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Blow jobs, such a big deal?
April 15 2015
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RapidFyr
10 years ago
I think it's personal preference. Reasons that friends of mine don't like giving head is because of their partners "smell" down there- others don't like having something like that in their mouth because they have a sensitive gag reflex. Some people don't like looking at it.... It could be anything but they are just some I have heard. For me? It's a personal thing and something I like to reserve only for Mr RF ;-) Mrs RF XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A good friend of mine told me that oral sex is a sometimes treat for lots of couples. She is a woman in her 50's. I think my jaw dropped to the floor when she said this. I didn't believe her.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Blowjobs are not boring when you are really into your partner and in fact are a huge turn on. It is having a man at your mercy and hearing him moan and groan, watching the legs shake, etc which so exciting. And of course the pièce de résistance when he gets close to coming and his hips start rocking into your mouth............ OH MY GAWD. Pussy twinge.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Since they're such a big deal to you, I'm curious OP, to know if your ex was into them at the start of your previous relationship? I imagine the reasons for disliking them are varied, but could include: they're just not into the cock; not into the taste or feel; not that into the man; that giving doesn't give them much physical pleasure; they don't come from oral sex, so don't enjoy giving it; they're prudish; they'd prefer pussy?? Umm, I'm sure there are other reasons. Personally, I think, "Oh god, please don't stop" is one of the hottest phrases someone can say. But as Meeka alluded to, only if youré into someone. If not, then ... meh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing hotter than getting a man fired up with a nice blow job.........
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RHP User
10 years ago
I received a grand total of 2 over a 17 yr period. As for a new wife -praise the Lord I shouldn't be so naive and stupid twice.
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I cannot remember a play where I didn't at least have my playmates cock in my mouth for a period of time. I know it's a line, but the biggest compliment has been 'you know how to bring a man to his knees with that mouth' whilst giving a blow job. Yep, moan and groan away gents. I especially love to make a half mongrel into a raging rock hard cock in my mouth. Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'xoJulesox' I received a grand total of 2 over a 17 yr period. As for a new wife -praise the Lord I shouldn't be so naive and stupid twice. Why did you marry her Jules, if you don't mind me asking. Sounds like you may not have been sexually compatible?
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CompersionCouple
10 years ago
I don't love sucking cock I'm obsessed with it. It's heaven having a big rock hard cock in my mouth, gagging on it, deep throating it, have him fuck my face, hearing his moans & groans from pleasure. Then him announce that he's going to cum & the reward for use both of a beautiful big load of cum in my mouth & on my face. HEAVEN - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
.....be nice 3some...... Its not sex with a guy without a throatful.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've got to say, I get bored of receiving blow jobs. I will even fake moaning ha! I enjoy eating pussy and arse though, so go figure Then again I get bored of eating at times. As they say, it's not until you go hungry that you appreciate it lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
boy meets girl falls in love - Who knows or can answer what attracts us to someone? ... a natural progression"let's get married"that little add in the Saturday Hearald Classified.. flat mate wanted room to rent.Yes I broke the golden rule never play with your house mate let alone marry them.To think back now my new washing machine clinched the deal to move in .. ffs you have to laugh sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The grass is greener on the other side lol... Haven't had a blowie for some time and haven't had a blowie a great one that she wants to do as much as I want to receive for several years... The best to date was te deep throat the one and only deep throat I've received to date :)) I tried to fuck her that time but she simply said nope only wanted to taste my cum... We'll I had to respect her wishes ;),,
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RHP User
10 years ago
With meeka, such a turn on giving and you are really into your partner, personally I love it, but I don't it with everyone 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
10 years ago
I love giving oral. Men and now woman. I am happy to say I am pretty good at it, which I think comes from getting enjoyment from pleasuring the other person. Hearing them moan, groan and physically react to what I am doing is so hot.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You probably wouldn't believe what I actually walked away from financially as I was so sexually frustrated but I didn't want to cheat.....so I left..... Being a pom, praise the lord I met an Aussie Bird............oh boy did you Aussie woman open my eyes lol..... God bless you all.......
