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Bi Tendencies - a turn off for some?
January 07 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
I first joined yes. I was new to this. Now 2 years on I dont care what sexual orientation people are. In fact, I love bi or experimental guys. Why? Because they are honest and open minded. I used to turn down guys who werent straight....probably missed out but thankfully my way of thinking changed.
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Livingandloving2
9 years ago
Mrs LAL here. Every guy that states bi/ curious who has ever exchanged messages here have always taken great pains to say they respect all boundaries .... Have always been gentlemanly and polite. The only thing that is an absolute deal breaker for us right from the first contact is not using protection. Straight away crosses a person off our radar. One thing that truly amazes me is the number of guys who say they are straight and ask for anal sex with Mrs. Surely what's good for the goose...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I once did turn down guys stating they were bi or experimental, now I go looking for them. I want to play with them, turns me on more than I can put into words. Even now while i'm typing this, pussy twinges, love it and hope 2016 will bring more of this type of play 😍😜😛💋😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a big enough challenge on my hands in competing with the lovely and sexy ladies on RHP and in society general..having to compete with men for the attention of the same guy...phew...I am not that interesting.. I don't mind him being interested in other men - but for me compete with men too... So to answer the question - it is a turn off for me when looking for a playmate or a prospective partner. If it were someone I knew then it would not be of any consideration for me - given I have already got to know him - been through the stage of getting to know him - the battle is already won :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
For me it is the same as couples... I am not interested in couples as I cannot and don't want to impress the Mrs. so couples are a "turn off" for me.. it does not mean I disagree with their choices it is just a turn off for me..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not give consideration to those who state that they are bi-curious. Whilst I understand that sexual play and exploration comes in many varied forms, for me, personally, I guess I want to know that the guy wants to be with me, not wondering if he should have chosen a guy to meet with instead of a girl. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I recently hooked up with someone who is bi for the first time , i was a bit iffy about it for about 20 seconds then figured what does it matter? its not a deal breaker for me at all although I have no desire to see them playing with a guy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yay and nay... Obviously, the possibility of a broader range of play scenarios is a turn on for me from having a bi-inclined woman, even to be turned on in a "hotwife" fashion from stories if not participating, but in a way I would echo SYD's post above. If a lady's interest in other women (and men) is quite strong then she would be presumedly be spending less time with me, considering as a man I can only offer so much, and can't possibly satisfy her other bi desires. But that is where relationship flexibility comes in. But I would still like to do as much as possible in life together. It comes to a balancing point regarding the needs and wants of both partners, which as always needs to be communicated constantly between the couple.
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
Like many here, I considered myself straight and only straight before I joined. But even at that time I certainly wouldn't have minded spending time with a woman who was bi. I wouldn't even have minded if she were a potential long term partner, but I think that may be different between men and women. I was later worried about what women may have thought about my profile saying I was anything but straight, so kept it as that, but now, as others have indicated above and as I have realized, the majority of people on this site are open enough to accept we are all different and that we all have different interests or curiosities and respect that. These days, I fit into one of the categories listed above, though still not sure which one. I think my single (this) profile actually says experimental and our couple profile says curious (for me), this is for very good reason... When playing alone I prefer to meet with women, whereas when with MrsPlayful as a couple we are more open to having a guy join us. For me, it's just a level of advertising, especially considering the number of single guys here. Annie, you say you're not sure what Anything means. To me it means exactly that - you are happy to meet someone of any persuasion whether predominantly straight, curious, bi, ts or tv. But everyone will have their own interpretation of what each on the list means, hence why both you and I aren't sure what they mean to everyone else or even ourselves. As far as the sports car goes though, if it looks good to you and communicates in all the right ways... Spend some time enjoying that sexy body as you slowly and carefully remove that long and flowing cover. Caress its curves, speak intimately so she knows your intentions. Baby her at first, take her slow, feel her responsiveness and listen to her purr. If that motor is still running good then go for a nice long drive. If she steers you in the right directions and her suspension is giving you great feedback... drive it like you stole it as you return her home!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its mixed reception,I prefer a woman with a strapon then a guy.... but Im still looking for that lady with a strapon or a butt plug or two....hard to find! Guys are a dime a dozen - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It doesnt bother me... 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But I have been with bi guys and I don't mind.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In a galaxy far far away I dated a guy who told me he was Bi. He had served in the armed forces where he informed me, everyone was experimental, all those long months away from home, I guess One night in an unusual situation, I got to witness my guy blowing another guy. Initially, I was somewhat dumbstruck and then, to my surprise, turned on. No we didn't end up having a MMF but it did lead to a lot of very open and deep communication between us and exploration of some of our fantasies. I believe I am open bisexuality , bi curious, whatever label we are using, it doesn't bother me at all , that's for sure As long as any lover of mine practices safe sex always with anyone else they play with and when he is with me and treats me with respect, when we are together, is all that matters to me
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langton11
9 years ago
When scouting the forums for possible matches I always have 4 main things I'm looking for and one of these is that both partners are bi.This is possibly why I'm screwed and will never find our match lol
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langton11
9 years ago
scouting the search function, not the forum, I'm not stalking y'all.........yet lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
We would never hook up with a male that is bi bi/curious . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Female of couple here we don't class ourselves as Bi or Straight we prefer to say we are experimental I love and admire the female body and can't turn down playing with a beautiful set of boobs and open to F to F oral if the situation is right but playing with and giving oral to a guy is what I love Hubby loves everything about the girls and has no attraction to males would never kiss or cuddle a guy but is fine with M to M oral (which I love) so at the end of the day I suppose our preference is for couples that are open to experiment with all in 4 some play rather than what a lot of people condsider the norm here ie girls bi and guys straight.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are all sexual beings and should be able to explore that without all the labels ! Enjoy the moment and anything that enhances the pleasure for all involved .. Go with the flow 😛🤗 Mrs. here 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's hot 👍😁
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
That those that are viewing their activities on here with a possible long term arrangements or relationship and are there discounting bi people under the fear that they may run off with a same sex partner in preference to them selves, the majority of bi peeps would be bisexual but hetero amorous. Ie. They may engage or be open to bi play but only open to an emotional relationship with the opposite sex. And given the choice between play between same and opposite sex play, they would choose the hetero option without hesitation. That would sum up my preference to a tee. The relationship i have is based on that. We are both bi and happy for each other to pursue same sex play but are both confident that theres no threat to our LTR.
