M65
Bi Sexual / Heteroflexible trust.
April 09 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
People I know think that bi men are really gay and haven't really admitted it to themselves and also that bi-sexual men would never be completely happy to have a exclusive relationship with a woman........something most women at the end of the day want. Bi-Sexual men can have sex every minute of the day if they wanted to and if they are not so fussy. Therefore just due to higher levels of exposure I would consider them higher risk when it comes to STDs. Same as swingers or single people that are real players and get around a bit. It is just a matter of higher exposure than the boy next door who goes to Church every Sunday and doesn't sleep around. Some female friends that I have told about my interest in bi-sexual men have expressed extreme surprise. To them it is disgusting or they can not understand why a woman would find men having sex together as an attractive thing. Muggles....... who can understand them, eh?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Assuming you mean just bi men: as much as I trust straight men. Am I worried they'll leave me for a man? No more that I'd worry they (or straight men) would leave me for another woman. STD's? If a man wasn't as vigilant about safe sex as myself, he wouldn't be in my bed in the first place. So, no, I wouldn't be worried. And would absolutely consider a relationship with a bi guy. I'd prefer it actually, as I do like (read: fucking adore) MMMF debauchery. Simples! :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dear Meeka I'm shocked you have friends that think along the same lines as me Mr Bella . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
They are not homophobic though. One GF did express disgust over a sexual act I was telling her about. I was not amused and it was deeply upsetting to me actually. But she is the straightest person you will ever meet as I am sure she would find you and Mrs Bella disgusting too.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
But I know how I think, I have no fear when it comes to Bi men, be it STI's, running off with another man or trust which you would have to earn regards of your gender. As for a relationship with a Bi Man, most definitely I would, it would be a win, win for me I think......😈
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' People I know think that bi men are really gay and haven't really admitted it to themselves This is not a criticism of you or your comments miss Meeka.... but, if we swapped the words Bi & gay... for different combinations of bi, gay, lesbian etc.... and if a man said what you said......... peoples inferences, attitudes and responses would be different.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr Bella,do your family and friends know about your lifestyle...and does it horrify them ?xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Does Mrs Bella know you are online?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is flexible ..why would someone's sexual orientation affect how they are in a relationship....we all make choices about our behaviour..how we treat others....it is not sexual orientation ,it's whether or not the person is kind and loving xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
i don't mind the idea of bi guys - to each their own. It doesn't disgust me but it also doesn't really turn me on ( mrs) My husband is straight , we mostly play together , he is not homophobic but relaxes and enjoys more when playing with straight guys. I know nearly every guy I have ever played with had tried the no Condom thing . I imagine two guys together could talk each other into most things :) it is not always a given I know ....but yes safety is a thought for me when thinking about bi guys ....warranted or not. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
In my experience cheating and bringing home STI's is most definitely not exclusive to bi-sexual men. My son's father cheated on me with nauseating regularity, and I consider myself very fortunate that he didn't give me an STI. I accord trust to a person based on who they are as a whole, and sexuality doesn't come into at all. And as far as a heightened risk of STI's goes, I'm proactive about my sexual health as in: 'if it's not on, then it's not on'. Simple. Would I have a relationship with a man who was bisexual? Absolutely. Like Lovinit said, it would be a win-win in my opinion :) Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Meeka100' People I know think that bi men are really gay and haven't really admitted it to themselves This is not a criticism of you or your comments miss Meeka.... but, if we swapped the words Bi & gay... for different combinations of bi, gay, lesbian etc.... and if a man said what you said......... peoples inferences, attitudes and responses would be different. I don't understand what you are getting at DG? This is not a view that I agree with, but I have personally heard women ask "do you think bi men are really gay" I also have a bi male friend who has experienced this attitude when people have said to him that he is really gay but can't admit it to himself. As for people saying the same for bi women. I think they would say exactly the same things. t's all about people's awareness and experiences of bisexuality.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Is flexible ..why would someone's sexual orientation affect how they are in a relationship....we all make choices about our behaviour..how we treat others....it is not sexual orientation ,it's whether or not the person is kind and loving xxFreya I think some women want to be the one and only to their partner, therefore if they were with a bi-sexual male maybe someone who is not as strong or confident might always have doubts in their mind about whether he is really happy. That is my perception anyway of way some women wouldn't go for a bi male even if it was to be in an exclusive relationship.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Elle67, big guy's get a bad rap and are forced to be silent about. Bi women have anal sex with men nobody's bothered. I always use protection with men and ensure my partner's are regularly tested. Most women I've been with have been more inclined to have unprotected sex. All sexualities need to be mind full and diligent with sexual health. Respect for self and others. Thanks Elle67 for standing up for bi men. I'd gladly be your boyfriend