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
We humans are very driven by pleasure.... and not just sexual pleasure. Emotional pleasure. If we have done something and had feelings of it being unpleasant, dull, disinteresting ... there was no reward for our efforts to do that. And if we don't feel rewarded, we just don't do it. My experiences are that women actually love giving guys oral..... and take pride in their ability in doing it ... when they feel rewarded for sharing that with a man. And that is partly because a lot of men are great at expecting...... but have how idea how to receive... how to give feedback... how to share his enjoyment of her efforts upon him.... and do all that without jamming her head onto his dick with both hands like he's trying to stab her brain. (UN-RE-WAR-DING) Imagine.... if, through mutual enjoyment and sharing, she remained fully aroused, and climaxed every time she went down on you - she'd want to do it over and over... and better and better.....right?!!! Your ejaculate is not her reward.... feeling you squirm, pulse, twitch, sign and groan, telling her how amazing she is making you feel, how gorgeous she looks as her lips slide over you, how her hair is ticking your skin.....how her wet hand stroking you is driving you wild......... IS rewarding. So..... Give a lot.... to get a lot. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've been bored senseless giving a blow job before. I could tell he was too but neither of us said anything. That's all we were doing at that meet for a particular reason and he must have dug very deep to come that day. Next time, hoping there won't be a next time but if there is, I'll just find a polite way to say something I think. I also don't like watching head jobs in pornos, find it very boring
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hated them for 20 years because an ex used to grab the back of my head, no warning and I'm suprised I didn't choke. Essentially forced. However I love them now, the sound of a guy enjoying himself is amazing. So perhaps there's a reason for not liking blow jobs, for example you not showing the women how you like it but allowing her to have fun and learn. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Never met a cock I didn't lick 😜xxFreya
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
They should be a key component in any lady's sexual repertoire IMO but I do feel guys are probably a little too liberal with their 'best ever' comments (or maybe I'm just modest)... Personally I get a kick from sharing with another girl. Now that's hot, or two at once, although you lose technique and it comes more about sensory overload.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess I just didn't feel 'wanted' by this flat refusal. Sex was incredibly dull. I've been with my current partner for 14 years and I couldn't be happier...sounds trivial to leave s woman over blow jobs but it was that big a deal, it was the beginning of the end - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love to give head and love to suck penis.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That you didn't do things to or for your ex wife that you found distasteful that she would have liked you to do. And that does not mean necessarily to do with sex. I would not do blow jobs for my ex because at a young age I had it forced on me, I was attacked and humiliated a number of times by different men. I have met men since my marriage who have given me a joyous experience and all has changed. Sometimes it is a good idea to be a little tolerant of others differences. Because for sure you weren't perfect either. - Posted from rhpmobile
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Seriously rather a sensationally sensual, smoothly sliding pair of hands up and down up and down....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I'm in lust. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm often surprised by how many men say they never got head when married, I gave it too much to my ex and didn't enjoy myself as my ex rarely reciprocated or indulged in foreplay. So it surprises me how I still enjoy it. In fact I spent most of this afternoon concerned I didn't please my FWB as much as he did me so many many times today.
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RHP User
10 years ago
still way too many guys who think it's their god given right to receive this very intimate gift from a woman without thirsting for her juices or taking the time to tease and excite with your breath, the kind of things that drive us wild, get into her psyche, find out what moves her, what makes the hair stand up on the back of her neck (in a good way, 'creep' by radiohead does it for me when he says your skin makes me cry) presenting it like it's a trophy way too early in proceedings, my vent and my opinion, i still believe it's a man's world, and women do a lot more to pleasure men than men do to women and at least we don't get up and leave after we cum, we stay and hope to do it again, and again, and again, well you get the picture. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love to swallow...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive never encountered a boring blow job, (on behalf of both parties involved) We have both wanted to partake and both enjoyed it immensely, surely if you dont really like them you state this beforehand. The only time I might find sex boring would be if it was someone I didnt really know and was just shagging for the sake of having a root....which will never happen.
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RHP User
10 years ago
no previous bad experience in their part and if there was I would have completely understood and never addressed it again. But I feel it bruised my ego, I want what every man wants. For a woman to want them completely, as I do them....thankfully I have that now so I'm a damn lucky guy. I used to chat in chat rooms to woman and they'd openly boast about enjoying giving oral sex and it drove me insane - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
A boring blow job must relate to technique or lack thereof. If the recipient is bored.........enough said
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm ipen to have a crack if things lost in that moment with a couple but if not do expectations rather feel the way I guess.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is not uncommon OP..my ex did not want to have sex..at least not with me..so I understand how you feel..women need to feel wanted too..It went on for nine years.finally I left..but I don't think that experience will ever leave me xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I ended up not giving head to my ex anymore after his repeated refusal to go down on me, kiss me how I liked or do pretty much anything other than penetration which lasted less than a minute. Eventually I left too, so I don't judge you for leaving over sexual frustration. However it is worth asking yourself if you made her feel appreciated enough to want to give you what you wanted...
