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Big arse

June 15 2015

I was going to put something in A&E but anyone needing the advice won't find it so to hell with it, it can have it's own topic. Does my arse look big in this ? Some people kiss arse and say no to keep the peace and suck up, some say yes to tell the truth or just to be nasty. There are a thousand ways to spin this. My way; I tell the truth, I look and if her/his arse looks big I'll say so, if it doesn't look big and they're worrying with no cause I will say so. True story, my mate sucked up and said "no it doesn't" when she looked like a pear in lycra, the other women at the party were sniggering at her outfit, they went home early and he got sacked. A female friend of mine who is a "media personality" was asking her friends before we went out, they were all re-assuring her it was ok (jeans forced around recently acquired fatter bum) she asked me "does my bum look big in these jeans" and I said yes, well after the filthy looks she went and got changed into a dress and all the other sycophants said " oh yes that looks nice" Ha ! The payback was that during the event we went to she thanked me for my honesty as she could relax and enjoy the evening. Now all situations and people are different but I always think "honesty is the best policy" Right ? Wrong ? Or very Wrong ?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well I think the problem is that honesty is only one persons viewpoint. Personally I like a big ass on a woman. nom nom But how I like to respond to that question is this way: " Mhmm, now I could eat cake off that ass. If you know what I'm saying. " I think there are enough issues with body image, to make an effort to trivialise something like someone's concern about how their bum looks in an outfit. I think less concern about their 'faults' more emphasis on their viewpoints about something broader.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Of course honesty is the best policy! ESPECIALLY to this particular question. No doubt about it. On a completely unrelated topic, do you own a cup and a helmet?

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    Then I will tell the truth. Did that to the ex once though, and I don't think it was the answer she was expecting, although I used nice words, such as 'yes'. Wait, what? Why am I single again? :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd say that I can't give an informed answer until I've seen her arse out of whatever it is she's wearing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If you dont want to hear the truth. Dont bloody ask!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was asked "Do these Jean make my Bum look fat..." My response No, the two Pizzas you ate last night are probably to blame....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I got a big ass. Love looking at big bums. My answer is usually: "NO!" as in "NOT BIG ENOUGH!!!" Big bums are a blessing!! Some lovely bums on rhp by the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Will always tell you if the outfit you have on looks good on you or not. I have a friend and she will always tell me if something doesnt not suit my shape. Infact she is the one that has encouraged me to wear dresses. I appreciate that and I always feel that truth is a much better option. BTW I like curvy bums and clothes to match your shape is the only way to go.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I will almost always tell the truth* when it's requested, and to my detriment far too often when it's not. I do try to wrap it nicely when needed though, kinda comes with the territory of being a nurse. My arse is smackable, squeezable and kissable. It's not big, it's not huge, it's epic**! *According to me that is, I think truth is mostly utterly subjective. **According to me that is, I think truth is mostly utterly subjective.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Don't be bullshitting about it, so Mr 50z does my ass look big in this????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Objectively - it looks big in everything. I have a big arse. Subjectively - It's still bangin'

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    why do you need to ask? I have a big arse and it looks big in everything....such is life. if I was asked I would give an honest opinion though as that's what friends do. similarly if I asked a friend or lover I would expect an honest answer.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Auntie Annie tried to make it easy for you lot. You all look gorgeous and thats all that matters..... (front foot forward)

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Any_Whichway' Auntie Annie tried to make it easy for you lot. You all look gorgeous and thats all that matters..... (front foot forward) Based on expert advice from Auntie Annie, front foot to start with, therefore hopefully no need for her to ask the question; however, if asked, need to tell the truth and accept the consequences (if she can't handle the truth in asking the question, then maybe she is not worth it).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    who asks that? I always ask........ do I look fat in this.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    This problem is so simply solved. Avoid fat bottomed girls.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Big arse is easy to find.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    the one your with thinks you fit perfectly

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    She already knows the answer - she's looking for your honesty. Think of it as a baseline for future reference. In other words, avoid being honest then, good luck in attempting to hide the truth (even a little white lie) from there on in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Some people want to know the truth and some don't. I have an issue being anything but honest but not wanting to hurt anyone's feelings. One friend made me say what she wanted to hear while we were in the changerooms at Target. Another accepted what I was offering despite what everyone else was telling her because she really, obviously wanted to know the truth. I'm still friends with the second one. :-) Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do my boobs look big in this?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The question is, Does my arse look perfect in this? If she gives the wrong answer. Well there is no room for those types in my life. As for women asking me, the standard answer is, "Who cares!" I reality unless you have and arse 3 time as wide as your hips nobody gives a shit. Why are people so hung up on their arse, it does not make a lick of difference to your life what other people think of it. If someone needs that token affirmation, its not their arse they need to worry about.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting Mischievous Lad " avoid big bottom girls" It's the ladies who dont have big bottoms who ask the most. Most with big ones realise and are comfortable with that..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Honesty is the best policy, but, it's in the delivery. Telling someone: your arse looks humongously delicious, why don't you wear a skirt instead so I can have easy access, is very different to saying: you can bounce a Hippo with that fat arse! P.s. I want me some of that fat arse! Disclaimer: Personally, I would rather be told the blatant truth without the kiss arse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Women have big asses. Big is good. Big is not fat. "Doe my ass look big in this?" "Big and fantastic"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My answer to anything starting with "How does this...", "Do you think this looks..." and "Does this make me..." I will always respond "Makes your butt look tiny!". Has worked so far.

  • cleopatrababe

    cleopatrababe

    10 years ago

    Sometimes we need to move out of our shadows and be upfront and honest to others ,, it can move them forward in life and sometimes it does nothing but upset them ,, i believe we all seek the truth to some degree i know i have a big ass always have always will i was born with it genes play a big part here ,, but its a matter of accepting those parts of u that u may or may not like i used to hate it now i show it off thank u RHP for giving me the confidance to come out of my shell ,, we are all beautiful in our own way its all about self love not self loathing big difference we all grow old and we all end up in the ground live ur truth value urselves tomorrow is a new day tell a stranger they look great and smile and make someone happy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes just don't ask the question if you don't want an uncomplimentary answer. Check it out for yourself and decide if you are happy. Stuff other's opinions: besides women are meant to have a bum. I've known plenty of guys who have NO arse. If they ask me what I think, I usually tell them a bit of toning up ( or a lot ) would really please me: besides it means more thrusting power. Personally I prefer bum to no bum. Just my taste. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nytewyng

    nytewyng

    10 years ago

    50zCool, Freddy Mercury says, "Fat bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round!", I says "If you've got it, rock it! BTW Cleopatrababe, we've already had the conversation about how hot you look! ;-) ... and honesty with some diplomacy, ala Satala! A sincere way of answering the question!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    I bend her over the dresser and fuck it, no need to say anything. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' Objectively - it looks big in everything. I have a big arse. Subjectively - It's still bangin' Function over form

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Having a good sized bum. Guys seem to like it and it's comfortable to sit on. I'm not being funny....I lost a lot of weight and sitting down without some padding was very uncomfortable. I love to see a woman with a nice rounded curvy derriere xx. In answer to the question, I would say "It is a real ass and looks hot! "

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes! Theseus83 I definitely agree with you...you have a nice bubble indeed 😉 Back on topic.... Honesty is always much appreciated although there is certainly a nice way to go about it. I know I have a big bum so for me there is no use asking when I already know the answer but I do ask if what I'm wearing makes my bum look nice because some pants can be sooo unflattering