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Auto Erotic Asphyxiation
March 11 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Hun, so what did he do exactly? I just googled it and I have to say I don't think I would try because the stats of accidental deaths is ridiculous.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just to be sure I was right, & I was.I have to be honest, I would never go there...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't know much about it except auto means that you do it to yourself. Isn't it? Dangerous practice so you need someone you literally trust with you life and they must absolutely know what they are doing. That's all I know.
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
DANGEROUS!!!Personally i have never done this and it isnt on my 'to do list' that is for sure, to me it is more than a trust thing, you need to know for absolute certain that the other person knows exactly what they are doing and in reality that is impossible even someone experienced in this kind of play could get it wrong and there are plenty of horror stories out there about this.The fact is that ANY Loss of oxygen to the brain can cause long term damage and to me no amount of short term pleasure is worth that kind of risk, however having said all of that i do understand that this is a legitimate fetish that a lot of people do enjoy and i reckon it is each to thier own but just know that it carries a lot of risk with it.Good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is very dangerous as wannabyummymummy said.You could die from this within seconds.You're playing Russian roulette.If you're not 200% confident, then don't do it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...have died doing this. There is a very fine line between just right & too much . In the excitement of the moment , that fine line can become blurred. Of course Danger can increase excitement ... I would also be concerned about lack of oxygen & blood flow to the brain . Know your limits & play it safe. GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would think these are the major to do list, as there are serious consequences should some inexperienced person does this, if they lose control and focus on just them then the other person could be affected, sure the adrenaline rush would be a high for some, but for me it is a no as I hate anything around my neck so a pair of hands would make me feel claustrophobic. I don't think I could trust anyone to try this on me no matter how trustworthy they seem as it can all go horribly wrong. There are many cases where it has gone wrong, David Carradine(actor) one of many met his death this way, I think drugs also played a part in this so the one in control was not fully focused. but each to their own if it floats your boat but be truly aware of the pitfalls, namely death or serious impairment should one get carried away and cut off the oxygen for too long and it can only be a matter of seconds. Serious risks, serious consequences
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe you should ask Micheal Hutchence about this, oh wait, you can't he's dead. I was once told that the only thing that the human organism dies from is lack of oxygen to the brain, regardless of how that occurs, heart attack, decapitation or if a vampire drains your body of blood.
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inspirit
12 years ago
to join Fetlife and ask there......
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
you dont actually find first hand experiences.Could be a few good reasons for that.1. its hard to type in a coma.2. the afterlife doesnt have wifi.As the others above have mentioned, its a very risky practice, not one I am willing to participate in. Trust in your partner's knowledge is the most important thing and even then things can go terribly wrong.
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RHP User
12 years ago
some people but its a worry they may like it to much so may people have ended up dead, hanging on a door knob or in the cupboard a very shabby and public death not to mention your friend may end up in a whole pile of shit if he gives your brain damage or death but some times a fettish becomes a problem , there are all kinds of kinks that causes risk including being on rhp
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cbdlivin
12 years ago
As has been pointed out auto erotic asphyxiation is when you do it to yourself, think Michael Hutchence and where that ended. Erotic Asphyxiation can increase sexual intensity as endorphins amongst other things are released in the brain.Even in using it in scenes it is dangerous and you need to be extremely careful, as getting charged with murder and having it downgraded to manslaughter once you convince them it was an accident is a way to really ruin your life. I remember when I first encountered it there was a Dr who was also a Dom who did a full article on the dangers involved and of course showed the positive effects. If I remember right the heart can go into an arrhythmia and the only possibly way to get it going properly again is by shocking the heart.The method of choking with hands is one method but of course certain types of gas masks can be used to limit airflow which will have the desired effect. There are other methods involving restricting blood flow but I would think having a good knowledge of this method would be required. If you continue with this just always be aware of the dangers and the consequences of what you are doing, and the one consequence that I know a particular person has, she struggles getting off in sex now unless she is choked.Of course with quite a bit of BDSM play you are committing assault so it is something to always consider.B
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
No I don't think I could ever trust anyone that much to do that to me! A friend of mine had it done to her n she trusted him 100% n said it is absolutely incredible! But not for me! I will stick to having my hair pulled n being spanked! But very interesting topic!
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RHP User
12 years ago
It fascinates me immensely. I find it very erotic. Have only trusted one man sufficiently to try strangling me during sex, he was very tentative which was probably good. Dont think I would ask anyone else though as it is scary.
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5weeta5kandy
12 years ago
Thanks for your opinions they are very much appreciated. Yes Meeka Auto does mean doing it one's self, I was a little nervous about posting this topic and inadvertently managed to stuff up the topic. It is not an easy topic to post about as yes it comes with some very permanent consequences should it all go wrong.
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RHP User
12 years ago
In a previous occupation/ life we had cause to peruse a book of photographs that was amazingly enough called "the wedding album". It showed photos of people that had been taken out of, or had taken themselves out of the gene pool in various ways, some quite ingenious. There was a whole section there on people who had practiced auto erotic asphyxia, their appearance in the book was evidence of the problems associated with this practice.