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you're referring to me, there is nothing wrong with my technique. Perhaps I should have prefaced it by saying I actually like to give head but I was only speaking about that one time. As usual, I don't know why I bother writing anything in these forums.
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makoman22
10 years ago
Giving head or giving face,how could anyone not enjoy giving the pleasure?sexuall intercourse is very personal but putting your bits into someone's mouth must feel even more personal.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a massive turn on for me hearing her moan and groan in ecstasy, her back arching, her hips pushed into my face. There's nothing like a good old tease in that regard too!! BUT I have had one previous partner not allow me to go there and one I would NEVER have gone there!! As it was previously pointed out in the first post, it comes down to smell and cleanliness. I would never expect a chick to give me a BJ after I've been sweating all day nor would I do it to a chick in the same scenario. youmeequalsfun - don't take things too personally!! It's not worth stressing over in the end!!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'youmeequalsfun' If you're referring to me, there is nothing wrong with my technique. Perhaps I should have prefaced it by saying I actually like to give head but I was only speaking about that one time. As usual, I don't know why I bother writing anything in these forums. Certainly wasn't referring to you and apologies if you took it that way it wasn't intended or directed to anyone. Just a general comment. As a sidenote, I enjoy your posts so please don't stop posting. Annie
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RHP User
10 years ago
All good babe x
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me it totally depends on the situation. In an intimate relationship I love the mutual satisfaction of oral giving and receiving. However, some guys seem to expect that you will perform this act without doubt, and when my head is pushed down there its all over for me :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are so right Mischeviouslad....you give as good as you get... Feeling a guy grow in your mouth as you look up into his eyes and your taking him to heaven with your wet mouth and oral hunger.... It's one of life's great pleasures💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' We humans are very driven by pleasure.... and not just sexual pleasure. Emotional pleasure. If we have done something and had feelings of it being unpleasant, dull, disinteresting ... there was no reward for our efforts to do that. And if we don't feel rewarded, we just don't do it. My experiences are that women actually love giving guys oral..... and take pride in their ability in doing it ... when they feel rewarded for sharing that with a man. And that is partly because a lot of men are great at expecting...... but have how idea how to receive... how to give feedback... how to share his enjoyment of her efforts upon him.... and do all that without jamming her head onto his dick with both hands like he's trying to stab her brain. (UN-RE-WAR-DING) Imagine.... if, through mutual enjoyment and sharing, she remained fully aroused, and climaxed every time she went down on you - she'd want to do it over and over... and better and better.....right?!!! Your ejaculate is not her reward.... feeling you squirm, pulse, twitch, sign and groan, telling her how amazing she is making you feel, how gorgeous she looks as her lips slide over you, how her hair is ticking your skin.....how her wet hand stroking you is driving you wild......... IS rewarding. So..... Give a lot.... to get a lot. DG couldn't agree more :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love love love giving head and I have been told that I should teach people how to dot it and asked where I learned to give it but I wasn't taught I just do it love it........ Mmmmmmmmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
Blow jobs are the best thing during sex i love giving them,huge turn on for me knowing that your partner is getting so turned on from your mouth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I recently had a very sexual lady who just loooved deepthroating my full length and staying there..her finger up my arse,beckoning,rubbing my swollen Gspot..tightening n relaxing her throat around my knob..she would stay there for 10-15 mins..squeezing my tight balls...as I vibed her erect pink clitty...till we both had a mindblowing orgasm...OMG...it was the best orgasm you can imagine....she would take my full hot load strait down her throat....then lift up n we kissed wildly..sharing our juices..yummm!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Men and women should make sure everything is clean down there before any activity occurs. I can relate to the smell with some women, my goodness! So I make sure that I look after myself so that doesnt happen at my end.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Blow jobs are awesome....esp when the women knows how to give a great blow job....have to say my wife does...even better when I am getting a nice blow job by two women at once...that's mind blowing I do say.....sometimes I find it better than sex lol that awesome feeling when your getting that blow job
