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Baseball outing

July 26 2015

I'm sure most people have heard by now, about the 2 young ladies who took pictures of a women sexting her fella, whilst at the baseball game. The husband was sat next to her and was seemingly unaware. The 2 girls notified him in a note and left their number in case he wanted to see the photographic evidence. The girls have received support and backlash for their actions.I would have no objections to being told by stranger that my partner was sexting but I object strongly to the resulting social media coverage. My 2 questions are would you do the same? And where does a person's right to privacy begin?

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RHP User

9 years ago

Probably not, as it's none of my business and I don't know what their situation is. He may know what she's doing, or even be cheating himself. I might be tempted though if I saw the messages were calling him an idiot for sitting right there and having no clue or something, but even then I would most likely not go through with it. I think it's terrible these sisters put what they did on social media though. They essentially tied this woman to the stake for burning without her being proven guilty, and embarrassed the hell out of her husband while at it.(And when called out for faking the whole thing, they posted a video of the event to top it off). From in interview with one of them: 'He was appreciated [sic] we told him. Probably not so much that it’s on the internet but we never thought it would blow up like this' They didn't think it would blow up? I doubt that. Thumbs down from me.

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RHP User

9 years ago

Who? What? that would be the question for most 8 weeks from now. It was my first reaction, and for a moment I though I need to know Who & What? But I resisted, not that hard to do if not interested, along with the million plus other uninteresting posts on facebook today that I completely ignored. Where does the right to privacy cross the line. The privacy of your home. The moment you leave home you enter public space and if you do not take due care to cover what is sensitive data then you could be super extra lucky and become today's trending post. Get a lotto ticket while you are at it. Back to filming kittens, be funny dam you fuz balls.

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RHP User

9 years ago

What if she was a hot wife and was a cuck? They have just been outed to their family and friends. 😳

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RHP User

9 years ago

Let the stoning begin... Human behaviour doesn't change really no matter the technology or time..The moral high ground can be a slippery slope though..these girls are tetering xxFreya

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RHP User

9 years ago

The 2 women sitting behind the couple wouldn't have known if there was more to the story they saw unfolding. They just chose to read it how they wanted to and applied their laws and their street justice to it...from up on their high horses. Clearly they didn't think too long on the consequences of their actions...probably just thinking of all the adulation and pats on the back they would get and the warm, fuzzy feeling they would get in their stomachs for doing such a charitable deed. Selfish. Well...they got all the glorious attention they wanted.

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RHP User

9 years ago

I wouldn't out a total stranger, you don't know their story. But I did out a guy who I thought I was in a relationship with, only problem was so did 6 other women. I told a couple of them, told him he was a effing scumbag looser and that if he ever contacts or comes near me again I would take it further. He seriously needs help, he is an ego tripping douche. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

Willowtree_2 is spot on. 2 young women who can't keep their noses out of other peoples business. Not only that but to plaster it all over the internet ... what gives them the right to interfere? I can feel a good deal of Karma heading their way .... lol LG

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RHP User

9 years ago

sorry...I've learnt my lesson.....and you won't ever catch me out again!!! 😈 So....how bout it ?? One for the road?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

So many factors in play on this one, but I think they crossed the line by going with social media. That in my book took someone acting in the interests of someone else to self interest and self promotion. Would have been one thing to quietly let the husband know privately. Still interfering but the woman was doing her texting in public and kind of takes the disrespect for her partner to a whole new level. Yes there is the saying take a walk in someone else's shoes, but the social media was a step way too far in my opinion. Kind of takes any possibility of working through this out of the hands of the couple in the middle of it - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

You don't know their circumstances. I've been cheated on a few times and it hurts but on one occasion. My girlfriend cheated on me with a "good friend" ( ok obviously he wasn't a good friend. I thought he was.) Subsequently all my close friends found out about it. It was one of the most embarrassing and humiliating experiences of my life. I can't imagine what this guy is going through. At least the other times I should thank the ex's for being discrete about it. On the other side of the coin. These girls could have been putting the cheater in danger. He could be a abusive jealous psychopath and taken out some revenge when they got home. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

haha funny aren't you but remember you are not to come within 50ft of my person 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

I have become good friends with this new group people recently. The three people I know really well from this group are best friends with another girl - who is married and owns an apartment with her husband. I have caught her husband at least three times cheating on her. It's a hard situation to be in. Haven't told anyone yet in an upfront manner, but I have implied it. I am going to tell her upfront eventually, but I have a plan. And I need a plan, because I am talking about two peoples lives. Back to the OP - it was wrong of them to post the evidence online. Obviously, it would go viral - and potentially destroying that womans life. I get it, she is a probably horrible excuse for a human being. But she is still human. Fair enough, tell the guy. But posting it online... I think that is malicious and attention seeking.

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Mischeviouslad

9 years ago

Dammit.. Saw the topic heading and thought someone was organising a sporting event. Dudded....

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tylannister

9 years ago

You don't pull that kind of crap at a baseball game. At a basketball game? Yes. But not at a baseball game. In fact, at a basketball game, not only do you put it on social media, you put it up on the jumbotron screen above the middle of the court for all to see.

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RHP User

9 years ago

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RHP User

9 years ago

Quoting 'tylannister' You don't pull that kind of crap at a baseball game. they're at a baseball game, everyone knows people do silly things when they're trapped in complete boredom for hours.

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