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RHP User
12 years ago
than death in my opinion OP.Lack of oxygen to the brain can cause brain damage.No amount of sexual pleasure is worth that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The last time I tried I use the blood flow method. I found the jugular veins with my thumb and for finger. I applied very gentle pressure and started to count. I was going to release at 30 seconds but at 15 seconds my partner started to convulse. I immediately let go but it took about a minute (I started CPR) for him to regain consciousnesses and he had absolutely no memory of what had happened. Tell you it was the most scary time for me and I was very lucky that he went into convulsions or it may have ended up very bad.When you cover the mouth and nose you still have a good reserve of oxygen in the blood that can travel to the brain. If you shut of the blood flow to the brain you instantly stop oxygen to the brain. This method can work very well and does not induce the panic of wanting to breath and can induce a fantastic orgasmic experience.NEVER hold the jugular veins for more then 10 seconds, EVER (ALWAYS COUNT) you are in control. Better still hold the veins in such a way that you can still feel a slight pulse flow through. Or best still, don't do it if you have any reservations, AND NEVER try it by your self. Also blocking the veins, which return blood from the brain, will increase the blood pressure in the brain, this can lead to inducing a stroke. If you are unsure, do not do it, use the smothering method instead it much safer.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you are brave OP for posting and sensible for seeking advice from the RHP community (let's face it, if you're going to find experienced players in this field, you've come to the right place ;-)). It's not a practice I have ever experienced nor have the desire to, but a wise man once asked me of another action "is it worth it?" If the possible consequences (disability, death, upset and humiliation for your loved ones and possible prosecution for your play mate) do not outweigh the short-lived increased climactic please, then I hope sincerely you will take appropriate care. Good luck xx Mrs Inadditionto - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'slm114'In a previous occupation/ life we had cause to peruse a book of photographs that was amazingly enough called "the wedding album". It showed photos of people that had been taken out of, or had taken themselves out of the gene pool in various ways, some quite ingenious. There was a whole section there on people who had practiced auto erotic asphyxia, their appearance in the book was evidence of the problems associated with this practice. I've seen too many pics myself of people found dead on their sofas, with rope or plastic bags around their necks and faces and their pants down to their ankles. Very sad indeed.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'The last time I tried I use the blood flow method. I found the jugular veins with my thumb and for finger. I applied very gentle pressure and started to count. I was going to release at 30 seconds but at 15 seconds my partner started to convulse. I immediately let go but it took about a minute (I started CPR) for him to regain consciousnesses and he had absolutely no memory of what had happened. Insanity! Compressing the jugular veins on both sides of the neck is meant to be done for mere seconds, as unconsciousness sets in so fast. It's called a choke-out. Pushing on the veins for any longer can cause (your brain to tell) your hart to severely slow down and even stop beating, as it's registering your blood pressure as off the scale. If you hadn't known CPR...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Completely agree with Ms Devious your brain needs three things to survive, blood flow, oxygen (see blood flow) and glucose. Take any of these out of the equation and damage will occur even for short periods it could be possible, dislodge a clot when occluding the jugular it could result in a stroke or death, accidents do happen. Sorry about the doom and gloom but your life is a precious thing and you only get one.- Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
12 years ago
As with most things with risk attached many people have very strong opinions on this subject,if we are indeed talking abotu auto erotica and i dont think you are then there is obviously a much higher risk, so i would suggest you only do it with an observer present (they neednt get involved unless there is a problem)..but if we are talking about the full spectrum of breathe control/asphyxiation play between two people then do your research (clearly 15~30 seconds is too long.for most people...) and progress incrementally until you are experienced with your partner..be warned those who scream loudest on this subject are seldom practioners..but isnt that just typical ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
don't need to step in front of a bus either to know that it is a dangerous thing to do and that many people do not survive the experience.
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twowithnolimits
12 years ago
and yet stuntmen, insurance fraudsters even kids playing "chicken" reguarly jump in front of buses and survve...like i said just because its dangerous doesnt mean it cant be done ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you comparing erotic asphyxiation to jumping in front of a bus? That makes sense to me. Just not quite sure why you said "Just because it's dangerous, doesn't mean it can't be done." I think that goes without saying, the most lethal things can be the easiest. Russian roulette, anyone?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never tried it. Nor have ever shot up cocaine to get a rush similar to hypoxia (oxygen deprivation). But as an Nurse Specialist with two decades of experience I feel very confident in saying both things can kill you very quickly, and very easily.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Devious good point, I dread tomorrow, ohh the dangers, hope I make it... ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't keep us in suspense to long, did you make it? lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately ive had a similar incident involuntarily imposed upon myself at a recent construction site i have been working at. It was lunchtime and all the boys were sitting around having smoko. A sexy sexy lady is the site HR person and was on site this day. As we all sat there and ogled her, I excused myself to go to the loo. Thats where it all happened. As you might be aware, constructions sites have portaloos at them. They are used by burly guys that eat meat pies and sausage rolls for brekky so you can imagine the result. Well,,.. as I entered the portaloo the HR lady disappeared into the site office and a couple of the boys got up and locked me in the portaloo.. if that aint involuntary asphyxiation.. what is?? BASTARDS!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
to tell my late hubby that I wanted to strangle him,that used to make him very excited.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'EdnaAverage'to tell my late hubby that I wanted to strangle him,that used to make him very excited. I already love you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'EdnaAverage'to tell my late hubby that I wanted to strangle him,that used to make him very excited. I already love you. ditto.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i've done this and enjoyed it. it's the thrill that gets me going.haven't done it for years as i haven't found anyone i trust enough yet.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
It sounds a bit like "we're nearly over" sex - being half dead, or at least unconscious immensely improves the enjoyment of that too!
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RHP User
12 years ago
people must have death wish to try this
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mostly while rimming him while he was playing with me. Mad orgasam. And I was in charge of the lack of breathing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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