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Being Vocal
December 19 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
You can't just flip a switch to go from quiet to being a screamer. A fb of mine also asked me to do this. Since we have discussed this I have tried to become louder....and believe me it was worth it! The more I groan out loud the more into it he becomes. Oh wow! Each time I let go a bit more the more responsive he is. All I can suggest is relax, forget about the kids and everything else except the pleasure you are giving each other. Believe me....if he's anything like my fb it will definately be worth it! Give it a go!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well honey maybe he needs to give you some inspiration..............really bring his best game so you can't do anything but scream. If he talked dirty to you it might inspire you too. Gawd, people have thought someone was hurting me i'm so loud. I have pillows shoved over my face, the guy next door can't look me in the eye anymore and we live on an acrehe just looks at his shoes and smirks bless him. Maybe you're just not a screamer Maybe he's just not pressing enough of your buttons Maybe you don't know him enough to feel comfortable with him. Just be yourself, have fun, be comfortable xx goodgrl
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think kids have a huge part to play in it really.We still live with our older ones, and I have had to smother my moans for years. Now I think I have trained myself to be pretty quiet !I'd love be be loud, I feel like I want to be , but cant !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ohh yea baby do my ironing god your so hot can you go mow the lawn shiiiiiit my credit card bill is high can you pay it? faaaaaaaaaaaaaaurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrk my husbsand is home! I used to be quiet, but then I meet a guy that said talk to me and get some sound happening. I guess its like a lot of things, let out the breath , let go of your self and in time you will not even notice your making a noise but he will know and he will get more out of it and so will you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
She's never been one for it either. She'll bite her lips and hold her breath and just about pass out, I guess it's all down to trying to keep the kiddies from bolting in. Even before kids but she was never into it. I tried to get her to make some noise but she just can't put it on for the sake of it, if it doesn't feel natural there's not much point to it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Well honey maybe he needs to give you some inspiration..............really bring his best game so you can't do anything but scream. If he talked dirty to you it might inspire you too. Gawd, people have thought someone was hurting me i'm so loud. I have pillows shoved over my face, the guy next door can't look me in the eye anymore and we live on an acrehe just looks at his shoes and smirks bless him. Maybe you're just not a screamer Maybe he's just not pressing enough of your buttons Maybe you don't know him enough to feel comfortable with him. Just be yourself, have fun, be comfortable xx goodgrlHe might as well tell you to have more orgasms, like it's your responsibility...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am the same, I think - someone help me out here?? Am I noisy? Well I know I do scream when they are going so deep that the head of their cock is banging on my vocal chords. Ouchie.. in a good way. With the dirty talk... yeah I can get a bit shy about that too. I need to practice more. I think the more you do it the easier it gets. Yes, you will probably feel a little foolish at first.. but once you see their reaction to it I am sure that will spur you on to new heights of pure filth. :PxxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
So what do you say during sex at the moment newstart? Do you tell him how good he tastes? How you want suck his cock? That you want him to cum in your mouth. That you want to cum in his mouth. That you want him to fuck your arse... cum in your arse.I would start with asking him... how does that make you feel and take it from there. xxMeekaPS - To all you people out there, you know who you are, yes I know I mentioned anal sex. AGAIN. I just can't help myself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
OK suggestion if they are too quiet because of the kids or the neighbours..........turn the music up loud - put some heavy duty fucking music on and rip into each other :)Make a Tape of yourself during sex and play it back.... and see what it does for you and her... or him and him or her an her or them and you .... LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
Variety is key. The days his girlfriend just whimpers, the sessions seem to be shorter than the days she groans loudly. Throwing in the occasional giggle seems to work well too. They get by quite happily without any actual screaming. But maybe I haven't been home on those days?But, in seriousness, if you do want to try being more vocal without forcing it, try a position where your cervix can't help but make you yell out every time it gets bumped into your vocal chords. As Meeka says, 'ouchie, but in a good way'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would suggest saying what turns you on instead.. eg: mmm " baby lick my juices" " rub my clit yeah that feels so good", " finger me" no " stick your fingers in me now" The usual " fuck me" even better " fuck me now" ' I want to feel your hard cock deep inside me" Tell him how good it all feels " " oh yeah that feels so good" " fuck yeah " " mmm fuck me harder" " turn me over" " I want you to fuck me from behind" moaning and screaming will come later, but just start with keeping your mouth open so he can hear your breath change...once you start you will look back and think silent sex was so much more mundane ( though there will always be times when you have to be quiet ) that's when you use loud whispering ... good luck Quoting 'Meeka100' So what do you say during sex at the moment newstart? Do you tell him how good he tastes? How you want suck his cock? That you want him to cum in your mouth. That you want to cum in his mouth. That you want him to fuck your arse... cum in your arse.I would start with asking him... how does that make you feel and take it from there. xxMeekaPS - To all you people out there, you know who you are, yes I know I mentioned anal sex. AGAIN. I just can't help myself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with goodgirlz, in fact I laughed myself silly re: the neighbour and the acreage. . Yes, I also agree with what most of the others are saying. Kids definitely have something to do with it. I'm quite sure the Melbourne neighbours know me as a screamer but in Sydney the kids keep me quiet. In saying that, perhaps start with whispering and build up the volume. Sounds basic enough an idea I suppose, but there is a lot to be said for a heavy breath and a sexy whisper in an ear. Then as it becomes more comfortable for you, you can consider upping the volume. . No Meeks, you're not noisy ... enough. . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
