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Bicurious Vs Bisexual

May 09 2014

Human sexuality is a beautiful and fickle thing.I’ve learned that when it comes to attraction and what turns on a person on, there really are no rules, regardless of what some proto-feminist book says. Now, I and my partner know full well we are both completely heterosexual .We’re not seeking to light the fire of homophobia with the following question, we would just like honest opinions and feedback without any bias, if possible. Often, people identify as gay, straight, lesbian or pansexual.This perfectly fine What we are trying to figure out amongst our little group, is simply this. Along the spectrum of sexuality how wide is the leap of faith between Bi-Curious and Bi-sexual and would you say they are for all intents and purposes two entirely different demographics on the sexual orientation spectrum?

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RHP User

11 years ago

Bi curious is thinking about maybe trying it, bi sexual means having sex with both sexes... the size of the jump would have to vary between each and every person Cheers Durty

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madotara69

11 years ago

Were watching the first few episodes of Game Of Thrones, there was a scene where two women fucked each other on a couch. Which prompted Tara to say to me, mmmmmmmm, maybe we should have a threesome with a girl next time. Make of it as one will, but isn't passionate curiosity a wonderful thing.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Bi-curious: I thought/think I'm straight, but girl on girl does something for me (when seeing it in porn for example) and I'd like to try it myself. Bi-sexual: I know (and have always known or at least suspected) that both men and women are totally my thing. Having said that, there is such such a thing as the Kinsey scale. I would consider myself a two (a three being 50/50), meaning I prefer having sex with men, but women are a close second.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I think you will find just about everyone has their own, different definitions of bi curious and bisexual. I class myself as bi curious because I consider bisexual as willing to have a relationship with someone of either sex. I find (some) women attractive and like playing with them in a threesome or group situation (not sure about one-on-one, maybe but need to try it first), but it's a physical thing only; I'm not into them enough to want a relationship with a woman. I know other people class bisexual as being willing to have sex with either men or women, but for me personally that's just how I choose to delineate it. I think because of the variation in people's definitions it would be good if RHP could somehow make that category less subjective, although I know they are constrained by space.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I class myself as bi curious because I consider bisexual as willing to have a relationship with someone of either sex. I think there is a big difference between wanting to sleep with a woman and wanting to together with one. I would call the ability to fall in love and be in a relationship with both sexes biamorous. I my opinion not all bisexual people are also biamorous.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I am bi-sexual because I am totally able to be in loving relationships with females and males. My partner and I just love women, and having the best of both worlds is heaven to me......a lot of our play friends class themselves as Bi-curious, to them and I me, it means the opposite sex (male) rules their hearts, they would really only have a relationship with a male, but the same sex does something totally different to them, maybe because the actual playtime with females is so different and girls are soft tender and well we can be BFF with fun benifits.....mmmmmm ps....also once a bi-curious has been with the same sex then maybe they know for themselves if they would like to be with more of the same sex....also it is all labels anyhow, basically I was gay for twenty years, fell in love with my now male partner, who fortunately loves girls and threesomes as much as me, so maybe I was Bi-sexual all a long, who knows:) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

This site refers to bi sexual as having slept and comfortable sleeping with either sex. Bi curious means that you havnt done it yet but are willing. If you went to another site seeking purely relationships then the meanings are different.

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Taby_DK

11 years ago

I'm bi-sexual & from my point of view a Bi-Curious individual is someone who is curious about having relations with someone of the same sex but hasn't yet done it or has tried it once or twice but still isn't sure if they like it. A Bi-Sexual individual however is someone who knows they are attracted to the same sex & happily has relations with them, & gets satisfaction from being with them either sexually or intimately (affection). Taby xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Luckdragon23'I class myself as bi curious because I consider bisexual as willing to have a relationship with someone of either sex. I think there is a big difference between wanting to sleep with a woman and wanting to together with one. I would call the ability to fall in love and be in a relationship with both sexes biamorous. I my opinion not all bisexual people are also biamorous. True, but even taking only the sexual aspect into account I still don't consider myself fully bisexual, given that I would only play with women in certain circumstances and I have to find them very physically attractive to want any sexual contact with them (and other non-physical traits won't make up for that, as opposed to males where I will fuck a guy I consider average looking if he has other traits that appeal to me). I don't particularly like using the label bi-curious, since I have had sexual contact with women and enjoyed it, so I'm not 'curious' about it anymore. I think I need to come up with my own label

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RHP User

11 years ago

Is for RHP to put a Relationship Orientation into our profiles. Me Relationship Orientation -- PansexualSexual Orientation -- Pansexual

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RHP User

11 years ago

There is always heteroflexible.

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RHP User

11 years ago

if you are bi-curious, you mainly are attracted to the opposite sex with a partial attraction to the same sex. If you are bi-sexual, you would be equally as attracted to same sex as you are opposite sex. AND NOTE: this does not mean that a bi-sexual person is attracted to everyone!

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Lovinit28andKC72

11 years ago

I like your take on it sensual_bi, because I don't identify as bi sexual or bi curious, but I have and do play with some women... For myself if I'm in the right situation, with the right people regardless of gender, I'm attracted to the persons involved, I'm enjoying the moment and I'm having fun, than I happy to go along for ride, so to speak......😍

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'sensual_bi' if you are bi-curious, you mainly are attracted to the opposite sex with a partial attraction to the same sex. I'm just not sure where the curiosity would be then? I'm not curious about having sex with women. Thanks though, you've given me something to think about. LD, maybe we should call ourselves Bi-Partial.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm straight but would really like to experiment with anal play! I don't want to have sex with a male but am open to a strap on with a female and toys. If there's anyone in perth that's keen let me know!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Bi-curious one Questioning their comfort level placement between str8 and gay "Heteroflexible" is a new term - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

For us the answer was simple.... .... She was bi curious when she felt the attraction and showed interest.... She is bi when she has had the experience a number of times and loved every bit of it.

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