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Bondage and spanking

June 10 2015

The fine line between pleasure and pain.Now there are many levels in B and D so I am not going into the dynamics of the subject.Simple question ----Who has tried it and found the love itor hated it and ---WHY

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No pain or humiliation was involved only pleasure with a very sensual master. What I loved the most was the total trust factor and being able to let go of all fears. LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In my experience, there are quite a few ppl who use the term "Dom" to describe themselves. Using restraints on a partner or role playing with a colar/leash is far from the real BDSM. Control is done through mind connection.When people continually throw the words "dom and sub" into every statement they make, they are actually far from knowledgeable, or even remotely understand the dynamics of BDSM.In my humble opinion,the most authentic doms are the ones that never label themselves as a dom. After all, its actions not words.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Please refer to my profile, it explains a lot..... I'm a lover of being pushed to see if I can one day find my limits, haven't yet but maybe one day, I like to push myself also and if I'm lucky enough sometimes I find someone who loves to be pushed back..... I have a couple of might fine spankings on my recent trip to Melbourne, so thank you to the lovely Mary, Ralf, for lending me your gorgeous men and Mary, to get my craving meant, it had been a while, love you both.....๐Ÿ’‹

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've dabbled in it a bit - i tend to laugh and mouth off every time the crop hit. Which tends to ruin the role playing aspect of it. Apparently, I sound like someone with a split personality - I laugh, call the other person names and scream in ecstasy, in no particular order or sometimes all at the same time. His poor neighbours must not know whether to call the cops or the mental institution.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Love it!!!! I had the most awesome Dom before I met Woody. It was such a mind release for me. Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No thanks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm still laughing about your age, I have to say you look brilliant for 101 haha and I agree control is about the mind, where are they though? I thought there'd be no shortage of talented control freaks on here haha maybe I scare them or they think I'm too dominant, it also requires invested time and not a lot of guys want to invest that much time, as I keep saying, it's the journey, it's all about the journey that makes getting to the destination soooooo much better sigh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    They're used to make switches. . Take that anyway you want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    with the wife. She was tied up and blindfolded. Slapped her breasts etc and she sucked me as she sat on a dildo. I had one of the most intense climaxes of my life over her face. Hoping to try that again lol ๐Ÿ˜› - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    He is alpha Dom all the way but never once has he or I said that. It's implicit in our interaction, I know exactly what he wants and he knows exactly what I need. Our play is about pushing my boundaries, not necessarily bondage but I definitely get my arse and other parts spanked and slapped. I happily give myself over to him because I leave very invigorated and satisfied. This play allow me to yield to another's pleasure, forget myself and take myself out of my comfort zone๐Ÿ˜Ž My gorgeous hubby once got a shibari master to play with me, who would have thought ropes would be so incredibly erotic. That same night I also got a flogging and so began my love of BDSM :) Mary xx

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    No Lovingit thankyou. Andy Till next time

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Thank you......๐Ÿ˜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nah. I don't like pain. I do like inflicting it though. But not spanking so much. You see them at the clubs and it's spank, spank, spank, spank........ utterly boring!