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some women would doubt that any man would be happy with just her..every relationship is different..I think people are just people.and there are so many different permutations of relationship..love and trust is surely what it's about ..xxFreys
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are just normal people. If we have faults then they are the same fault everyone else has. Those that dont like us dont really bother us as it is mutual. We dont cheat any more or less, we dont fuck any more or less, and we dont take and more or less risks. I find that bisexuals are more in touch with there sexuality and have a more mature approach to social and human interaction, and it might just be me but the bisexuals of both sexes that I know generally seem to be more intelligent and successful in life. This may just be because i seek out bisexual and prefer the intellectual types. When ever I meet someone and it starts to head towards a relationship I always let them know about my sexuality. Only once was i surprised by someones intolerance and guess my openness saved me from being entangled in the wrong type of person. People should be careful when reciting negative stereo types, even in the third person. I was appalled upon hearing of yet another man brutally beaten to death simply because of his sexuality. Promoting the negative attributes of people based solely on sexuality, religion, race or whatever only perpetuates misunderstanding, intolerance, hate and violence. I welcome mature debate, but i do not find hear say and innuendo appropriate when discussing minorities that still fear the brutality that infects our culture.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree OP that some bi guys leave their status as straight and to quote what I've heard them say is that 'some women find it a turn off'. There is also an element of discretion sought by some men in that playing with the same sex is a very private part of their life, hence not stating anything other than straight on their profile. Perhaps they think it's more socially accepted for a female than a male? Not my thoughts though.. I would definitely consider a bi guy to be more than just a playmate. In fact I'd prefer that and trust should be built between two people, irrespective of things like sexual preference, race etc... I guess one other thing is that the label 'bi' isn't sometimes used by people that play with the same sex, instead they prefer no label. The term 'bi' is just used as a convenience. Bi women.. I don't know if I've met a man yet that didn't like that thought 😉 LMN xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The assumptions are: 1. Bi men fuck around, but straight men don't, therefore straight men are 'safer' in a relationship. 2, Bi men arent practicing safe sex, but straight men do. 3. Bi men do disgusting things with other men, but straight men dont do the same acts to/with females. 4. Bi men want sex every minute of the day, straight men do not and are more committed to his partner. 5. Swingers are safer than bi men. Whether a person is straight, lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer or intersex, this does not represent how much sex, safe or not, a person is having. In fact a person can be a virgin and still identify as bi, gay, etc. so its very alaming that people hold the view that bi men have a lot of sex with men. We know many bi men who have never had sex with men or have just tried oral with another man. They know their orientation is bi, experiencing it doesnt make it so. People say "im not homophpbic"...while they hold prejudice and stereotyped views on a person in the LGBTQI community, they are. It truly makes us sad to hear such ignorant views put on all bi men around their sexual behaviours, as if its a fact. But those same people (usually straight men) are sleeping (or looking to) with whatever female they can...like females are all clean. Oh yeah, and no straight man ever likes to fuck a females ass? Many straight men do the same acts of bi and gay men that they judge with disgust to a female - if its done to a female its somehow different or ok in their world view...go figure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My dad told me. " Son, never marry a pretty women because she might leave you for someone else." I said " But couldn't an ugly girl leave you too?" His reply "Yeah but who cares" - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
It has taken me 40+ years of hiding, lying, playing deceit on friends, family, partners and wives. Society has taught me to do so. Not proud to stand here to say that but that is what i have had to do to live a nearly normal life that most of you have been able to take for granted. Sooner or later, it catches up to me. But for the stress and emotions of causing hurt when finally found out, the many years of love and normality seem to make it nearly worthwhile. Years gone by, no one was accepting of bisexuality or crossdressing. Lucky me, i have both. I could lie or be lonely. I chose to lie. Now in my late years of my life, i find it time to say no more. Im done with the pain i inflict with the deceit. I am comfortable to now live out the rest of my life alone. Maturity has allowed me to arrive here. But for many others, they will continue on their own secret path. The volumes of married men at the gay saunas every week is testament to the many double lives that bisexuals lead. The very fact that this thread is here, shows that society has not changed. Even in here, sadly, it is challenged
