M32 F29
Both of us feeling unsatisfied
November 14 2018
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Nothing is guaranteed on here And when dealing with another couple, you have four distinct “tastes” to satisfy, not to mention schedules & availability. But occasionally the proverbial “stars align” and all the pieces fall into place. Our advice : Do not push nor put others under pressure. Be patient. Be respectful. Do not feel entitled. Do not have expectations.
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
And whilst you Are on the hunt for couples that are more attractive than you are, perhaps those couples ( who are not into you) have the same superficial priorities with regards their search on here ?
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mango69er
6 years ago
Why dont you both head to the kitchen. And bake yourselfs a humble pie. When its cooled. Have a big slice each. That may help
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why do they need to be more attractive than you? Perhaps its more your age? A lot of couples on here are in tgeir 30s/40s/50s and may be looking for similar. J x
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Having read your profile We feel that there is a sense of urgency and a feeling of “pushyness” with clear time & messsge constraints ( 3 messages max ? ) Another negative (now do not go and change that as it would be dishonest ) “ Safe Sex : Prefer not to say / If required” No indication if you are smokers or not ? The above may put many potential playmates off,
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have met gorgeous couples but finding mutual attraction can be difficult You both look nice but hardly call you in another league Concentrate on meeting genuine people and make a connection Have fun here I am in Bunbury soon but would hate to think I would be superficially judged!
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
A major reason why you are failing to attract couples that are up to your physical standard. It's the mental/emotional standard. Many people here prefer not to be involved with those that are up themselves. Age/maturity may help you one day realise your shortcomings in that area Good luck
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RHP User
6 years ago
You say non judgemental but the rest if the profile says otherwise! The ask me on smoking is an instant no from me lol Age is irrelevant?
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’d add that when a couple isn’t interested, be polite and move on. Sending them abuse throws up some red flags (and gets screen shot and sent as warnings 😉)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Well sadly I think the hot couples that you message don't think your as hot as you think you are. Its not always hot people that have the best sex. After 3 messages dont bother wow we all have busy lives just be a bit patient.
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
LOL Just LOL🤣
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RHP User
6 years ago
...I deliberately dodge things that will most likely piss me off and incredible ego is one of them. Except for mine of course but I fucking have earned it! More later if you want to talk privately. Here are the four key elements in a very deliberate order to make that mystical "connection"? Physical, emotional. mental and spiritual. No this last one is not about religion. Beyond that...expand your expectations and allow people top be people. Just a quick look at the pic of the lady here...I'd thrash her ass and everything else right through the mattress but then you'd be lonely. CM who would pond that woman and leave you sucking jet fumes!
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
A looks arms race..... how appealing There are only two reasons you’re not attracting the ”type” youre seeking Can you guess what they are.......
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RHP User
6 years ago
You can run your Win 10 spiel-chucker over what I wrote and correct it it you like? I dumped my toy Saab Turbo over the edge of a "shit fer" road and really really do love this medication! No, you can NOT buy my medication. CM who hopes that bad is good and we all go to heaven!
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MissRedFox
6 years ago
Beautiful people problems..... I'm probably "not in your league" so cant help you Good thing the people in my league keep me pretty happy XX
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Giocomo
6 years ago
Correct, You are wasting your time, and you are doomed
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blinks28
6 years ago
"more attractive than us" well we all know attraction is very subjective... very much so.. from all us "less attractive people" on here.. we wish you luck on your arduous journey of to find that impossible task of finding someone more attractive than yourselves.. cough cough p.s i hear people magazine are sending out applications for the most beautiful people list.
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PassionFreaks
6 years ago
I read it as the OP would like to meet attractive couples but the OP are the ones not in the league of those attractive couples 🤔. Which l get birds of a feather tend to swing together. Considering the amount of people that have "very attractive" in their profiles which is wanky at best, and the OP doesn't l can only assume they have worded it wrong. Ms PF
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PassionFreaks
6 years ago
Missing word 🙄
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Yep you may be right. It can be read both ways. Such is the power/weakness of the written word. Maybe the OPs can set us in the right direction and a few of us can apologize?
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PassionFreaks
6 years ago
But re-read it and their profile so hoping they just worded it wrong.