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RHP User
10 years ago
so true
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NewHorizons6376
10 years ago
I personally love to give head. It is a big turn on for me. I don't swallow though.......I gargle....... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'youngfitchick' I don't love sucking cock I'm obsessed with it. It's heaven having a big rock hard cock in my mouth, gagging on it, deep throating it, have him fuck my face, hearing his moans & groans from pleasure. Then him announce that he's going to cum & the reward for use both of a beautiful big load of cum in my mouth & on my face. HEAVEN - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Until meeting N, I (J) had never enjoyed a blowjob. Now however, I think it is the greatest thing! - Posted from rhpmobile
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blackbig
10 years ago
I had only one successful blow job.. I enjoyed them but it doesn't seem to be enough to get me to the climax.. Any experts there??..😝 If I feel comfortable I will eat a pussy... No questions asked😝 Love to see a woman responding to my gentle tongue manipulation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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dimples4fun67
10 years ago
omg i love giving them ...but a lot of men say some dont give them right,apparently if your good at what you love you will do it well haha.Thinking about gets me excited!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I guess each to there own....but sex isnt sex with out a good bj n deepthroat ;) One who use to hate doing it now loves it with a passion.essp when i can hear n see what pleasure i give :) if you enjoy giving it then your bloody a gueen at it ;) WINK bad experiences, yes can put you off but I think...dont let it put you off for life. Enjoy sucking ladys ....xxoo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh bloody heaven and words cant decribe it can be better than sex.....spot on bonafiderider !!!! Esp BJ QUEEN :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My Last two encounters both happened this way. When for the first time we met after the usual kiss and hug and fondling intro session , both the ladies without prompting or any hint what so ever, got done on their knees and dropped my jeans and proceeded to suck . how uncanny , cant wait to see if a hat trick is around the corner .
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3some79379
10 years ago
yeah i agree with koko.i luv sucking my mans cock but not my ex.my new husband has a lovely n tasty cock n i just luv it watching him in pleasure as my tongue rolls round his yummy knob.i cant get enough.xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
how an oral fixation appears after two glasses of Moet
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love blow jobs! love that hard cock on a guy and having in it my mouth it just turns me on and knowing that a guys loves it turns me on more!! if I had a man I would give it to him day and night! LOL my friends hate them and doesn't understand why I love them ... I say its about the technique etc.. and always better when a guy is nicely shaved Mmmmmm bring on the cock :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
The lady however doesn't like giving them. I probably haven't had one for 10 years at least. Probably closer to 15 years I would say. Early on in our relationship she wasn't particularly keen on the idea, she just didn't like the whole idea of it, particularly the taste of cum. So it's just something that doesn't happen. I'm happy to give oral to her, but I just don't get it in return. I know it's not a massive deal in the whole spectrum of the relationship, but every now and then, yes I'd like one. A little variety goes a long way.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'staypla' My Last two encounters both happened this way. When for the first time we met after the usual kiss and hug and fondling intro session , both the ladies without prompting or any hint what so ever, got done on their knees and dropped my jeans and proceeded to suck . how uncanny , cant wait to see if a hat trick is around the corner . You need to get the introductions out of the way early.Dick, this is AnnieAnnie, this is dick Now, get to know each other........