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
In 40 years of bisexuality, i have only caught 1 std. From a woman.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
To profile a person is to make generalisations about a person based on their age, race, gender or in this case sexuality. It is a very problematic system and one that is beginning to be understood as terribly outdated both in it's cultural and social applications and in the skewed (and oftentimes misrepresented) results it produces. To speak on a personal level as someone who identifies somewhere on the bisexual spectrum, and knowing many friends who are bisexual I can say that the constant assumptions and opinions made about our sexuality and identity are not only hurtful but show a deep, ingrained prejudice against what it means to be bisexual. That is, the view that a person can not authentically be sexually attracted by multiple genders - to make society feel more comfortable they impose upon a person that they must either be a confused heterosexual or a closeted homosexual. I suppose this mode of thinking will take time to shift and that is a eventuality in our history (at least in the majority of democratic nations) given every year we take steps together as a society to empower the freedoms of sexual choice and legeslate towards law that recognises and protects our GLBTIQ citizens. It is just a heartbreaking shame that whilst waiting for this change we will continue to see many of our young bisexual friends and family members suffer at the hands of ignorance - to be labeled and profiled (and then judged by these means) rather than seen as the beautiful and worthwile individuals they are that add diversity in our world. ~KK x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Being bi-male must be hard in that it doesn't seem like you're accepted in the straight or gay community*. I find the bi-aphobia (ok I made that word up) of gays of either gender is more disturbing then some redneck homophobe. I mean shouldn't they be more understanding of a minority sexuality being that they suffer from a similar prejudice? Rather then being labeling them a fence sitter or some sort of traitor to the cause. My only problem maybe not problem but confusion of being bi. Is it seems a lot of people who are bi seem to think that it gives them some sort of hall pass to screw around as long as they are screwing someone of the same sex. I mean I'm hetro, if I'm in a monogamous relationship that's it. Sure sometimes I'd like to have a quick fling on the side and go back to my partner but I wont because of my commitment to her, if it was a big deal to me I wouldn't be monogamous. So being bi is not the issue it's being promiscuous and deceitful, whether it's with someone of the same sex or not. I believe honesty in any relationship is first and foremost. I realise being straight I have no way of understanding what a bi- person feels or has to deal with on a daily basis. I am in no way judging anyone or meaning to offend I'm just offering my opinion. * note I hate the term gay community. I envisage a gated townhouse community with neat and tidy gardens, lovely decor and everyone is FABULOUS! And on another note in the past when I did meet with couples I actually preferred meeting couples with a bi-male. I don't know why but for some reason I felt more comfortable.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No family member knows we are on here,they would be disgusted to say the least . What I Mr Bella find interesting is how touchy some people are in the forums ,people seem to take what is said on here so seriously Guess what it is always the same crowd. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
...the existence of this thread shows that we can discuss the matter frankly. Something that couldn't have been done forty years ago. This, to me, shows change and progress. It is, sadly, a very slow process and unfortunately, not all change is progressive. I still have faith that a person's sexuality will one day be accepted as readily as differing hair colour, along with skin colour and choice of religious or philosophical choices.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'BellaRH' No family member knows we are on here,they would be disgusted to say the least . What you find acceptable, your family finds disgusting. And what you find disgusting others find acceptable. Maybe throw that word around a bit less?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agreed Annie. The number of openly bisexual males that I know are very few, even in the swinging scene. One question I always ask when I meet someone new is about the significant other in their lives, be they separated, in the process of separating, friends with benefits, or some other situation. Very few actually have let the other person, that should be (has been) their most trusted, know about their bisexuality. So far no bisexual male that I have met has let their family know. The only ones I know that have, have declared them selves gay. The stigma hangs as a dark cloud and i am personally tired of the cloak and dagger secrecy. Jensman.40 years ago we did not have anonymous public forums in which to discuss matters like this. Even with this forum's anonymity many still do not participate due to the stigma associated. About 50% of the messages I get from RHP male members do not list that they are looking for men, or that they are bisexual, or curious .
