F54
Bi without experience
September 15 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
That a person may have fantasy about being with women, but until you try it then you just do not know.Some people try things, then they know if its their cup of tea.fantasy and reality are sometimes poles apart.
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RHP User
11 years ago
but I have had some serious attractions to a couple of women, but wasn't the time, place or appropriateness to act on them. It's something I'm open to and definately curious about, but I'm not in any rush.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've kissed woman and played a little with my hands... I've had one lady go down on me and I so want to move to the next stage of confirming if I have a Bi side or if it's just a faze ! Sadly I'm unable to find a candidate outside a swingers club? It's harder for those of us that still have younger children at home to complete this desire... Louise
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have met quite a few women in their mid to late thirties and all through their forties who feel a strong sexual attraction to other women but have never acted upon it. Whether that makes them bi-curious or bisexual or heteroflexible is a question of definition. It seems to be something fairly common, or at least not uncommon. I would say you aren't alone Lee.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think the most common sexuality is bisexual for both men and women and it is a cultural prohibition that inhibits this. I became actively bisexual during my 40s and I love playing and being with women. For me, different aspects of my sexuality are enhanced depending on whether I am with a woman or a man. I think you should try it - after all you are on familiar ground because you already know what women like.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I have come across some as old as 55 so don't worry. Some women are finding out what an orgasm is.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No Experience yet,at the age of 55 went to my first swingers club and as a newbie was fascinated.I kissed a girl and I liked it. Haven t gone any further yet.But its on my list now and before I was never even thought about it. I think I have come alive in that area hence Bi-curious, not in any hurry waited this long. When the timing is right I just hope I know :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I could be. Never tried but it's on my fucket list. I want my thirst for men quenched first ^_^ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
For the last 10 years I have thought about it and recently I met a couple on rhp recently that let me play to my hearts content (they are amazing). All I can say is that it made me want more. Am I bi? I don't know but best of luck with your journey.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe exposure to some tastefully erotic Lesbo Porn is responsible in some cases?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm over 45 and have never been with a guy. I would like to wank off a large cock, put my fat one in some guys mouth, play with a guys balls as he comes in his partner, getting hard just writing this! I don't think I could suck cock well though, I gag just cleaning my teeth,....;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had my first full play experience with another lady just over a year ago now. mmmmmmm I still remember it fondly. She was all over me and very into me sexually as it should be. I Loved it and look forward to the times when we organise play with other females. I had myself listed as bi curious up until my first and then went home that day and changed it to bi because that play date just confirmed all of my fantasies and thoughts. Not sure if you can call yourself bi though if you havn't been there. Would be calling yourself bi curious till you have indulged dont you think. Being attracted and actually indulging are two different things. We think about many things and have our fantasies but we cant label ourselves over our thoughts can we otherwise every time we thought to wring the neck of those who annoyed us we should be called muderer when we would never actually do it or at least hope that people wouldnt for eg. Speaking from my world which is not representative of all others. I would be rather disappointed if a lady who listed herself as bi turned up to play with us and she had never been with another woman. So please don't do that if you have never been with another lady. Thankfully I have been lucky and the women I have played with have been really into both of us. It would be very disappointing indeed if in the middle of play or even on meet that you could tell that the woman you are with is not really that into you and just looking forward to hopping on that cock. Either way when it happens I hope you experience something you will love.
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cremecaramel
11 years ago
Know thyself. And enjoy the learning curve!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh ive figured it out but have also noticed women older then me are just figuring it out. For the win I say!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can we talk about guys here too??
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