I personally liketo talk to my bed partner. I really like to let her know what effect she ishaving on me, what I plan to do, what I feel and sense and more. The only dirty wordI use is FUCK and that is there just to provide emphasis on the extreme intensities. However I like to hear anything from my woman. anything. To me it is a signal that my pleasing adventures are having the desired results. Part of the drive to sense, feel, see and hear a woman reach orgasms. REALLY APPRECIATE vocal women.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lordy, when i'm driven out of my mind completely lust drunk the words that come out of my mouth would make a sailor blush!!! I just can't help it! What ever i'm thinking at the time just comes out! And my mind is as dirty as all hell!!!!! Just relax and just say what you're thinking without sensoring yourself G'awn...i dare ya! xx
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Tart_Du_Jour
13 years ago
I am naturally outgoing and vocal. When I am in the right frame of mind all sorts seem to come out of my mouth But if I am enjoying myself then not only can my neighbours hear it but the whole block. It's nothing I plan or think of on the spot, these things just seem to come from a lusty primal place.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am quiet but learning but if I could blurt out what goes through my mind I would blush. It helps if hes vocal too if the man I am with is moaning OMG what a turn on I can thelp but respond with my body and try to keep it going. So I definately understand the reasons he wants to hear you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me it just comes naturally... the noise part... like if you think somethings funny, you laugh... if you're angry, you tend to yell etc... when I am about to cum, I moan say "yes", "ooohhh" call out his name...whatever is appropriate at the time On the flipside, I had a longterm boyfriend that didn't initially make any noise and it frustrated the hell out of me because I didn't know if he was enjoying things, it was silent all the time during sex and I didn't know when he was going to cum... Boy did I teach him a thing or two... it really is nice to be appreciated by words, moans, dirty talk etc by your partner when you are feeling pleasure. Baby steps... try it for one session and keep it simple and you'll become more comfortable. Just try more and get a bit dirtier... think about it like it is just another way to give your partner pleasure
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RHP User
13 years ago
You guys are a scream but... Personally screamers are hard to take, all that frothing at the mouth and the industrial hearing protection is very non-sexy...I like what katlou said, that stuff is hot, if you try yelling and screaming after being a quiet girl it is just going to stress you out and sound fake, he needs to be patient with you :) good luck x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well....in the bedroom department I am anyway. I could never understand all that noise and screaming. Personally I have always thought that if a woman were enjoying herself THAT much then she would not have the time to be making all that noise anyway. I am too busy enjoying myself to extend too much more on noise. I have better ways to release my energy. Now dont get me wrong here....I am vocal...just quietly. For me this has nothing to do with kids, neighbours or the ability of the man I am with. Being noisy just does not come naturally and if I tried to force things then I would feel as if I were faking it. l What concerns me more is the line where you say... "I would do ANYTHING to please him" Maybe he should be doing more to please you. You should not have to change who you are for a man.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well jeez honey, i don't just scream like a banchee! There is some structure, some sexiness to this y'know! Gracious! And anyway, i like to refer to it as "appreciative" or "entheusiastic" One of the only times i ever ended up with someone who wasn't doing anything for me and my hubby could tell straight away i wasn't having a good time. i lay there and made hardly any sound at all. Someone asked him if i was having fun and he said "nope". He knew Quoting 'amosohenry56' You guys are a scream but... Personally screamers are hard to take, all that frothing at the mouth and the industrial hearing protection is very non-sexy...I like what katlou said, that stuff is hot, if you try yelling and screaming after being a quiet girl it is just going to stress you out and sound fake, he needs to be patient with you :) good luck x
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RHP User
13 years ago
I USED to be a bit of a catch in m younger days... and came from a place where the BAD BOY was sought after.. (enigmatic smile playing on my face here....) I love to be with a woman who shows she is enjoying herself.. clawing biting spurring.. and making whatever noise she damned well wishes... All my kids mothers left when they were young, and when we catch up now, well, the kids make themselves scarce. If I am with a woman who has kids, then she knows what level of expression she will subject her children and family to. I guess I MIGHT try to keep her quiet a LITTLE bit if her hubby is asleep nearby and hasnt ok'ed her to play with me, but, you know, that is their problem too ... Apart from that.... I don't believe there are any rules.. well, there SHOULDN'T be . There was a time in a park in Perth suburb one sunny afternoon where things got hot under her skirt, and we decide on some covert exhibitionism... covert WAS the operative word here, BUT... The thoughts running through my head was relating to the discussions and giggles in the court room... everyone in the park soon knew what was happening... and the delightful mess afterward..... damn.. I love bodily fluids..... sex should be expressed :)
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