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Blocking people?!
June 21 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
And it's not just the girls that do the blocking. I will block people in the chat if they are being rude or obnoxious to other people, If they are overly insistent in their whispers after being warned not to be, If they persistently try to direct some cam action (especially mine or my wife's), The odd, "could you please lower/raise, move your cam" politely framed request is fine. Also, some women are there to chat and play with other women and dont want guys dropping in on that. Nat;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Surely just because you are on cam as you say ,you should be able to pick and choose, who you want to watch you. If you are a paid porn star, or post on amateur porn sites then that is different. Some men I am sure, block other men.Some women probably don't block anyone.Some women may block other women. All about choice,and the reasons are irrelevant imo.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
yes I put things on my profile for a reason , eg regarding the age of guys I want to meet , I am driven nuts by young guys who cant take no for a answer and dont read the profile , then they get rude and offensive , so they get blocked , all I ask is to read the information on the profile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why care who blocks you? I blocks guys profiles who come up in a search if they have a penis photo! I don't want them coming up in a search in future and I don't want to come up in theirs. It's simply a choice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nath1976' And it's not just the girls that do the blocking. I will block people in the chat if they are being rude or obnoxious to other people, If they are overly insistent in their whispers after being warned not to be, If they persistently try to direct some cam action (especially mine or my wife's), The odd, "could you please lower/raise, move your cam" politely framed request is fine. Also, some women are there to chat and play with other women and dont want guys dropping in on that. Nat;) Nat, while I can appreciate your sentiments, is blocking someone who is rude to someone else really that effective? For a start they aren't interacting with you by the sounds of it, so they won't even notice you blocked them. All that happens is you miss out on what they say. I have found it better to start to belittle the idiots in chat, yes they may block me then, but that is their choice. Blocking someone by proxy just doesn't work, 99% of the guys couldn't care if another guy blocked them. Mooka
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inspirit
13 years ago
Meh....i don't see the point in blocking unless of course your ex is on here or some douche bag who you know is a creep. I've been here for over a year now and have 4 people blocked all with good reason. lol Mooka being smarter than the idiots in chat is sooooo much more fun hehehehe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shit, I'm blocked by half the forum readers already. Wanna make book on how long it takes me to alienate the other half?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jensman....your a character! Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
We sometimes block people we have had contact with and after seeing there PG and making the decision they are not what we are looking for. We only do it so lets say in 8 weeks time if we come in contact again we don't have to go through the process of messaging and exchanging PG's for the some outcome. Its hard to keep track of every person you have had contact with.We also use it to block anyone being rude.Tim
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Blocking someone by proxy just doesn't work, 99% of the guys couldn't care if another guy blocked them." Maybe not when it's me on my single profile but they sure take notice when it's the couple profile and the wife is on chatting with cam on ;) Nat ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had one profile that kept coming up in my stream and it was a vile profile. He hadn't even contacted me but I blocked him on the off chance it might ever cross his mind.I don't web cam so can't comment on that.I have no hesitation to block someone if they send me messages or flirts repeatedly, particularly after being politely told that I'm not interested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'timandjane' We sometimes block people we have had contact with and after seeing there PG and making the decision they are not what we are looking for. We only do it so lets say in 8 weeks time if we come in contact again we don't have to go through the process of messaging and exchanging PG's for the some outcome. Its hard to keep track of every person you have had contact with.We also use it to block anyone being rude.Tim on a completely different note that is a very nice bum...Back to topic(coughs)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do agree that it's frustrating to be blocked for no reason. I have been blocked because I visited a profile or watch a webcam, but to really think about it it's their rights. As hard as it is to take, we just have to be mature, respect their actions and deal with it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we only block those who we really dont like, or who continually harass us, otherwise people are free to see what pics we have posted...and what our profile says.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is there a way of seeing who has blocked you?
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
personally i have a few reasons for blocking a person, i don't troll through and search for them though (who has the time?) so i wouldn't be blocking someone who hasn't contacted me in some way. the reasons i would block someone:1) they have sent repeated flirts/messages after i have said no thanks2) they seem to view my profile like 20 times a day but never actually contact me ( I have never understood this)3) being pushy in the chat room and again, not taking no for an answer4) rude/obnoxious messagesother than that live and let live for me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally dont block people. Never had the reason to. I visit the chat room a far bit and think if Im putting myself out there I should be able to deal with all kinds. In real life when Im out and socialising I cant block people who I think are tossers so I dont do it here.In saying that tho if I did recieve messages that were offensive or someone wasnt taking no as a answer I would block.The block button does serve its purpose on this site but I dont think it should be used because you cant bare someone else's views or you dont like them.T x
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's the person's choice if they want you to watch them.I block people if they contact me repeatedly, view my profile about 20x a day, are overly persistent in chat, are overly enthusiastic/obsessive with other members, give me a bad vibe, are not my cup of tea, etc. Basically, for whatever reason, I want nothing to do with them. I tend not to block couples as my "thanks, but no thanks" messages are taken rather gracefully and I won't hear from them again.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who gives a toss if you get Blocked.... Cyber world not the real world better off without them .. turn of the PC go outside and talk to a real person...
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RHP User
12 years ago
My partner and I have been blocked by eswing and don't know Y , if we have done anything wrong a small note would have been nice . We would only block if it's on our profile like no singles or if someone is to persistant otherwise all welcome So everyone enjoy life we are only here once
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playfulminx
12 years ago
It's a classic case of, it's not you, it's me lolSome women really don't enjoy being viewed by men (esp if they are only seeking women) so they do their dardest to block every guy possible.I personally think that's being precious but every woman has had various experiences so who's to say?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have had a couple on block for over 12 months in the chat room. Blocking saves so much trouble.. What you cant see them saying.is a blessing. .. You think they would have grown up by now as we are all adults but once a fucktard.. always a fucktard.. So yayyy for the block button, they also have me on their hot list.... hahahaha i have no idea why.. maybe they are obsessed??? lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are a few things we would block....1. A suggestive name will do it... suggests not much between the ears.. 2. A guy who over visits to our profile' specially when their out of our age requirement..3. A rude message..4. Guys that pretend we have spoken with them... how could you trust this type of liar ? the pits...Could go on... but these are the main one's...
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RHP User
12 years ago
We cammed the other night for the first time, and were really getting into it when some loud mouth kept trying to direct us.. Nearly ruined it for everyone, they didnt get blocked though, just told off, by us and the other viewers, there is power in numbers in the chat rooms
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Hanna_ybbn
12 years ago
I block without hesitationIt's my rightI come here to have fun and if you plan on taking that away from me the see you later!CheersHanna xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey I accept that but why block? I'm only looking. I'm not abusing, trying to pick up or anything like that. Most people that have replied are blocking for the obvious reason where they have had negative interaction. My point is I don't interact in any negative way. I like watching and I like being watched. Most of us are voyeurs. Why should myself being attached want you to stop me watching you? I don't get it. Again if you don't like being watched, don't go on cam.I obviously see it differently from others.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for the posts though Guys and Gals...Good to hear other peoples views...Hopefully see you in chat on cam....not?!..lol
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