DonnaBrett

DonnaBrett

M63 F57

Be considerate!

November 14 2009

OMG!!  What is it with some people..don't they think??  Some advice...if you are inviting some potential new playmates over to your home for the first time, please put in some effort. If you say a certain time make sure you're both home when said couple arrives. The person who is home should not just be waking up from a couch nap in  daggy clothes & socks. Then (when other partner does arrive) making it obvious that you have not long been home from work (ie: not showered or changed is not appealing ). Then serve up nibblies consisting of breath stenching onion dip & cheese chips is not going to win any points.  Look a little interested in the whole situation (you did do the inviting afterall).  Then you seemed to be shocked & surprised when the invitees say they won't be staying!!    The mind boggles sometimes..it really does!!!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    LOL...sounds like a comedy film. Guess some people are just a little unorganized and then there are people that really don't care. Poor planning for sure. Just bad luck I guess guys I'm sure there are plenty of others that would invite you into a more acceptable environment. Nice profile btw.Good luck with yor next encounter

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hehehe... Now that's funny. Seriously funny. Obviously some people are very casual about these swinging interludes... lmfao.. very casual indeed! Onion dip.. hahaaha! Some people still like onion dip? What a beautiful world.   Hugs Gaz

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    15 years ago

    Lol....I just imagined, Some guy greeting the lucious Donna at the door, * scratching his balls, with wild bed hair, looking straight at her tits !*..........*.And the woman with curlers, cheese and onion dip in one hand, and jatz in the other*....lmao...   Gee look at the time !.......you poor things.....better luck next time.   Love and peace Tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It was there first time playing! Well at least you would hope so given the phlem inducing dip!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    w had similar experiences and  the mrs wasnt even home yet he was in pjs and slippers that elonged to grandad, she got home 20 minutes later in here work uniform wanting to go in room there n than n eeeeeeeeewwwww smelly we made an execuse then left

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Donna and Brett....Your are completely right We have met with couples where the guy has not shaved for a couple days, His wife has half her teeth missing. Photos were showing the better side. eg the sexual organs only! Even if its a causual fish and chips meeting by a marina, we should dress to impress.   No Gaz its not funny....there is a certain standard before we will consider sex with others.   In our instance we wasted an hour driving there.....an hour over lunch. and when we got back in the car we both said no way! within 10 seconds.   Cheers....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    shocked...thank god that i have not had that experience...punctuality, good manners, nice food and respectable dress would have been essential i thought...oh, and not to forget...........hehecheersjose...

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    Nope..they weren't newbies...that's what is astounding...although one would think newbies should go to even more effort to make a good impression.  Thanks for your thoughts guys...it's a relief to hear we're not alone LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    At least at a party you can sus people out beforehand.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Brett and Donna sadly it seems some people dont have common curtesy. always hard when you are "there at house" already   I thought dressing nicely and sexy...personal grooming , and fresh breath, went without saying...seems not, and being drunk or pushy is instant turn off. (for us anyway)   Thats why we meet at Mikes mainly now...you can walk off quickly if they are scarey haha   keep smilin chat soon  Kat and Bernie xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know, I know..just can't seem to let it go   Trev <<<< thinking we should start a swinging RHP Bogan Award

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    Generally we would never just go to someone's home for a first meeting..but the phone calls prior & messages etc really made it seem like it was going to be a success..very promising..oh well..!! We never arrange to meet new people at a club..just don't see the point in spending the $$$  to possibly play with someone who we are going to meet anyway. We'd much prefer to meet somewhere else & then play at home. We keep clubs for nights when we have no other plans. It's good for spur of the moment stuff!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thats why we rather meet in a club, so much easier then when you go to a house and be in a situation like yours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Our worse experiances have not been  with professionals...Leave it alone we handle rejection with all u bi lot who say curious but really mean compulsary. Sorry ...let everyone live and wish them the best.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We find the profiles with the wording "professionals" in it seem to be stuck up and narrow minded.  They mention that they are not "time wasters" but in the end they are......   Kit Kat

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'NeoAndBlaze' We find the profiles with the wording "professionals" in it seem to be stuck up and narrow minded.  They mention that they are not "time wasters" but in the end they are......   Kit Kat Neoblaze ,maybe you really have not met true professionals as yet.Soundlike to us ,maybe you are the 1 that is stuck up,and narrow minded.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    Huh??  Where did the subject of "professionals" come into this topic??   Confused???  LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Donna_Brett' Huh??  Where did the subject of "professionals" come into this topic??   Confused???  LOL From neonblaze thats where.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Donna_Brett I think professionals was brought up cos I posted a topic on it and periodically someone refers back to it tongue-in-cheek, i think and I think that is what Kileetrev has done.  tastietwo I really think that Kileetrev were just being facetious. They meant no harm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Back to the topic.."Donna Brett's" date actually sounded like Bogans's :-)   Trev <<< the ultimate professional time waster