RHP

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Ball gags

August 21 2013

Can somebody please explain the benefits of wearing a ball gag or having a lover wear one. What do you get out of it? For me, I like lots of talking before, during and after so I don't really get the fascination with them. Thanks.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hahahaha... dunno, its a power thing I guess which can be a turn on for both parties...I can dig it as a 'let's get freaky kinda thing' (only on the female though, not on myself - but that's just me)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It often helps put the sub in a great head space.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    One of those ring gags once... OMG major dribble factor ! Not really my thing, but if I was targeting verbose forum types, then yeah, definitely have one in my kit bag 😄 Hp xo 💌 I'm just here for the forums...

  • Curious1965

    Curious1965

    11 years ago

    I am worried that ms itsqueenie would pull too tight on the string - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I only apply mine when my partner/sub (at the time) engages in activities they know to be forbidden (eg. Attempting to bite and mark me). As I encourage them be vocal, it is viewed as a punishment of sorts. So, yes... I guess it's a power thing.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    haha Meeks did my comment on the other thread get you thinking????makes it harder for substo utter cries of pain or pleasure....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The safest sort of gag uses a ball with holes in it, so that breathing is not impaired. I think the balls are called 'practice golf balls' and can be obtained from sports stores.CAUTION: Never leave a gagged person unattended, especially if they are in bondage (hands tied).Eric aka Bottom_Liner

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    satisfying an oral fixation. When I'm being flogged or fucked from behind I'm gagging for something in my mouth. I usually find a cock but if there wasn't another one around a ball gag would help me out.

  • kinky_master

    kinky_master

    11 years ago

    A red ball gag in the mouth of a damsel in distress is just plain sexy. Or a ring gag - both ways her mouth looks full and her lips are obcenely far parted - so very sexy. Then there are the gag kisses - different, and yet so loving - the understanding of gag speech. And then there is always the penis gag - much better for silence, and my last wench loved it, as she had something to suck on - lol So many reasons - but mainly it's the look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love the gag as i gave a rather strong oral fixation and the gag gives me something to focus on at times. When not focussing on the sting of my ass

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    11 years ago

    hmmm I don't get it either ball gags can look sexy but prefer an ungagged mouth. love the noise people make.. sight and sound are my big turn on's

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A dom woman I used to hang out with used one on me to try to keep the noise down. Typical,ball gags don't work to well for this. She was digging deep with a big strap on and I'm sure the neighbours heard my moans and other reactions. A pair of nylons to go over the head with a pair of panties balled up in the mouth worked much better... Guess it's just want trying to avoid.. Or get out of it. The nylons helped with getting me into that sub space as well... Pretty damn humiliating.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ballgags...a definite must for noisy subs!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ball gags, particularly red ones are a big turn on for me. Love wearing one and seeing others wear them. I guess for me it does help you get in the correct head space plus adds to the feeling of being controlled. Does make me drool alot but is totally worth it. Only thing to worry about is getting one thats too big as it can really strain your jaw which isnt fun haha. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • kinky_and_bi

    kinky_and_bi

    10 years ago

    Agree with Newysub, definitely gets me in the right headspace and feeling submissive. Although let's be honest, I think most people that like a ballgag in their mouth would prefer a nice cock any day ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You put in a gag, of any sort, and you no longer have access to your pet's mouth, however, with a recently new pet being a bit lippy, a gag came in quite handy. So I'm a bit of a convert. SS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For me it's many things. It must be said that I am the owner of many different types of gag. A horse bite, a ring gag, a spider gag, a couple of ball gags, a cock gag and a mouth spreader. Why use them? For many reasons - punishment. Control or power exchange even function. Some delicious subbies can't help but find their lips and mouths wandering so it's a matter of control. Some I like the idea of them having their mouth gapping wide. At other times the muffled but not complete silenced sounds of pleasure are magic to my ears. I enjoy as part of the Dom/sub play deciding when and if they will speak. This adds a level of certainty to it. Brae - Posted from rhpmobile