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BJ and deep throating

March 08 2018

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Following on from my topic on anal sex....... Many topics I noticed about men going down on women. From a woman's perspective I have watched many a porn movie with deep throating. Obviously staged. I am of 2 opinions. Depends on my mood, I can find it totally degrading, watching someone choke and gag and depends on the scenario or a turn on. Then thinking about it in a more amateur setting between consenting adults it is a turn on. Don't know if I would attempt it and I think it takes practice to get past that reflex. I love BJ now but previously wasn't that enthusiastic about it because it was expected and with lots of practice and experimenting lol and no pressure to perform, just doing it because I want to and it is a huge turn on now for me. From both sides men and women....How common is it and what is the fascination for those who indulge??

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  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    7 years ago

    I deep throat to gag every time I go down on guys. I love it, love the feeling, sound & the reaction I get from guys. I'm told that a lot of girls don't do it & that why I really love doing it. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    who LOVES the whole affair..I never ask her, and never push her head down..(Unless she makes it quite clear she is in THAT mood to be dominated) she gags and snorts and slobbers.. and we BOTH love it :) AND.. she is rather/very aggressive when it her turn to receive too...

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  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    My playmate loves doing it. I get easily turned of if she isn't into it and the thought of her just doing it because it's what people do just puts me off. I like someone who gets off to it and loves to do it. Messy BJ's are the bomb though, I've had some dry ones before and ergh. It's like going down on a woman, I love it and wish I could do it as a full-time job. I don't care if she grabs my head and I suffocate and die!!! I want people to say "he went the way he wanted". That kind of attitude from a woman about BJ's is very appealing to me,

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    7 years ago

    ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I view it as a challenge, how far can I make it go! I did got a hot tip from a master deep throater that you may find useful. As you push the cock down your throat start simulating a swollowing motion. The cock gets further while your throat moving like that will tickle the head which is apprently a sensational feeling for the guy. Hope that makes sense. I need to be in control of it though, do not like having my head forced in any way. :)

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  • The_Phoenix

    The_Phoenix

    7 years ago

    Its absolutely personalized to both the scene and mood. Things get quite wild and I love dominating and being rough when its called for, not every woman is into the whole deep throat gagging head held down. Its actually the only time I cum with a BJ though. Of course I love a slip slidey sensual BJ as well, more intimate and connected, takes me to other places if I'm blindfolded...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    But spare the theatrics. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Freaky_Fun

    Freaky_Fun

    7 years ago

    Because I have perfected my technique and get off doing it. But don't think about pushing my head down l don't need the help 😂😜

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And a small mouth. I wouldn't enjoy being pushed to gag over and over. Not enjoyable for me and when I watch the tears streaming down a girl's face after being throat fucked it does nothing for me - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Its a mood thing for me. If im extremely turned on i enjoy doing it. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I enjoy it on my terms only! Only in a sexy and classy way. I was held once for waaay too long. Freaked me right out! 😰 Never again.! As soon as my head is held, game over or I’ll have a panic! It can be sexy, but I’ve seen it in porn with saliva and spit ewww turns me right off. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Choking in porn is degrading for sure, I find it a turn off watching it. There is a major difference between a lady deep throating on her own and enjoying it, to a cock being jammed down her throat. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    7 years ago

    .. on the tongue stops the gaga reflex. apparently. So my dentist says and when I tried it in the dentist chair it worked.

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    7 years ago

    .. on the tongue stops the gaga reflex. apparently. So my dentist says and when I tried it in the dentist chair it worked.

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  • Gr8distraction

    Gr8distraction

    7 years ago

    Never been one to instigate it. Its kind of the deal if she wants to she can, her choice.But even then i feel as though I'm in some kind of degrading porno. The kind where the more noises and mascara that is running the better............No, not for me. I need to get out of the bubble i live in

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  • Seachange

    Seachange

    7 years ago

    Can be enjoyable. I do it because I like it and only when I'm really into the man. As others mentioned, also the mood dictates it. I don't gag that much when I DT. my lovers love it and as someone said above, not many women apparently do it so when they come across someone who does it, it's special. Dont like guys holding my head down and "face fucking" I believe the term is. I feel it's a Bit degrading for me.. They'll find their hands slapped very quickly. 😜 I like to be in control in the bedroom as much as the guy.

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  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    7 years ago

    I enjoy being Deep Throat ed, sure who doesn't, on the same note i wouldn't expect anyone to do it if they didn't want to,or if they were in distress.Yeah and maybe i'm also guilty of pushing it just that little bit further, must be a guy thing lol. you do have to respect someone that can do it without Gaging though.

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  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    7 years ago

    A bit of gagging and spittle, and cussing and spitting, and eye watering is pretty normal isn’t it? My nose is permanently blocked so I’m a mouth breather .... put all that together with holding your breathe and it’s all about the challenge. Besides, there’s that bit up the back of your throat where you think “that’s all that will fit”... and once you push past that point you know you’ve conquered another one. Only do what you truly enjoy, I reckon. Hugs Gaz

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I love it, it's one of my favourite things, when done respectfully - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • CompersionCouple

    CompersionCouple

    7 years ago

    If I have a good connection or in the heat of the moment I will reach up to grab the hands of guys to place them on my head so he can push my head down or fuck my face. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Dallas1975

    Dallas1975

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'youngfitchick' If I have a good connection or in the heat of the moment I will reach up to grab the hands of guys to place them on my head so he can push my head down or fuck my face. - Posted from rhpmobile I think I need to meet you

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’m not talking about face fucking or gagging so much I want to through up but I love seeing how far I can take my lover in my mouth it’s such a great feeling knowing he’s really enjoying it, it’s also good to do if your lover like to cum in your mouth, just go really deep and you don’t really get the taste in your mouth when he’s done lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Ashybines

    Ashybines

    7 years ago

    One of the best ways to keep a man pleased is through a sexy BJ...its all applying the right pressure on his tool...finding the points that make them throb. Helps in destressing them Deep throating can e sexy especially when there is eye contact (looking up at them while they re deep in the throat).....most guys must love the tightness of the throat... Some love throat fucking too......so sexy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When I have wanted to I have deepthroated a few guys who are over 9" and thick and their response was of utter unadulterated joy and complete surprise ... Which made me very happy and smile ear to ear!!! One said I was not of this world and another couldn't believe it was possible.... Gosh it was fun!!! Can't wait to be an alien again soon 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    7 years ago

    A lady that I am seeing now does it AWESOME, just the right amount of pleasure and Pain.....Mmmmmm

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  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    7 years ago

    I have a saying - ''I do not want your sick on my dick''. Cannot stand deep-throating, don't do it and don't like it being done to me. To quote various bloggers when Trump won office - "I am literally shaking right now''.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Youngfitchick you sound amazing 😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have to be honest I’m not really into deepthroating, prefer the hand grip on me and ball play. I’m cut so I’m not sure if that makes a difference? It’s all about the grip, stroke motion and tongue👅. I guess it’s like going down on a women, you just have to read her reaction and treat that clit with care 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I did have a thick cock so I know that is hard that deep throat .. I love it when someone does I have met a number of women to seem fixated on taking it all ( and s number of men too for that matter ) Up to the person do my the favour lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Love fucking throats mmm

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I don't think I have choked/gagged yet deep throating 😕 - Posted from rhpmobile

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