RHP

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M35

BLACK RING ON RIGHT HAND!

January 13 2019

We all get those little fantasies that we wish we could turn into a reality!. I've always wondered if there is a way of meeting other people from the scene in "normal" situations like at a pub or club without asking creepy questions :) . The solution could be to wear a black ring on your right hand to indicate that you are part of this lifestyle - it would definitely make the first step easier if you knew who is who! This sign seems to have some recognition in other countries, so let's spread it in Australia! You can get a silicone black ring on ebay for as low as $1. If you like the idea then spread the word around :) Matt. Xx. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    6 years ago

    Lol what’s wrong with human interaction and asking questions?? Seems to be the way these days, Hunan interaction is forgone and shortcuts are chosen as a means to get what we seek without patience or enjoying the journey to the destination....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I feel sorry for all those people wearing the black Bankwest paywave ring if this idea picks up momentum. Poor people won't know what's going on when people start propositioning them!

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    6 years ago

    Hello and welcome to the forums This is a topic that has been discussed many a time - you can search precious forum topics on the right hand side. The majority vote has been no. Among many other things, there are a lot of risks with this. If I was wearing my LGBTI black acceptance ring for marriage equality ... assuming I swung might be problematic. If you want to make it easier to recognise people, best bet is to go to an event. And even, or especially, then approach people with respect and courtesy. Good lick and luck.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Do a search of forum topics, this topic has been covered exhaustively.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Thats a great idea but have a feeling its not your idea as presented.. ohwell still a worth while topic i like to throw in my two cents.. Back as a tradie before my wife and i even considered the lifestyle i wore a black rubber ring on my hand for safety reasons as well as comfort, she hated it and often said it was tacky looking. For me it said i am married., dont want my finger torn off at work and not a huge fan of bling.. Since joining the lifestyle we have discussed the posibility of her wearnig an anklet and us both wearing black rings. We decided "oh hell no" . If you can imagine throwing the bat signal out there and the randoms tbat want to give it a go.. no thanks.. however on a day trip yesterday my gorgeous wife had some attention from a guy that wasnt hard to look at (her words) and they did flirt a little untill he realised i was there.. no black ring no anklet..

  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    6 years ago

    Overall summary. People have to chat to each other and investigate. Extract info. Try asking questions or scenerios. We recently found out that one of our friends were these people called, "swingers". What do you think about them or your opinion on sharing partners sexually. Trust me that question breaks the ice. They can be open minded or express themselves that they would never share a lover with another. If they say caring is sharing then come up with another swing questions. Or change the subject....How bout that Australian cricket team hey??? Baby steps baby steps. These days folks want things easily. But before internet people had to chat, converse and ask questions. Even in parties people still have to ask what others are into. They might be in in for sexual experience or just social. Converse Converse and more converse. Some women have "HW" on ankle bracelets a leg. But if they don't have one on you still have to chat if they are a Hot Wife or not at party. Women and couples want to pickup up in "Normal" situations. And they can. But questions can be asked. No need for a hard sell. To the majority of the population picking up another person's lover or sharing one is creepy. That just means they are not the sharing type. For us Swinging is okay and not creepy. Dare to share. Pick your audience.

  • swingalingson

    swingalingson

    6 years ago

    Overall summary. People have to chat to each other and investigate. Extract info. Try asking questions or scenerios. We recently found out that one of our friends were these people called, "swingers". What do you think about them or your opinion on sharing partners sexually. Trust me that question breaks the ice. They can be open minded or express themselves that they would never share a lover with another. If they say caring is sharing then come up with another swing questions. Or change the subject....How bout that Australian cricket team hey??? Baby steps baby steps. These days folks want things easily. But before internet people had to chat, converse and ask questions. Even in parties people still have to ask what others are into. They might be in in for sexual experience or just social. Converse Converse and more converse. Some women have "HW" on ankle bracelets a leg. But if they don't have one on you still have to chat if they are a Hot Wife or not at party. Women and couples want to pickup up in "Normal" situations. And they can. But questions can be asked. No need for a hard sell. To the majority of the population picking up another person's lover or sharing one is creepy. That just means they are not the sharing type. For us Swinging is okay and not creepy. Dare to share. Pick your audience.

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    6 years ago

    Personally I wouldn’t. What and how much I share of our lifestyle is selective. Part of the fun of this for me is the anonymity and the fun of what goes on behind closed doors (whether house, hotel or club) is for us only. But I have toyed with getting a suitably inscribed shirt for special occasions. Even an icebreaker shirt lol. No jewellery for us.