Bi-curiosity - Am I Experimental, Bi-curious or Straight?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I would list myself as experimental, you can then at least explain this to any who ask.   You seem to have some curiosity towards the other sex but balk at the more full on side to same gender sex. And state that you find women attractive but not necessarily are attracted to them. It seems you're more 'experimenting' to actually find out what things you do like, and what you dont.   In my case I put experimental as I just dont know where I'm going to end up on the journey but am willing to explore (or at least consider) just about anything sexual.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Bisexuality is an attraction to both males and females. Some people qualify bisexuality as 'could you imagine yourself having a loving relationship with both genders (bi) or just one gender (straight/homo)", others qualify it by asking do you want to have sex with both males and females or just one gender? Could you imagine yourself being comfortable and enjoying the delights of both genders? i.e. if you feel a bit grossed out about going down on a woman, you're probably not all that bi-sexual, you may however be experimental, and your feelings may change over time, that's natural. There's times when I feel more attracted to males than females, and other times I feel about equally attracted. Sexuality is not something you can easily define for each individual person as everyone has their own level of attraction to the same and opposite sex. If you wanted to do some research on the subject, look up the Kinsey scale. The research is old but it basically tries to categorise people into their ratio of hetero-homosexuality. It can be a confusing journey working out how you wish to define your sexuality, if you want to define it at all. Good luck! xx - Ms Otori

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