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RHP User
10 years ago
Regardless of what you do behind closed doors (some doors very open lol) there choice in partners have zero to do with trust (my thoughts) trust is built with an honest connection be it friendship or a lover. If you go to a swingers party and play with new people for the first time ? Do you trust them as if you would trust a parent or sibling ? No I doubt you would. So trust has nothing to do with sexual play friends it's about the honest connection if 2 people. Just my thoughts on what I've read above is all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am aware that the internet was not available forty years ago, I was enjoying my youth at that time, and I'm also aware that the anonymity of the forums allow a person to express themselves with a more secure feeling. Still, if you think the world has not become more accepting of individual sexual preferences, you're spending too much time in cyberspace and need to get out in the real world a bit.If Marilyn were to walk into a Woolloomooloo pub today, he would not get a second glance, let alone get punched to the ground. I work with several openly gay men now where as just twenty five years ago, I worked with a man who was embarrassed when he was outed by his house mates. He was the only gay man I was aware of at that time. We have the Annual Gay Mardi Gras as a huge tourist attraction for gays and straights alike. I can express my support for Gay rights publicly without fear of physical reprisal. If you don't think society has made any progress, you truly are blind. As always, live long and prosper.
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RHP User
10 years ago
i realise you've been on here for a while now and many people respect your opinion but the last few comments I've read from your hand make me think you're a bit of a dick. You are far less important than you think you are love....
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Of course we take things said in here seriously, unless said in jest. Its a serious forum. Its about life. And if you think your comments are meant to be taken in a humorous way, you are seriously deluded. To get away from the only descriptive word in your vocabulary, disgusting, ill use a new word to describe your posts on this site. Fucked up. Sorry, 2 words
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Whilst not always agreeing with her, i think the comments she made here are fairly on target and in line with what i have experienced in life out there. Superbi, is there anything in particular i may have missed?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can't see it either? I haven't even expressed an opinion... Just relate genuine comments I have heard women make and experiences that bi fitness of mine have experienced. How on earth does that make me a dick? Totally weird. But I don't really care.... Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oops. Bi Friends not fitness.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't you hate it when a perfect stranger calls you "love"? And I see it's finally happened: you've turned into your strap-on. Dick. :-P
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I will say 2 things on hereone--As a DJ I teamed up and did big house partiesback in the 80s and the place we booked had a 1000capacity up top and downstairs had 1200.Now this is Perth so smaller than other states yet downstairshad a gay/bi night and it was packed plus men lined up for 3 city blocks. Please note over half had wedding rings. Also according to some magazines there are a lot of womenmarried to gay or bi men and don't know it.The rough estimate is 47% however its probably what you getwhen you want a sensitive new age guy. Yes I know for a fact a lot of women would run but not in disgustbut in the fact they want a man who only wants them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Really? I'd like to know where you got your estimate from. I know you didn't pull that percentage out of your ass, cause that's obviously a no go zone. But if you truly believe 47% of married men are bi or gay. You are more than delusional. Your butter has pretty much slipped off your noodles - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are an EXTREMELY hard person to like with comments like that (and most of your other comments)...so many syereotypes and gross generalisations in the one post. Geeeezus! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
3 city blocks...........really? Stretching it a bit hey...... Like that appendage that you like to stretch toooo much....... Love your work. Love you sweets XXXXX
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Reminds me of that famous line.The truth you cant handle the truth.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I have my friends and lovers --- not desperate.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey peoples..☺..I am of the opinion that loads of men hide their bi side.. I'm sorry but if a man can fuck a girl up the arse .. he can fuck a man too.. Dont want to be the one who says it but I've some girl friends that all their husbands want to do is root them up the bum..thats not normal ..why would u when right there is the most yummiest lil wet plaything thats f..king awesome..I'm sorry but it shows that blokes can be dirty f..ks..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Also according to some magazines there are a lot of womenmarried to gay or bi men and don't know it.The rough estimate is 47% however its probably what you getwhen you want a sensitive new age guy. 47% of women are married to gay and bi men without knowing it? What magazine was that? (Not going into how offensive that actually was.)
