RHP

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Blow job

October 05 2012

Just curios ,my ex wife never gave me a blow job until i said i was leaving at 37, we met when we were both in our teen 15 and 16, i gave her oral sex from the get go ,but still nothing for me , i loved her very much , but the sex was well one sided.Answers???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    are quite simply selfish lovers.I know women who say that they like receiving oral but refuse to give it.They don't like the taste,or think for some weird reason it is ''dirty''...a hangup from the old, ''good girls ''don't do that,when in fact ''good girls'' do, do that... And some men are selfish too ,love receiving but refuse to give oral.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just don’t get the question......Is it why she did not play with you ?????I may have being that she did not know how........Did you tell her what you wanted??? teach her ???If she was so young when you got together......she may have needed a teacher a gentle person to slowly train her and inspire her in mutual pleasures.Or it could have being her upbringing ......or some trauma.....who knows it could have being anything.I expect that things are different now

  • m3bmw

    m3bmw

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' She's your ex wife.And you're in here as part of a couple....So for me reading your topic, I think the "elephant in the room" is.... .....Why are you even thinking about her?!DG Could not have said it better.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    your cock wasn't attractive ....................to her

  • Almost_Ready

    Almost_Ready

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'your cock wasn't attractive ....................to her So what makes a cock attractive? Ive tried gift wrapping, A bit of ribbon & a bow!   Back on Subject. I have the opposite problem, my partner wont let me go there with her? I dont bite! She is happy to do me but wont go the whole nine yards. I dream of a classic 69 & going all the way but unfortunately it aint gonna happen!   Does your new partner know your on here thinking about your ex?

  • Gonesurfing

    Gonesurfing

    12 years ago

    Mate my heart goes out to you, oral sex is'nt everything.....hang on yes it is.   Enjoy my friend.   All the best   Pete

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    thankyou for all the post ,yes i am very happy with my susan ,she is very loving ,i just wanted an explanation .Liam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It cant be changed you have to let it go. My ex loved a blow job and so didnt have your problem.The past can haunt though and I often think to myself if only he knew what I liked now, what i do and enjoy oh how it would shock him.Like Michevious says enjoy the now the past is gone. I think sex is great without expectations just give what you want and get what is given. Spoil and be spoilt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the only person who can answer the question is your ex.Anything else is just supposistion.Unfortunately in life there will always be unanswered questions....I have a book full,well a rather large pamphlet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree with all of the above that priority should be your current relationship, however I do understand your curiosity......I think Nofuzz may be onto something.......I myself married (1st marriage) when I was 20, he was my "childhood sweetheart" that I had been with since I was 15 years old .....Our (very mundane) sex life was almost limited to missionary and the reason for this was basically neither of us had any experience/ knowledge or the wordly confidence to broach on experimentation.........That may well be what happened in your situation. Hope that helped! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I know a lot of people who are disgusted by giving oral? Could be the reason why.

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    12 years ago

    As she's now your ex wife, it doesn't really matter. If you were still together the only person who could truly answer is her.From what I've heard from friends and strangers, a lot of women don't like giving head. I personally don't understand it, but it seems you hit the jack pot if you find a woman who actually does. MrsSplicey