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
Annie I think your generalization is correct. Referring to another current post regarding the Kinsey scale, most seem to be a two. Of course that scale runs from zero to six and there will be many people scattered across it. I have to agree on some level as to what you also say about running away with someone... But regardless of orientation or whatever, if you aren't secure then you shouldn't be here. But a question to those who would not hook up with a bi person just because they are bi, without knowing them, is this some degree of homophobia or is there some sort of other reason eg fear of STI or does the thought of it just genuinely repulse them? This question is directed to those who do not wish for any bi interaction, but are looking for a straight threesome. Why would you not play with a bi person if they respected your boundaries and were happy to play straight only? Not having a crack at anyone or their preference, just interested if anyone were willing to offer a genuine response. 😊
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cbdlivin
9 years ago
The funny thing of this is the way that people view bi people, without a lot of understanding in the range in being bi. This is especially prevalent when a guy says he is bi. As bi can mean that they have some nice contact such as oral but they are not physically attracted to the guys just the sexual acts as such, but there preference is for woman to the guys who are be bi and can enjoy being with a woman but there preference is for guys. I have found a lot of guys fall into the first category on here where woman are a preference but have flexibility when it comes to guys. Usually that occurs in 3somes or moresomes. So you get the people who think in a 3some the bi guy will obviously be targeting the guy and not the girl and not respecting boundaries.....and of course that is he thin edge of the wedge of what they think goes on... In the end it is good to know there attitudes as it helps sort out who you want to meet. With this site and other I know from first hand fun experience the amount of guys and couples that have straight on there profile just so they can meet up with more people who are anything but straight, so the choice is be honest which people keep saying they want or lie and have more fun...
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Lovinit28andKC72
9 years ago
If I could find myself a sexy bi man, that floated my boat, I'd be only to happy to take it from playmates to relationship. Actually I'd be an extremely happy young lady if I could find me a couple of bi boyfriends and we all lived happy ever after.😍😍😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Okay i'll put myself out there and tell you how I felt, used to feel that is. To be very clear, this is most definitely not how I feel now, like I said, i'm looking for bi guys now and don't have these same concerns. Okay, so that being said, 2 main concerns I did have. The first was STI's and the risk of AIDS. That was the biggie, I couldn't get past that fear (please no stats on hetro vs gay AIDS risk, I knew there was hetro risk, still had concerns). Second thing for me, and don't slam me for this, just saying how I felt at the time, was where 'they had been'. Because bi guys don't often share the attraction (not attraction but love, well you know) or emotional with another guy, my fear was they would have an 'any hole's a good hole' approach when playing with guys. I now know this not to be true, on the contrary, i've discovered through the bi guys i've been in contact with, that they're just as fussy, even more so (as Langdon pointed out, that echoes how fussy many bi men and women are). And I found that when I was open to bi ff play, way too fussy, still am, that hasn't changed. So seems stupid now that I was worried about their sexual activity or history (again related to AIDS fear), but there you go. How I felt at the time, and i would imagine many others would feel the same but wouldn't declare it to the world, fair enough. I, on the other hand, think this is an important topic and if we don't talk about it, how will we ever learn and move forward, and get to experience the hot times ahead mmm yes please 😘😜😍😛💋 the idea of 2 men being together and anal sex, kissing etc, always turned me on, and always supported gay men throughout my life, I raised my kids to not judge, they had gay and lesbian friends, so even in my muggle life, I never had a man on man problem. Coming from a homophobic time, i'm proud that I was always an individual and wasn't influenced by that homophobia I was surrounded with. Also agree if people aren't secure, they shouldn't be on here 😯😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
I wrote a book and it sounds a bit preachy, sorry 😏
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'cbdlivin'With this site and other I know from first hand fun experience the amount of guys and couples that have straight on there profile just so they can meet up with more people who are anything but straight, so the choice is be honest which people keep saying they want or lie and have more fun... I do some webcamming on another site, and almost every single one of the guys who watch list themselves as only interested in women. Which is interesting to me since it isn't a site like this where you might find their profile and want to meet them - it is a cam site and they're not broadcasters, so not going to meet anyone. The only difference I've noticed between them is how much they interact - males that list themselves as interested in men interact more, and so do the males that have created a fake female profile.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' I love bi guys and I would totally fuck one be with one love one share one live happily ever after with one!
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Dimeshreds
9 years ago
If I see a girls profile listed as bi I feel no issue with this at all and I actually kind of expect it. With a guys profile however there is still shame around being honest about it.
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MrPlayful
9 years ago
I like your book, I think it is very open and honest and I thank you for sharing it. It doesn't sound to me like you are preaching, just telling your story and that's great. Oh hope there are others who may want to share also.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A big majority of bi guys on biaus are married but looking for that quick but regular,"dump and run" experience with guys in the same situation. So theres a lot out there with a secret life. At least they are honest in their profiles and state it, just not to their wives. 😳
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