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Up there 'manning' up on the turntable. His hot pink chaps squeezing his buns whilst he toe tapped to "Its raining men"
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am Bi, I love women but in the right circumstances and situations, I enjoy playing with a hard cock as well.It isn't something I choose, it just feels right and is amongst consenting adults.Whilst some women are shocked or horrified, that is their prerogative and so be it. Not much I can do about it and if it culls my opportunities on the site, it is only the selection process that eliminates those that I am not compatible with.But, there are plenty of women out there that have no problem with it and enjoy it, to see their man going down on me, or me on him..and it can really be fun in a group situation.We are what we are, just roll with it, enjoy it and respect others likes and dislikes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
as a bisexual male, the only person who gets bareback from me is my wife, also for me I see women as beautiful, amazing & sexually attractive but when it comes to men I can't ever see it anything more than just sex. I love my wife but am lucky enough to be able to enjoy a variety of sexual experiences. Again it's just my thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Trust is earned. In terms of trust, sexuality is irrelevant.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That Chev is one of Barry Humphries characters....I don't believe he is real..who here can honestly say...I have met Chev and his entourage ..xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I suspect the reluctance or bi men to explore the physical is because there is still a strong social pressure to the "masculine" and the very limited way this is interpreted. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Freya. Blindman has met Chevy and his entourage and can confirm he is real.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Swollengorgedc """ I'm sorry but if a man can fuck a girl up the arse .. he can fuck a man too.. """ I hope you never get blowjobs from women, because you can stick your cock in a blokes mouth... I know plenty of guys who love getting blowjobs from women, but how weird is that... Cause men have mouths too, so they must be gay. And don't get me started on guys who enjoy the odd handjob finish from their wife - flaming queers the lot of them, HANDS! men have hands too! they're one digit away from coming out of the closet with a fabulous mesh singlet and leather cap! What nonsense (Or did my sarcasmograph error out and miss the joke?) (apologies for formatting from iPad, I expect this to look like a dogs brekky)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought that was BMs little joke 😉xx Freya
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gazpacho
10 years ago
The way I see it, sexuality, sexual identity and gender and gender identity are independent determinates. That is, a person can be attracted to men and women and identify as heterosexual because that's how they perceive themselves. The attraction to men confuses them so they will misinterpret it. I guess sexual identity and gender identity are influenced by one's self image. All the lack of trust perspectives, as biased as they might be, are correct to the extent that people can fool themselves into thinking that they have particular preferences, ignoring others. I guess that prospective partners could fear that investing in a person like that could come to tragedy because Of the risk that one day the sexual identity and the sexuality will align and Thos denied interests pursued. How wonderful it would be to be certain of everything. Falling in love is a risky game, eh. Hugs Gaz
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' Up there 'manning' up on the turntable. His hot pink chaps squeezing his buns whilst he toe tapped to "Its raining men" I don't want or need validation and have asked RHPmembers not to validate me just cause we played. Yes I do like that song its raining men and been on the dance floor to music is a big passion so, what you saidwas not funny just true.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I cant remember magazine title but they were women's mags in a dentist office back in 2006
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RHP User
10 years ago
If a man can fuck a girl up the arse .. he can fuck a man too? Physically sure. That would go for a Shetland pony too then, but I'm pretty sure not all men are inclined to do that either.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Well give me one of those dirty fuckers over a narrow minded bigot anyday.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good to see that most of the ladies have the right attitude. As for bisexual men really being gay, I love pussy way too much and that will never change. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oddly enough, the worst reactions I have received for being a bi male have come from bi females. Funny that masculinity is questioned, I find it very masculine and empowering to bring anyone to orgasm by oral whether it be a female or a male. I have told ex girlfriends I was bi and basically got told I needed to snap out of it or there was something wrong with me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My partner is bi and so am i. What a wonderful trusting sexual relationship we have, because we are so honest with, who we are. He loves women, and doesnt perv on men like he does with the opposite sex. He can a devil in the bedroom. I adore our sexuality. And cant understand how ppl can be small minded.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
So that WAS you in the pink chaps that night....... Wooohoòoo!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorta read the whole thread, but about the "bi men are really closet gay" it's total rubbish lol. Any bi guy has to ask himself that question, and unless you really are gay it's not a hard one to answer.Had to explain that one to my g/f, she's kinda understood it.I was even once in the homophobe category in my young days, but once I dared/forced myself to "try bi" I got over it, nowadays it's a fun addition to straight sex. Sexuality can also be a dynamic thing, desires can change etc. I reckon a same sex experience should be on everyone's "fucket list" too lol just for a totally new perspective.However, cheating is cheating regardless if it's same sex or opposite, and that aint kosher.
