M54
Blocked,
September 21 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
No but I am about to block a couple, some men cant take a hit and really pushy, I guess shenhas her reasons :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's possible from your side. But then, there are plenty of other fish in the ocean :) Good luck OP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and now sometimes he writes me a messages....I don't know whether he doesn't realize he blocked me or he just makes a joke of it. I only found out after I tried to answer one of his messages that he blocked me. What can I do, nothing. And as someone said there are many fishies in the sea.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
They've blocked for a reason...who knows why?? They've made a choice..best thing to do is support that and go see what other doors are open. Life is too short, to worry about why people block..enjoy, go dance in the rain or go fishing! Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
people shut down their profiles for a while,so it may not necessarily be you....but if you have been communicating with them it may be that they have blocked you specifically...nothing you can do ,so as others have said...move on xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't think there is any way to tell if your are blocked or if they have permanently or temporally shut down their profile. So you may not have have been blocked. You could always ask a friend to take a look at their profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've been blocked by people I've never even exchanged messages with, sometimes there literally IS no explanation. Just remember guys, it's THEIR loss!!!
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yankmychain56
10 years ago
I have had some block me by accident and unblocked me later. some, i just click on their profile, and...block. more recently I had someone who wanted me to give her my personal email first off, and i am really leery about that. I didn't respond right away, and she blocked me. Others... I don't know why. not really worried about it, as said before, just don't worry about it and keep looking round. if they want to communicate with you later, then they will unblock you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It doesn't make sense..... If they had no logical reason to block you; then could it not be argued they're trying to potentially manipulate you??? And IF that's the case; why would you want to sign up for that??? But it doesn't even have to be that malicious either...... They may just be a rude fucker that can't say "thanks but I doubt it will happen between us..." OR...... YOU my friend friend fucked up and can't accept the consequences..... But..... If the latter......I'm sure you'll live :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its only recent and it is when people are persistent. You send a reply that says thank you but your not what I am asking for on my profile. So if a person does not take no for an answer, yes I block Or the persistent flirts. It is on my profile, please do not flirt me once is ok, but to keep on doing it? You would think it would be the young guys, but its not, when I look back on the flirts it is guys mostly over 40 so glasses might be needed there. I am blocked here by one woman. That s cause she knows I am checking out her fake pictures, but hey if you have friends on here you can always go snooping. Sherlock Holmes does have a Dr Watson or two But really do not stress, its all just a game here and some like to feel the surging power of that block button. Its the RHP version of OFF! with their heads!
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' They've blocked for a reason...who knows why?? They've made a choice..best thing to do is support that and go see what other doors are open. Life is too short, to worry about why people block..enjoy, go dance in the rain or go fishing! Foxy I don't know if you realize it, but a number of guys have all recently said in various postings that they can't get in to see your profile (me as well lately). Have you blocked us, either on purpose, or by way of 'bulk' blocking accidently ? Just a question for you. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
That could be a lfetime exercise op lol I think I'm blocked too, all my email must just go straight to their trash bin. Sigh.. I wish people would put no junk mail signs on their letterbox. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I block someone, it is only because they deserved it, and usually after I reply politely with "no thank you" and they persist. But why would you want to get into contact with someone who clearly doesn't want to receive your contact? If we were to see the messages you've sent, would we understand why you're blocked? And would you want someone you've blocked to continue to contact you? There is a lesson for you to learn here. Will you? F. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Does anyone know if someone has blocked someone else - can the 'blocker' see the posts of the 'blockee' in the forums ? The reason I ask, has to do with my question to Foxxxy above, but I know from experience in the chatrooms, that happens to be the case. In the chatrooms, if a blocker has blocked a blockee, the blocker can not actually see the lines written down from the blockee whilst in chat, but the blockee can see all that is happening. Mods welcome to answer too. Tall ???
