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December 17 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't it most men who see this site as free and easy sex without the intention of meeting anyone for anything more?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am with you Torturedcliche . I find it difficult to find a stayer on here.Would love to explore with someone who wants to get to know me and have "essence" in a relationship instead of mindless sex.Not saying mindless sex is bad ,sometimes you need more ,someone to confide in ,to enjoy times with in and out of the bedroom.I do have second thoughts about this place all the time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you have generalised way too much. People seem to think the probability of a LTR is remote on a site like this as so few are seeking that. Those who are seeking something long term this is probably not the ideal site. The premise of this site is sexual and not romantic...that does not mean that like minded people will not meet up on RHP. The testimonials show just how many relationship are started right here.LC
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well I have a friend who I have been seeing for almost two year and I met him through RHP. For me I feel comfortable speaking opening about sex which is why I couldn't fathom being on a vanilla site. I am looking for ongoing friendships not one off sex. I don't need to waste time looking for that online as a single woman I can go to a sex club if that is what I want. So I agree with you TC.
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
You can meet "someone" just about anywhere but I don't think the odds are better for meeting a long term partner here on a site that caters for people that might not necessarily be in it for the long haul than, say, a site dedicated to people looking for a long term partner. As long as you don't end up being one of those: *** "I thought s/he was THE ONE" "s/he USED me" "all wo/men are just after ONE THING" "they're all fucking LIARS" tragics*** I think you'll do ok on just about any site or even perhaps out there in the big wide real world. xx Sarah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Great point Sarah. I have to say I can count on two hands and maybe a foot the number of times I have seen a male profile that says they are looking for more than FWBs or NSA sex or at least would be open to the idea.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is that considered long term ? I dont know... .....however as much as I agree that this could possibly be the best palce ot meet someone who rocks your sexual requirements/needs/wants ist ...well relationships are based on more than sex (yes, yes they are!!) and accordingly many other issues come into play..and traditionally .... well what you may be seeking in other areas of the relationship dynamics may not be found on this site.. I still believe in Kismet, and what will be, will be... The end
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RHP User
12 years ago
That most dating sites have a huge proportion of men looking for NSA or fwb.. The difference here is that there is a much bigger proportion of men than vanilla sites from what I can gather. Sifting through the chaff here would be harder for girls I guess. Mind you most girls on here, because there is so many guys, tend to be quite fussy because they can be.. No win situation for either sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I entered the Online Dating world having been after a long term highly sexual and open relationship for more than a decade.The Vanilla dating sites i found well,we have heard many times from other ladies here and i am afraid i can only concur with most opinions about them.When i found RHP some 6 years ago i thought Eureka! The PERFECT place to meet a like minded "possibly" long term partner.The Sex stuff is right there out in the open..you already have some idea if you will connect sexually...The Really hard stuff is the relationships...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not necessarily all guys are just after a quick shag and cya later. Don't get me wrong, sometimes a wham bam thank you mam is exactly what the doctor ordered. Other times its a good thing to have a bit of a connection outside the bedroom. This post was more an observation of something that bothered me rather than an indication of exactly what I'm looking for.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Anything is possible. I do tend to think though that the majority of people are on this site looking for the not so permanent. Many have come from long term relationships and are now out for some fun. I did meet my partner on a site similar to this so there is always the chance that the perfect one for you is only just one forum topic away. When it all boils down to it though, the same people are on this site, all the other so called adult sites and the vanilla sites as well. On the adult sites they are looking for nothing serious yet thier profiles read a whole different story on a vanilla site. I guess they feel that the women on here are not the types to introduce to Mother. They havent looked long and hard at the women and compared them....we are the same ones on both sites...just as they are on both. Some get addicted to the on-line fantasy and all the attention and that goes for men as well as women. They find it hard to give up that attention when they may have spent a long time being ignored. It tends to colour a real relationship a bit.
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
I think RHP has more broken people like not 1 bad break up maybe a few, and there beliefs in relationships has really gone out the door. Saying that I've had a great 9 month relationship and a 5 yr relationship off this site, with the best sex I've ever had as well so im not complaining. I'm not wanting a full time partner but a regular FB would be nice as I'm over meeting and chatting only to find out there married or just after a one night fuck.... and i must say I've got great friends off here that I've known for 7+ years and some new ones that im really glad i met as they are people i just clicked with straight away.So RHP can be whatever you want it to be as long as your laughing and fucking along the way .... Happy new year everyone lets hope 2013 is a good one ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the most important part is you learn as you go, and you let it flow. There is no expectation and when there is no expectation its easier to let go. I find I need a day to de touch but then I am good, its just this female hormone after sex which lets me down and not think like a man……bloody hormones. I med some very nice males on here and with some I am still in contact and others are just a one time affair. I think you can find someone you connect with on here, why not the odds are not worth than on Vanilla sites as you call it. I enjoy it…..
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RHP User
12 years ago
The singles looking for casual sex..The marrieds looking for an affair...Those seeking more than sex FWBs and those seeking love and life ... Like others I am on dating sites and find the men there usually borrrrring .. the men I chat with and meet from here are usually open and upfront - yes most want nsa - but those that don't and there are plenty, are just seeking the right one. and if you get it right ......
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes as others have said,anything is possible and many people are on a number of sites.I have met people here who in my everyday life I would never have met. Some have become close friends as we have now actually met even though we live a continent away. I have been on this site since March and while yes it is a ''sex site'' in reality it can be whatever you want it to be.Just enjoy all the experiences that come your way,expect nothing,be open to everything..well you know what I mean.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought the idea was to meet like minded people, I am trying meet someone for NSA sex but that doesn't mean I am not interested in something longer term. I also don't think I am expecting too much to at least be honest in my acceptance of the like minded lady's preferences. Its doesn't have to be hard. pun intended. All together now OOOOHHHH!!!! Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree the good thing about a site like this is that you get to me I guess more "honest" people as there is no stigma about saying whats on your mind. Like many other I have met some great people on my time on this site (on and off over the last 4 years) and still regularly catch and chat. Having said that I find it curious that some people come across shocked that this site is not straight as one of those vanilla sites?
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is never that easy to find a soulmate :). Doesn't mean we should give up trying
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RHP User
12 years ago
do you expect to find a solemate justforfun ,when they are pointing in the wrong direction
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