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MissRedFox
6 years ago
If it has been misinterepred then sure I'll apologize Sorry I assume two attractive people were looking for other attractive people Or should I apologize for thinking they were attractive Regardless, at the heart of the post is a search for people based on attractiveness, so would it really surprise the op others were judging them on the criteria.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I appreciate all the positive replys a few people realy wanted to help us and im amazed at the feedback thanks for being judgemental of my ego i never realy understood what an ego is untill now so thanks very much . I would like to say that we will change our profile more suited to us we are only impatient as there is alot of time wasting and we try so hard for things that come to the day they dont show
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nightingale8
6 years ago
Ah, the online would is brutal. I read the OP as "we can't find people hotter than us and seeing so many tantalising people who don't want us is frustrating". Good luck x
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totally_normal
6 years ago
To attract more attractive couples .... you need to have one of the following: A super hot body A fuck-off out of this world amazing personality Lots of money or power Just like in the vanilla single world. If you don't have any of these things you are doomed to be stuck with people of simiar attractiveness as yourselves like the rest of us.
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madotara69
6 years ago
So it's the let down when your all fizzy with arousal pumping into your systems, the girl thinks the guys hot as, the guy thinks the girls hot as and all the wonderful sexually charged things are but a moment ever so close and nothing could top the excitement feeling so sexy, awesome.... Nothing. If you speak with the woman of the couple, on the phone... your chances will greatly improve and in the meantime maybe relax with the idea these hot fuckers are rejecting you because you're not good looking enough to them, 'they' is where this little pickle gets murky. Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
6 years ago
you're all fizzy...guy's hot as... girl's hot as
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m so glad I came here & read this post today! I really needed a laugh and this gave me a good chuckle. You should probably just give up. From what I’ve seen of this site the people aren’t that shallow and superficial, so they’re probably put off my the fact that you are. Physical looks will only get you so far...
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
There are actually a fair number of private parties, private groups and invite list only play events that require quite lean and attractive individuals, some of them also preferring a younger crowd. You might try finding them via the events section or group profiles, and giving them a shot. The rest of us mum and dod-bods are out of that league :P
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OutdoorFit
6 years ago
There are plenty of sites to choose from and attitude and patience are as sexy as looks. I try to jump out of my comfort zone as much as I can. Try an older couple or a less attractive couple. You may be surprised with the results. Swinging is about connections. Not looks. You're only doomed if you remain rigid. Rigid only works for pricks. : )
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RHP User
6 years ago
Attraction is exactly that. You are ether attracted to someone or you're not. You can't force people to be attracted to you.
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swingalingson
6 years ago
In a single guy. Please PM me or send me a flirt. Swinga
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2kinky4u
6 years ago
...is not a slogan for this place you'll notice. But "Everybody's doing it" is the blurb.And what exactly is 'It' ? Well, that's not defined. But whatever your 'It' is...is not doing it by the sounds of it.Your profile is pleasant and modern. Your pics are lovely...Don't pay attention to the anti-smoking lobby ever present on here. It may have something to do with your location or even your modest list of fetishes?The fact you're on here allows for all sorts of possibilities...
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HotNightsGC
6 years ago
You say in your profile that “size, age or looks doesn’t matter” ???? But it does actually matter ??? If you’re meeting couples and you’re possibly giving the impression that you aren’t sure of what you want, it’s going to be pretty obvious to others. Apart from that, we can’t help you as we’re obviously not in your league (tongue in cheek).
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inspirit
6 years ago
Falls of my attractive perch. Why dont you two get to some greet n meets or some swingers clubs. You will be surprised at just how some stunners are not attractive.
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Deep_Love
6 years ago
Go to meet and greets and events! We have met all of our fantastic friends this way
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why not instead of couples try a single male or female you might get a surprise
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RHP User
6 years ago
So we have been talking to these 2 people for for about a week now everything had been going good until matt wanted us all to message each another separately OK so that went pair shape straight away as he was getting jelouse and very pushy and forcefull with the messages wanting to much to soon now the real point behind this message is when we tried to call it off he became very abusive and very racist comments were made to my girls Friend of 10 years now we are disgusted of the remarks he made implying becoz we are aboriginal we wouldnt have a chance with couples on here and that we are too unhygienic for him when we have never met before just a warning to other couples out there she is a nice woman he is a total loser and a racist beware
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RHP User
6 years ago
In my humble opinion; get over yourselves.
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