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RHP User
10 years ago
Care to comment on this one?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have accidentally blocked people because those little block icons are in a position that is easily tapped when trying to finish a message. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The same person has blocked me on their old and now their new profilel. Dunno if it was something I said, but they still approach me in a friendly enough manner in the forums. Pffft...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've blocked heaps of people for various reasons.I don't understand why people get so butthurt over it, if i've blocked you there is never the potential for a meet or anything for that matter so just move on.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep. Eat a shitload of prunes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If someone had blocked you,you can still see their posts.. I have only ever block two people in two and a half years...but then my inbox is never flooded:-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting Q: "I have only ever blocked two people in two and a half years" (And Cap'n No Beard thanks ye f'r th' other!) Ps. Must be coming up soon for this years annual block? XX Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inthekiss' I am blocked here by one woman. I'm blocked by a woman or two and several men. By own block list is several pages, mostly because the people on it wouldn't take no for an answer but other reasons as well. Not worth worrying about, OP.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If they have messaged something offensive or creepy, then they're getting the block. If they're outside my 'criteria' I.e too old or too young, I may block them. I think it's a personal gate keeper and no offense is to be taken. Move on, not worth chasing. A block is a very clear no or 'unavailable' - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
10 years ago
I am not sure why you want to get unblocked anyway that is a separate matter. a) The only thing I can think of is ask other members to request unblock on your behalf to the member who blocked you. b) Do an advance search in forums for the member if the member is active in forum you can see some threads by this member. Try unblock request in forum in reply to his/her post. In strict sense both methods are against the rules of many sites. But a covert hint may be admissible. -------------------------------------------------------------- We don't block others bcos we don't have a good reason to believe it will serve any useful purpose. We have been blocked sometimes by members who hardily know us. It has amused us but we have no interest in knowing the reason. It is their choice. Put it this way if a member block us for no reason it tells a lot about such a member and most probably we will not be interested such an unreasonable person. It is a blessing in disguise and he has done our job simpler by blocking us. Simple....lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
So can we see forum posts from people we've blocked? I block lots of people, mostly women who are not after single men who keep coming up on my 'near me' in the app... I don't want to keep scrolling through them but I still want to read their forum posts (if they post).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wouldn't take it personally. I spoke to one girl who blocks for culling purposes. I've been here on and off for about 7 years and only ever had to block 2 people who got nasty after a 'thanks but no thanks. email.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Using that little button. So sick of people who cant take the time or effort to read your profile before sending a message but expect a response in return. So from now on all enquiries which are answered in our profile are going straight to the blocked list. Have the courtesy to read the profile first and theres no problem as far as we see it. Its there for a reason.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Am I bovvvveeerrrreedddd..?? Nope...Not one little bit... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am on multiple block lists.....ALL forum posters...who I have never met, messaged or harassed... HaHa..!! My total lack of ..ummmmm ....political correctness, sensitivity, gratitude, respect, or lick assness must repel some people.. It makes my day, truth be told.. Worry about more important things in life.. Like life, love, peace & happiness - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ktulu100' So can we see forum posts from people we've blocked? Yes, and they can see yours. It's only when they click on their picture or username you get the message: "Profile unavailable". I certainly wish some members' posts would be invisible to me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I even block myself.
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PL1963
10 years ago
The ones that give their e-mail address straight up are usually "touting" for other sites, by the time you view them they have usually been reported and deleted. RHP should change the msg to "Profile deleted", that way ppl know that reporting a "fake" is worth doing. Once you see a few and read their replies, you you can usually pick them, I go along with their games so I can report them. They tend too target older, single guys. Yes I've been blocked, unblocked too, but I got a msg to say it was a genuine mistake. Cheers Paul.
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PL1963
10 years ago
Tried the msg via forum, begged Lilyorchid the other day, think I'm done for. I think I was new to the site and a bit "eager" back then. We suffer for the sins of our past lack of knowledge. Shit happens, Eh. Older and wiser, but still gettin' blocked. One of the reasons I don't do "M & G's", is I see that some of my "blockers" are going and don't want any Ill feeling if we meet by accident. Cheers P.L.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
One guy I blocked (for a good reason) still views my profile about 4 or 5 times a day. It's not going to magically appear, mate!
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RHP User
10 years ago
On checking my lists I found I had blocked a couple of guys...thanks but no thanks guys.I notice there is no way of knowing if you are on a blocked list except by trying to contact them I guess. My question is that there's a post I like that showed a few people "liking" it, on checking I saw there was one less person on the list of likers. After liking it there was still one less person on the list of likers, could that person be someone who has blocked me?I can be quite thick skinned and don't mind being blocked but I could be a bit curious about the who...only a bit curious about the who and why life is best viewed looking forward not in the rear view mirror.
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6exxy
10 years ago
I recently had to block a shadow I had. Just thought it best for both.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Hey mate unless youve secretly fucked up & we do not know - who cares - dont waste your time - lucky it finished there !
