Best Swinging System

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ..calls for a different approach!I for one have a family and a busy schedule so i tend to talk more and get to know someone via emails, msn or phone so then when we meet its like a 'sure thing' because i need to get a sitter and plan for my meets and plays so i'd like to have a better chance of us actually hitting it off.But...if you have alot of free time and nothing holding you back then by all means, go out and meet as many people as you want and enjoy it!!You'll find majority of people on here fall into either one of those categories, you just need to find the ones that are ready to meet NOW!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hey guys .. we have been doing this for a while and we do try to swap several messages with others to try to see if we would be compatible first .. BUT... at the end of the day, having met quite a few people in real life and played, you still need the face to face. You just cant tell until you meet someoneGiven your message, we would recommend you arrange as many meetings as you can - you will get some shy away from meeting up. These guys you should avoid as they are probably never going to meet you and may be time wasters.You will also get some not show up at all .. that's the nature of this scene and although its frustrating it cant be avoided some times happening.I think put it out there - arrange a date for a drink straight away - if they are genuine you can check them out in real life and make a call as to playing ..Good luck :)   .. we will be up your way soonish - wanna drink?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We have that meeting people is a little fit and miss but we have always had fun going to swinger clubs and hotel parties. It is a good way to met people simply because there are more people there so more opinions then just meeting one couple.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  mikem1 , .    Upfront & keen .. nuthin like setting up a rendezvous ... there and then ... given your age group ...  But .. > doesn't hurt to have  a backstop ( movie to watch haha ) in case your hookup bails ... or wont show .. yanno !  .. Plenty  wannabes talk about it  but won't deliver - the softees - you say ... enjoy . the real ones . .. well .. they just keep on living life ! :)  :)  Methinks :)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I say we have to agree with OhSoBi. It also counts on the type of lifestyle you have and how often you plan to swing. If you need it twice a week - you'll be quite busy.   Personally, we have busy lifestyles and do not feel the "urge" to swing, we simply enjoy it. Some people want us to meet them in 3 hours, but we enjoy messaging and getting to know each other at least to the point that when/if we meet we will have plenty to discuss since we have already talked. Plus adjusting rosters, appointments, uni and family dates to make sure that we have time and money to swing usually scares the instant-swingers off - but those who persist get the goods ;)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You need a ver strong, firm beam, supported on braced posts.Insert 2 eyelet hooks into this beam and hang 2 ropes from them about  foot off the floor.Attach a seat to these bits f rope and voilayou have the best swinging system.hang on,is this the DIY forumthink i'm lost

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Some great advice thanks, here is what I have learned in the past couple of weeks.If you go for something everyone will like, no one will love itIf you try and land the plane too fast (meet up) the plane will crash Having a values system helps soooooo much in working out who to spend the night with once you get to the stage where everyone wants your timeGet the girls to talk to each other on the phone, it verifies that they are both up for it and protects against single dudes and other devious variationsInfact make sure you talk to someone on the phone before hand or the flake rate skyrocketsPeople work and do get tired, pick the timing carefully

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  lolz roughfukr1~ I was thinking of a building project when I read the headline too...   If you are out to make friends then I figure you can have a decent cuddly conversation after a mouth watering sex session in a steam room/club somewhere... or alternatively you can send a zillion messages via email, text and in the chat room on a web site to get to know someone. Seems a no brainer so far as I am concerned.   Anyway, I think the way is clear if you consider your context. If your objective is just to hook up with anonymous people for a shag and you're willing to take pot luck on what you find, then a club is the way to go... but if you want to screen people more carefully and want to be certain that you are meeting up and shagging someone that you "click" with on an emotional and social level, then RHP is a good way of intro. Of course, here you can meet anonymous people for a quick shag... AND screen for people that you might click with... But I suppose if you are sitting at home on Friday evening with your hubbie and you think to yourself... man I'd like a good shagging right now... then hoist your root me flag to the highest pole in RHP and put the hard word on... or head off to a club... lolz.

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