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deltoid
10 years ago
IMO It is far more acceptable by both males and females for a woman to be bi than a man, which is one of the reasons men will hide the fact they are bi. It seems women are either turned on or repulsed by bi guys, there is very little in between. Going by the number of "straight" guys that have contacted me here, there are a very large number of guys who hide their bi-sexuality. Again based on this, women who say they would not have sex with a bi guy, if they are meeting guys on sites like this then they probably are at times having sex with bi guys, regardless of denials the guy may make. Bi guys are no more gay guys in denial then bi women are lesbians in denial. A person (male or female) can be heterosexual, heterosexual and interested in the same sex, equally interested in both sexes, gay and interested in the opposite sex, solely gay or any other combination. A bi guy is no more likely to leave a woman he is in a relationship with for a guy than a bi woman is likely to leave a man she is in a relationship with for a woman. Males and females leave relationships all the time for someone else regardless if they are straight, bi or gay. STDs the facts speak for themselves that, STDs and HIV in particular has a higher presence in gay males. When it comes to safe sex though I have come across a large number of women here (not necessarily have had sex with them) who are very willing to have unsafe sex with whoever they meet. Some even state this in their profiles with comments like who they meet must be disease free as they do not want condoms worn. At the same time most bi/gay guys I know (not all) will have oral sex without protection but will use condoms for intercourse. Based on this, there is a risk of STDs if you are having sex with people that you meet on sites like this, straight, bi or gay if you are smart you will be insisting on safe sex regardless of the situation. Just because a guy is bi, it does not mean he is having sex all the time with any guy that comes along just as gay guys are not rooting 24 hrs 7 days a week. Bi guys can play with couples where the husband is straight and respect this fact by not wanting to cross the line and try and hump the husband as well. Just because a guy is bi, the sight of another naked male is not going to send him into a uncontrollable sexual frenzy. A lot of cases the straight husband probably is not that sexually appealing anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you've hit the nail smack bang on the head Deltiod.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' That Chev is one of Barry Humphries characters....I don't believe he is real..who here can honestly say...I have met Chev and his entourage ..xxFreya Paul Hogan's skits of life's funny shits and giggles, Arthur Dunga emerged as a character bringing life too The Paul Hogan Show, "a caricature of the suburban tinny-chugging Australian male" Sgt Donger, the tough cop with a bionic beer-gut; Super Dag, an ocka super hero, his powers include his ability to use his esky in innovative ways; Perce the Wino, an old drunken derro who starred in a series of silent,Benny hill-style, sketches; Leo Wanker: an inept daredevil stuntman; Hoges: Paul Hogan playing "himself" in re occurring sketches depicting the character's situation of living the carefree bachelor life in a disorderly apartment with his flatmate.. Strop: John Cornell playing "himself" as Hoges dim flatmate Ocka good sort Sheila's: Delvene Delaney playing "herself" in sketches amongst parodies of contemporary television shows recurring as an attractive female frequently in revealing costumes, A Casual Affair, Television actress and presenter, Benny Five'O,Thick 'Ead, Pot o'Brass. Bridge Painter: ending each show trying to flip cigarettes into his mouth. Paul Hogan worked as a painter on the Sydney Harbour Bridge prior to his television personality and most of his characters of his sketches are from real life characteristics of workmates in the scheme of a days life inspired him for The Paul Hogan Show. The only sad: Strop married the Ocka good sort and they remained good friends with Hoges and further managed his Crocodile Dundee sketches that ran away with the good sort American journalist, Linda Kozlowski, now all friends in life and work living when home to Aus, up in a flash place in the region