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rupamohan
10 years ago
Quoting 'PL1963' Tried the msg via forum, begged Lilyorchid the other day, think I'm done for. I think I was new to the site and a bit "eager" back then. We suffer for the sins of our past lack of knowledge. Shit happens, Eh. Older and wiser, but still gettin' blocked. One of the reasons I don't do "M & G's", is I see that some of my "blockers" are going and don't want any Ill feeling if we meet by accident. Cheers P.L. You can try to guess the reasons but I will not be surprised if the reason is not what you think. here are my guess of common/ uncommon just / unjust and useful / useless reasons for blocking. The reason I say can be useless as there are ways and means to override it but that topic is outside the scope of forums. --- minimise profile visibility. To enhance your privacy.--- For admin. Using blocking to sort mismatched profiles--- In retaliation of loosing face or an argument. I am surprised this happens. It has happened with us in few very logical arguments.--- Repeated unwanted contact after denials --- Blocking at first unwanted message. Quite common reason I guess but in my opinion hardily of any practical use. People rarely send repeated unwanted messages moreover it doesn't stop next person to send unwanted message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
if you get blocked try not to take it personally its probably more they don't want to have to reply due to other people being mean when they were let down, its not you its previous tards fault :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was blocked recently. Can't be sure but I think the word that got me in trouble was WWOOFing. Kinda disappointing on a number of levels. But I can always repay the petty small mindedness and block them in return. This, of course, achieves nothing but at least that's entirely consistent with the rest of this site.
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RHP User
10 years ago
People mostly get blocked for a reason known only the blocker, they dont want to have any contact with the blockee. So time to move on and leave them alone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
block him back! :) Quoting 'Litonya' and now sometimes he writes me a messages....I don't know whether he doesn't realize he blocked me or he just makes a joke of it. I only found out after I tried to answer one of his messages that he blocked me. What can I do, nothing. And as someone said there are many fishies in the sea.
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RHP User
10 years ago
actively "blocked" any Member of RHP. I have, however, made changes to my "Profile" which has resulted in my profile being "closed" to even myself for a short time. I don't see the point in using my "Block" button and if I come across another Member's Profile that has been blocked from my view, I don't give it a second thought. I just move on. Having said this, I have not received any "messages" where the RHP Member has been rude to me either. Even if I did, I would read it and then just ignore it. It's not worth me getting upset over it. I'm on RHP to have fun and to make new friends; even platonic ones.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bottom line is, if you've been blocked and you're not a ball breaker, noob or a stalker, the people or person who blocked you aren't worth it, simple. :) Move on :) good luck :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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fl37ch
10 years ago
Just take it as they're NOT interested anymore ... don't be too pushy and annoying to them that aren't interested and give us other guys a bad name to put us in the same barrel ... please !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
we have blocked several all single men either too pushy,disrespectful or straight out lying about who they are or what they are looking for. As for the peeps that stop by for a looksee then automatically block assuming that we are said stalkers well to quote several lets go fishing
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RHP User
10 years ago
Litonya, you can block people who blocked you first by going to your block list (my lists), clicking "block user" and typing in their username.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'amylee2000'I don't see the point in using my "Block" button So innocent still. Give it time.
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abcplus1
10 years ago
Without ever having made contact with the individual. Hopefully that is her screening method and not an indication of our desirability lol.
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team_Pringle
10 years ago
So a profile blocks you........... The reason behind this does not matter, that is their right of privacy. Why would one wish to unblock themselves if the other party clearly does not wish them to be viewed?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do know some people who use the block as a screening tool. You may never have seen their profile, but they've go though and decided when browsing that I don't meet what they are looking for and use it to ensure that I could never contact them. That's a fair use of the system I reckon. I have had occasions where I've received messages from people who have blocked me asking to meet. They are unaware that they have blocked me. I would prefer that RHP put different message like, "This profile as been removed", "This profile is temporarily unavailable", "This member has removed their profile", "This member has chosen not to have contact with you". Just a thought. I figure if I've been blocked, it is because the person has a reason and move on.
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Skyn2Skin
10 years ago
We have blocked, but only after we made our best attempt at an awkward but polite "thank you but no thank you" and we got berated for it. Hooroo block for them, we we don't need to listen or read that kind of rubbish. Let it go is the best advice, they obviously had their reason, plenty of others here who you may click with. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We blocked a single guy who was plain rude and thought he could use ms halo as a piece of meat - Posted from rhpmobile
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