RHP

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Best way to approach single women/men?

June 20 2013

Hello peoples.Sometimes one of us meets a guy/gal at work or out in the world and thinks "Oh, my wife would love him", or "My husband would love her".But what's the best way to approach them?Come out and be honest? "Hey, we're in an open-ish relationship and you're really cute and we'd love to invite you home?"Or other approach?Curious to learn from those of you with more experience at this than us.:)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If either one of us would be game enough to approach someone without them at least showing some interest in us first. We both quite often talk about having seen someone the other would love to play with.

  • Mr_Thick_Dick

    Mr_Thick_Dick

    11 years ago

    Well, if you look like you two look, I don't think it really matters what you say. I bet you could even try "You....come....now!" and it would work.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    To a very sexy vanilla couple. But through text and they've never really acknowledged what was said. We all really enjoy eachothers company and so we've decided not to push it. We know they know, but she's a little fragile, self esteem wise, and they are a relatively new couple. Could get messy and not in a good way. So friends it is and that's ok. We got into swinging as a mechanism to deal with just the kind of real life connections you are talking about. I think we'd be much more game to come onto a single, especially a male than a couple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That line would totally work on me. For real.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    really- do they pay your bills? No good wondering, just get it over and done with. What's the worst that could happen? Worse case scenario is a knock back, or respective partners "wouldn't" love them after the fact.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I rather like the girl-on-girl dirty dance. Then the dancefloor girl pash. Then it's time to talk about coming home with us :D Ms "we kind of accidentally slept with my work colleague that way" K x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Kinkstersinc'I rather like the girl-on-girl dirty dance. Then the dancefloor girl pash. Then it's time to talk about coming home with us :D Hot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not sure if the average couple would understand a come on? Plus not having been in the pick up game in 28 years its a little daunting too!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    From my experience the best way i have found when being picked up is honesty.. When a couple is upfront and say what they want. I have been picked up a few times by couples when the woman has approached me and just come out with we are taking you home tonight..Saying that though not everyone would appreciate that.. Different situations different ways.. When out Kinksterinc has the idea and if its someone random you can be alot more upfront.. Work that can be dangerous ground and thats something i would take my time to find out if the person is into what you are..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'DDXX1000' Well, if you look like you two look, I don't think it really matters what you say. I bet you could even try "You....come....now!" and it would work.Oh stop... stop some more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the replies.Gonna try the upfront and honest approach... see what happens!As many of you point out: Nothing to lose, and only potential hot times to gain.:)