventional terms she has captured the world's attention for centuries fully clothed .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' that conventionally beautiful people all seem to look the same,it's the unconventional beauty that really captures our attention. People gaze at the Mona Lisa too,but she is certainly not a conventional beauty,a dumpy brunette in conventional terms she has captured the world's attention for centuries fully clothed .The same is true for Cleopatra.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '14all2c' I know I'm attractive, so why can't I stipulate that in my profile? And I have pics made available for whomever to forge their own opinions. ...You 'think' you are attractive - it is a subjective opinion you hold about yourself. It doesn't necessarily follow that you are attractive to other people on this site. I'm not suggesting that you are not an attractive guy - that is not for me to decide.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Actually, based on your theories, it is for you to decide. Just as it is for all the others whether on rhp or not..... See my claim isn't based on what I see in the mirror, my claim is based on the reaction I get from those I encounter. In turn, providing me with the confidence to make such a profound claim. I'm not claiming that I am better looking than anyone else, because that would be an opinion based on individual taste. I'm simply making the claim based on the attentions, comments and compliments I have received thus far in my life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would give you a phoar outta phoar philosopherpoet ,14 has his own thread telling him he is somewhat ok looking;just realized 14all2c,clever name.
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RHP User
12 years ago
you sure are damned fine too,no slouch in the looks department.. dear rhp gods,why is it so ,that all them gorgeous ones are over bloody there
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RHP User
12 years ago
and what's more Philosopherpoet has a very large,yep ladies you guessed it ....BRAIN so RHP gods could you be any cruella,good looks and brains,oh well just have to hop on that plane again...
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Splicey
12 years ago
Quoting '14all2c' I know I'm attractive, so why can't I stipulate that in my profile? And I have pics made available for whomever to forge their own opinions. Glasses hide a lot ;)MrsSplicey
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RHP User
12 years ago
who have had someone tell them they were not very attractive or just plain ugly?
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RHP User
12 years ago
we filled out our profile and left it as 'see my photo'...for both of us...... i later changed my wife to 'very attractive'......i do understand that theres always going to be a bias, as she is the woman i love, but i feel that her photos speak volumes... and i dont have the vocabulary that would do her justice..... ( i do really, but no one wants to hear it, lol)
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RHP User
12 years ago
*raises hand* but it's not like one person really matters....out of a world population of a few billion :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
and that doesn't really count, she was just trying to hurt you... she obviously thought you were attractive at some point huh? In my experience that never really changes it is just the water under the bridge that turns sour... if you know what I mean.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72' who have had someone tell them they were not very attractive or just plain ugly? Totally! I have been told it before but I just ignore it - my self-esteem doesn't 'totally' depend upon external verification.....I don't see the point in saying something that, potentially, can hurt someone.....I much prefer to have a positive impact upon people - make them feel attractive, postive, loved etc....Life is too short.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
'twas a lady on here....the person of whom I normally refer to has honestly never said that :). But as I say, 1 person in a few billion.....meh :)
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playful4u
12 years ago
We saw you guys briefly but lost track, so many people to talk too. Hope to catch you next time :) Quoting 'NorthernTantra'Ha...playful for you......same here...i'll be in the black kilt ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' and what's more Philosopherpoet has a very large,yep ladies you guessed it ....BRAIN so RHP gods could you be any cruella,good looks and brains,oh well just have to hop on that plane again... I am thinking of putting up a female proof fence to replace the rabbit proof fence. Us WA girls have it made. Its interesting , both these men are very handsome , have that sexy thing going for them both But I think poles apart in other ways. One is the thinking woman’s crumpet. The other the sexy country boy. If they were dust busters I would buy them both, I am sure they would come in handy ohhh my god just had a brain fart! two for the price of one Imagine those two in a woman’s bed at the same time? Heavens to Betsy I am having a bit of a fit of the vapours at the thought
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72'who have had someone tell them they were not very attractive or just plain ugly? When I was young, just before they invented the wheel. I had a house guest, friend of a friend and he had written a post card that said this I am staying at this Aussie chicks flat...Ugly but friendly I was so glad I had not slept with this guy. He was out I lived on the third floor I took his shit and threw it off the verandah including his very expensive camera I put a note on the door It said this I am still ugly, but I am not friendly any more. The people who do that are ugly on the inside. Thing about age is yes we get all saggy on the outside , but the inside just gets better , especially if our compassion grows like an orchard in the Amazon Vain men or women turn me off big time. The treasures, like freya says are those unusual cut diamonds , the cup with the small flaw has a beauty of its own. I like to think of myself as a bit of a cracked cup :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and you are a very attractive woman, Tuscan.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' I lived on the third floor I took his shit and threw it off the verandah including his very expensive camera I put a note on the door It said this I am still ugly, but I am not friendly any more. You are my hero. Quoting 'jensman1903'...and you are a very attractive woman, Tuscan. Abso-fucking-lutely! I want to be a Tuscan when I don't grow up.
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