Being timid at clubs..

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  May not be your scene then. However, if do enjoy the feeling of being in a club environment then maybe you are the type of person who suits arranging to meet people there to play with. That way you already have a connection and feel comfortable with them so aren’t shy and can also enjoy the freedom of playing in the club environment - watching and being watched. The not knowing who you are interacting with in a club environment is not for me either as I am shy and do like to know who I’m going to be getting intimate with, however I do quite enjoy doing my own thing with my partner at the club. We have been quite reserved as to what we have done at the club so far but I do have thoughts of wanting to do more with him there... You’ll move past your shyness in your own time, but don’t compromise who you are. If you shine in 1 on 1 and private parties then consider them your playing field and shine there! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  We have been to a club a few times and like you we get very timid and shy. So we stopoed going to clubs,plus we found it abit to hard core for us. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  6 years ago

  There is no First Rule If you’re not feeling it...... that’s how it is - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  After 6 visits and no improvement.... not your thing. Stick with parties, not like club attendance is mandatory. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  I had my name down for a club last Saturday. I thought l could go solo again but was hesitant. So much nicer to at least go with someone so you dont feel self conscious. I even tried to talk a contact that l hadnt met yet into going. But he was too shy to go. I was dressed ready to go but failed to launch.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  It took hubby and I 10 visits before we plucked up the courage to do anything with anyone at the clubs. We had no problem with talking with people but understanding or reading the signals we had no idea on to know if anyone was interested. Now we feel more comfortable but I/we don't have to play with others to have fun at the club because just socialising with other like minded people is fun in itself too. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  WishingWell

  6 years ago

  for your responses on here, also those two lovely people who pm'd me with tips (you know who you are 😉) XXX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Bazingal

  6 years ago

  Play isn't compulsory and also the crowd differs each time you attend. Sometimes you'll feel it others, not so.

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  Supernova

  6 years ago

  Just be yourself, you don't owe anyone there anything... ...but for shyness, maybe a few drinks might help? Seems to work for a lot of people haha ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  WishingWell

  6 years ago

  Supernova but I actually don't drink, I prefer more raw organic play 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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