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
After reading your profile, there is MUCH I could say that may explain part of what the situation is. But i'll simply say....... if you imagine a world where she (who clearly doesn't know you're in here) ... is excited about the idea of going down on you.... ... there is a way. But to me it seems that you've resigned yourself to the fact that she isn't going to supply you with what you want.And when you give up..... she long ago sensed it.... and already has. I wish you good luck. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
My favourite thing to hear "you can wake me up that way any day". This fair maiden certainly surprised her knight that night :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd be happy to listen to your thoughts on my issue, but just be to the point, no need to be cryptic. Perhaps this isn't the place to discuss the hows and why, but the simple answer is pretty much how I outlined it, Yes my partner used to give me head early on, though she never enjoyed it and just didn't like doing it and I get that, I won't go pushing her head down there, I don't do that. Trust me when I say, I haven't given up, she will attest to that ;) My profile is saying how I feel, it's got nothing to do with the fact that my partner doesn't enjoy giving me head, and I don't love her any less for that, as I say, it's a small part of the relationship. So as to the OP, is it a big deal? Not really when you weigh it up, but a man can't eat meat and 2 veg every day of his life. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sassynwild1
10 years ago
I love giving headjobs...it makes me soooo hot and horny!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that many women aren't good at them. The best one I had was a recent girlfriend. Funnily enough she was a church girl too. Great technique. Fond memories. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
been fortunate enough to have gotten and given many orals.first for me when I receive it, my cock feels awesome and orgasm is better.No if I give a hotty a bj, I get really turned on as I know I'm going to make him blow and Id try to time my wanking so we can climax together. IMO giving a hotty a bj makes my heart pound like when I was in highschool :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dimples I bet you are just the best kisser and oral lady in Perth.Its always nice just like the tongue for the lady
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RHP User
10 years ago
hehe]
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'pauliiep' hehe] any takers for a quick 69 an maybe a dildo up the ass???
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RHP User
10 years ago
................
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Sassynwild1' I love giving headjobs...it makes me soooo hot and horny!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love what you wrote. I hope to meet someone who loves cock like you do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
😀
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gods, will you take a breath? You're going to give yourself a stroke.
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RHP User
10 years ago
He exploded and went *poof*!
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
The young fella got a bit overexcited and.... popped
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've never been able to cum from oral when I'm standing and have no idea why... Best position for me is sitting leaning back in chair mmmm
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' I've never been able to cum from oral when I'm standing and have no idea why... Best position for me is sitting leaning back in chair mmmm Because the male brain can only do one thing at a time. Brain is overloaded if it has to stand and balance as well as take in the feelings of a good blow job. God, if you were to be standing, breathing and getting a blow job, the overload of an orgasm whilst all that going on would be too much and our brain would implode. Very messy. Women can multi task. They can think about giving a good blowie, absorb the feeling of the vibrator at high speed inside her, plan the family meal a few hours away, plan the weekend tasks that hubby has to do, worry about making that hairdressing appoinment in 15 minutes and...........what the fuck...........my husband has left a pair of dirty socks under the side table. Messy fucker.............I will have to say something when this is finished........... Wish he'd hurry up and come for fuck sake...............my mouth is starting to get sore. Maybe I should think about my dental checkup. Been 7 months now.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Its a case of mental connectivity You haven't, so you believe you cant. Simple as that. I recall one young lady who mentioned something similar to me ....I didn't think I could come standing up...... ..... but she said that after I guided her against a wall in her hallway and dove under her skirt to give her a knee trembler of a licking
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225Special
10 years ago
Quoting 'NewHorizons6376' I personally love to give head. It is a big turn on for me. I don't swallow though.......I gargle....... - Posted from rhpmobile OMG......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks but I always thought I could multi task lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I will say I do miss this girl a lot :( anyway she gave head for the first time and came up with a mouth full I thought she was going to spit ? But noooo she went swish swish in her mouth before swallowing all down... Never before had I been in touch sexually with any one like I was with her.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well Lavucious if you ever need a male to practice on or would like an oral swap I am your man
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree @Youngfitchick - I too am obsessed with sucking a gorgeous cock. My deviant friend has a term for it, he calls it "cock drunk".... I have mentioned this before to site members that I have a very primal reaction to seeing an erect penis...nothing short of wanting to dance for it haha. I love to worship the life out of it. I even tend to get a bit pissy if I am interrupted - leave me alone and let me play goddammit! I always let them choose where/how they want to cum - either way I am a happy camper, I also love cum....the clean up is bonus fun ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree.Its one of the most sexy turn ons for a bloke. Is it the same for the Ladies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did it ever occur to you that the problem may have lain with you & your cock or your attitude or something.!? Did you ever discuss it openly & honestly with her /or ask her why? And unless it was an arranged marriage, who on earth goes into a Contract as serious as Marriage with out working through those important details beforehand? ! Remember, it takes 2 to tango and without hearing both sides of the story you wont get any sympathy , or empathy from me & probably many others too dude. And bitching about someone behind their back says more about you & your Character & Integrity than it does about the other person. Anybody would think that you'd been hard done-by, judging by the way you've whinged about it over the course of multiple posts! Enough already. Move on Mate, I guarantee she has. - Posted from rhpmobile
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