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Being sexy, not silly, in a costume?

March 08 2014

I'm soliciting some advice on what makes a sexy costume... something that creates sex appeal, not mirth. Imagine, for a grown up costume party, but am also thinking about halloween or similar... and then there are fetish parties or HF club. I'm not looking for "go dressed as a half naked centurian", so much as ideas about how clothes do or don't work on the male body, and what makes a woman tick (well, you, as a woman 'cause everyone is different). Over time, I've proven what doesn't work. As a regular Joe, on the tall, wide and hirsute side of the spectrum, the classic mesh shirt and assless pants is a pretty poor choice (even if my ass is a decent feature). As is anything ridiculously figure hugging. Looking forward to some ideas :)

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RHP User

11 years ago

Are silly and mirth inspiring on men.....sexy is a whole other thing.....are you sexy in your everyday costume?....a sexy man is sexy man regardless of his threads....however the right threads can enhance that sexiness why not invest in the most stylish tux you can afford,wear it with a shirt...or not....if you have the pecs to match....but really the only thing you need is confidence in yourself and whatever it is that you choose to wear....a confident man is a very sexyman no matter if he is wearing a garbage bag:-) :-) xx Q...PS.but do resist the green option:-)

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MsSuperFoxy

11 years ago

is the sexiest outfit, wear it with pride! Foxy A fluro green MAN-KNI might work??

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RHP User

11 years ago

Is not a good look on a guy, even Magic Mike made me giggle in the movies. the old budgie smugglers, not a good look now the turn on for a lot of women are what men wear to work cowboys, and yes you wear jeans under those Chaps, unless your in the village people or hope to be in the village people. firemenand my all time fave, the Police officer with cuffs even the old blue workclothes with the fluro stripe can make me feel hot, or that tradie gear man up if you dress up. pick something you can roll play but not in a camp way, like the gladiator a kilt is about as sexy as a guy can be in a skirt. As for me, well I did belly dancing and have one costume but that is never going to see the light of day again, I would feel silly Now if I dressed up it would be as a bunny, but you know the full rabbit costume with the big head you put on over the top and the floppy ears and a big carrot any guys in to that furry thing, call 041fluff things that guys like are same thing working gear, ie the nurse, the French maid, the hooker, school teacher, nunplayboy bunny. cop I went to work once on Australia day dressed as a Kangaroo, and shit that costume was hot.Been as a nun to a party with a bunch of cops dressed as priests. now if I go to a fancy dress party I come as the fool, no costume needed

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gazpacho

11 years ago

I know exactly what you mean. Society has developed such that men are no longer permitted to swish. Wear a crevat? You!ll notice that the younger generation have completely given up. All the pretty young ladies are dressed up to the nines for dating whereas their beau is sporting board shorts and a skater t-shirt. Go the caftan, brother. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

That is sooo mean....he has the beard I guess,I just can't get the image of Demos out of my mind......not sexy....so not sexy.......:-) :-) xx Q

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RHP User

11 years ago

Brilliant, Gaz - not mean at all... I have a very clear picture of Jonathan Goldsmith as 'The Most Interesting Man in the World'... That's what you meant, right? Right?

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gazpacho

11 years ago

Stay thirsty my friends, stay thirsty. At the moment, I'm wearing a pair of pants from Thailand. Set them free! :) Hugs Gazpacho

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'gazpacho51' Go the caftan, brother. Gaz and Q, Are you two talking about Demis Roussos? You are arseholes!

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RHP User

11 years ago

Something manly (tradie, fireman etc) or something with a little mystery (jeans, black t-shirt, Zorro mask and a whip). Work it ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

to start with anyway.... I mean if you take the attitude of funny yet sexy it projects a kind of character and act like your costume (eg. zorro, cop, magician, sporting hero etc). It means you can "play" a more outgoing version of yourself. Just a suggestion!

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gazpacho

11 years ago

Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' Something manly (tradie, fireman etc) or something with a little mystery (jeans, black t-shirt, Zorro mask and a whip). Work it ;) - Posted from rhpmobile hahaha! Oh gawd. it's a bit like acting sexy... how the hell do we act sexy without coming off all queen? I've giving up on this "work it" thing.. and I'm not sucking in my guts no more... fuck it. I've had enough parading to last a lifetime. :p Next event, I'm just going to wear my Thailand poo catcher pants. May as well be comfortable. Me in those and the Trogg in his crimson cravat and golden caftan.... we're going to be a hit, no matter what we wear. Hugs Gazpacho.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'jaybaby77' to start with anyway.... I mean if you take the attitude of funny yet sexy it projects a kind of character and act like your costume (eg. zorro, cop, magician, sporting hero etc). It means you can "play" a more outgoing version of yourself. Just a suggestion! Fair point. Funny "ha-ha" I like... you wouldn't believe the number of times my banana-man suit has got me laid. But funny "eew, that's not right" I kinda want to avoid :) Which brings me back to those damn chaps... My cravat and kaftan require no other articles of clothing, for the record. Dazzling :)

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