of the Byron Bay's lovely place in the sketches, Leaving behind the wonderful lady and love lost Mrs Paul Hogan, who would have much than less thoughts as to whether Hoges was bi or not and thankful for respected wishes not to be a Monica Lewinsky in the parodies, Ain't life crazy in the ways we see it all. Dame Edna Everage certainly classy as she spoke too her Possums too life and the likes of the stories tantalising for such as with Sir Les Patterson, by the brilliance of Barry Humphries knowledgeable wits in worldly manner. For the differ of comparisons as creative character comes comedians sense for humour. The only true acknowledgement endorsing the Chev, got canned quicker than Doug Mullray showing a sex scene on TV A disturbing reality posted of the Chev in action, direct from management I believe of overseeing and concerned for all other patrons. Chevy darling is the real deal Miss Freya and truly in his defence untarnished, all and behold to figments.. King Pin of kink, Master Chev-dominator, lover of the lusting team, no bi-sexual man bitches in amongst his lusting Queen's He has been saying it all along with his forthright wisdoms he educates us. Well I believe him, it ain't no silly show and he often gets annoyed when we don't stick to the facts he presents. Bi men ? is not cool if a man wants to be like Chevy darling, believe it women. Is a message!!! I've got his back on this one. Even not worthy of truly believing any of his antics in being sound of mind and healthy well being, I am weak and suffer from equality issues. He has solved 50z question easy. Any way, I'm off to read some more of his advices and be a better man for it. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
to those that have contributed, you have mostly reinforced what I already knew; that is that those who matter to me understand and those who don't understand don't matter ! One of my "issues" was that playing with bi men might be riskier, but it's clear now that bi men are no different to any other, that a broader palette does not mean more, just different, and that the quality over quantity paradigm is no different whatever your persuasion. The key as always to any quality experience is discernment. Love youse all !
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Shall we all get childishOK then Sticks and stones can break my bones but names shall never hurt me. For gosh sake stay on subject.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'deltoid' IMO It is far more acceptable by both males and females for a woman to be bi than a man, which is one of the reasons men will hide the fact they are bi. In regard to the OP's questions, I wonder does this get asked of bi women? Are the husbands/partners concerned about the flight risk? I don't know and I don't anything specific for the OP but this post is reinforcing one of my observations gathered from my/our 12 months on the swing set. There are distinct advantages in being a bi woman and its not just for the sex. I have noticed that bi women top the ranks in the social order of swinging. The pervading perception seems to be that a party is not a good party unless there is a high percentage of bi women on the guest list. It is possible I could be quite mistaken but I haven't noticed this happening with anyone else. Just my very humble observation....
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'deltoid' into a uncontrollable sexual frenzy. A lot of cases the straight husband probably is not that sexually appealing anyway. Love your post....... Ain't that the truth! 90% of Bi men, given the choice of the husband and wife lined up, will go the wife. Unless she's been hit with the ugly stick. Or maybe depends on which of them has been hit harder with the ugly stick........... yes........I know I'm shallow.........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' If a man can fuck a girl up the arse .. he can fuck a man too? Physically sure. That would go for a Shetland pony too then, but I'm pretty sure not all men are inclined to do that either. Hahahaha Love it... But seriously guys come on. Close your eyes, put your hands behind your head (so that you cant touch) and fuck a guy up the ass... Bet it would feel exactly the same as a woman just like copping head or a hand job Oh and I can Definitely say that Mr is straight as a ruler but has yet to be "challenged" by a guy lol..
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' to those that have contributed, you have mostly reinforced what I already knew; that is that those who matter to me understand and those who don't understand don't matter ! One of my "issues" was that playing with bi men might be riskier, but it's clear now that bi men are no different to any other, that a broader palette does not mean more, just different, and that the quality over quantity paradigm is no different whatever your persuasion. The key as always to any quality experience is discernment. Love youse all ! Also you could miss out meeting some of the most beautiful people. It really is a shame bi sexual men have been lumped as a type of person of any risk compared to others. Some bi men sure, but some of every other too. I reckon 50z, if you could go back to your 20z now and carry on, things like a bi sexual man is a weak man and that's bullshit because some of the toughest (stand up for one and other on principles tough), hardest (as in work, sport and play) caring speaks for it' self, compassionate though is never a weakness it's a strength. So times are changing and a lot of that stigma has been outgrown by men expressing their sexuality and many are peers of the communities, further leading to society as a thing just like any other thing. I'm a bit lucky I guess, because the music and arty folk don't seem to have prejudice with any of it, so I have met and really enjoyed a lot of people comfortable in an environment where expression is enjoyed, appreciated, respected and for all of it thankful, people are emotional and of those some of them are ... Just fckn men with passion and man some good music has come of it. I'm just lucky 50z, because I'd never associate you or sexuality as together and treat you as someone different, only unique and not just automatically shunt you into the seedy disease issue, I agree. Tara also got quite turned on when we played up with a bi sexual man, she also enjoys unique people of all sorts, we have seen people that live a dangerous lifestyle, not just sex as more self-destruction, people lose them selves and get caught up with others at rock bottom, they are more likely at risk of disease and passing it on. But that self destruction may just be a consequence of stigma and the poor souls fell victim of it's cruelty. I have an issue with fault as-well, another day for that. Any way you matter too us 50z and that's why ^
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cyber man hug your way comes.
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cbteager
10 years ago
I am bi and since my divorce have been slutting it up a bit with guys mainly and a few girls but sex is sex, doesn't matter who it is with. Male or female are both there to entice straight, bi or gay! I am currently looking for the lady to spend my life with and have met a few, whether or not they are into playing and/or enjoying me playing isn't relevant at this point. If I fall in love with someone then the relationship will be on mutually agreed terms so if she is into monogamy then monogamy she will get, I don't cheat, never have. It just doesn't matter that I am bi, if I'm in a monogamous relationship that's all there is to it because life love is far more important than a bit of fun now and then. I would love to find a lady that is into playing with all the guys and/or girls she likes and me joining in with both sexes but if it's not to be it's not to be. Steve
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RHP User
10 years ago
I only read the couple of posts above me. Sure, doing a lady and guy anally may feel the same but getting to that stage would feel a lot different. Plus, the reach around would have a very different feel.
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RHP User
10 years ago
ok imo gay, str8, bi's poly, everysexual exist. Why cause if there's gays and str8 surely there's inbetweeen and then some :)In the past, due to bad bad society, gay men were disadvantaged so they hid in the closet (some still do).However as we can see from younger generations, sexuality isn't much of an issue anymore (except for pedos, yes I'm sure maybe genetically pedos exist but it's very wrong so sorry but can't accept pedos as it's hurting innocents).Now getting back to bi sex, yes more gays in the past pretended to be bi sexual then gay and maybe still happening a little but I know this, I've met a lot of people and as I'm very open about sex (it's the only topic I get excited about lol) most of my str8 friends started to understand that it's only free pleasure we can have and if it turns me on or doesn't grosses me out, I'll give it a go (safe only). Hey I even had the pleasure of being a bull cause the hubby was hot and he wanted me to fuck his wife lol. IMO lady part feels so much better than an asshole :) lolOh also a lot of my friends mess around with me, why cause it beats wanking and once you do it, you realise so much more to sex and just cause you messed with a gay boy doesn't make him gay either, he just likes getting a gr8 bj :) lolI say do what you like, just be safe :)
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