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Boundaries

June 21 2013

The concept of boundaries is interesting to me. I feel that i've not really been challenged in this area, i've never come up against something that i was unwilling to try. (ofcourse there are a few that i suspect i might not like i.e Scat play, but i've never been exposed to it)   I'm wondering how many people have discovered they've crossed boundaries they thought they had, only to learn that they weren't really boundaries at all?   In other words...have you ever done things you thought you wouldn't.....and enjoyed it?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes... The one you mentioned!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and yesmeeting strangers in strange places when I travel , being open to things can also take risk so you have to take that risk sometimes. It could backfire on you though,I will never do anal, no matter what the press from others to convince me to do that, I am just a bloody anal clean freak,yes going to swingers I went the first time for a laugh with some girls from work, and found I liked to watch,I never thought bi men would interest me but now I am on rhp I am not so judgemental and want to see boys in action.so every day is a sexual learning curve for me, even at my age I can learn new tricks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    my boundaries shift. For a long time I never thought I'd enjoy sex at all. Each person I've met brings something different to the table/bed/spa/floor/truck/TV table etc. I'm not sure where my boundaries were to begin with, let alone where they might be now. I'll just keep having fun finding out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I haven't crossed a boundary that I didn't enjoy breaking...here's to crossing many more...now where did Bruno run off to....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We find our boundaries are changing all the time, getting more refined as time goes on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    shit Something I thought I would never do as I knew it by another name - but someone not too long ago asked if I could count to 5......I had nfi what he meant, until that evening

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't know... But I know there are definite things I wouldn't try. I wouldn't be a human toilet, I don't think I would go for a public humiliation (unless in a controllabled environment), I wouldn't try knife play, blood play, age play, the needle play doesn't interest me but would be great to watch. I haven't tried ropes but watching someone else getting tied up is boring... But I would do it I suppose. I am not really into very rough sex either I don't think..... Not sure if you call them boundaries or just things I have no interest in. They don't turn me on. Know what I mean.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    5 men? 5 fingers.... Fisting? Am I right? That is still on my list to do... Almost got there once. Mind you I have fisted other girls before just not been the fistee. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    By that I mean the elaborate Rope work which takes a long time to do. Otherwise I love being tied up! :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was barely aware of some of the things I have tried in the last year. Who knew that two cocks would fit that easily? Now I'm not even sure if hree will be a boundary.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MissPoppins' shit Something I thought I would never do as I knew it by another name - but someone not too long ago asked if I could count to 5......I had nfi what he meant, until that evening what she's having ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But not 5 men fisting me (squeezes legs together and grimaces) only 1 but he was superb Quoting 'Meeka100' 5 men? 5 fingers.... Fisting? Am I right? That is still on my list to do... Almost got there once. Mind you I have fisted other girls before just not been the fistee. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like the word fisting. What's wrong with it?

  • leeroybbad

    leeroybbad

    11 years ago

    I've led such a sheltered sex life so far, and way keen to explore boundaries. Had fantasy about pissing... just haven't met the right person yet I guess. The same goes with fisting, would be amazing to have such an open and honest sexual relationship with a woman for her to let me give her that pleasure..

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    Signing up to RHP and have been meeting different men for NSA intimacy (even though not many) in the last 6 months was definitely something I had never thought I would ever do before year 2012!!! But I don't regret crossing this boundary, because my experiences gained on here are a great eyes opener and I've learned a lot about life, relationship and men!!! A boundary that worths crossing I would say!!! 😋- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You two are so narrow minded, I am surprised that your boudaries haven't refined to the point of choking you...Actually, choking requires someone who whats to push the boundaries...Quoting 'Futurenomads' We find our boundaries are changing all the time, getting more refined as time goes on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    hows that for a new name for it.   I had a guy pin me and grab my throat, and god that turned me on, but I trust this guy. Big strong powerful man.   I am a tad sensitive down there so to many fingers would spoil the broth. but I have seen other women that would love it, they get so wet and excited that the fingers can glide in easy.   I would however like to try two cocks at once ,but they would have to be smallish me thinks.   RHP is like Pandoras box of sexuality ,pardon the pun   and coops if I went to bali, then that scat play people would have that the way home on the plane! would that be the mile high scatt club?   I shudder to think

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    hows that for a new name for it.   I had a guy pin me and grab my throat, and god that turned me on, but I trust this guy. Big strong powerful man.   I am a tad sensitive down there so to many fingers would spoil the broth. but I have seen other women that would love it, they get so wet and excited that the fingers can glide in easy.   I would however like to try two cocks at once ,but they would have to be smallish me thinks.   RHP is like Pandoras box of sexuality ,pardon the pun   and coops if I went to bali, then that scat play people would have that the way home on the plane! would that be the mile high scatt club?   I shudder to think

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'anythingrightnow' You two are so narrow minded, I am surprised that your boudaries haven't refined to the point of choking you...Actually, choking requires someone who whats to push the boundaries...Oooh choke me Daddy........... I've been a baaaad girl, I have been abusing my toys all day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    my personal boundaries have always been flexible, & I'll often try something once just too see what it feels like, a guy once told me he could put objects down the pee bit, I was so excited & turned on he trusted me & shared that with me that I asked him to show me....oh what a fun night, I then felt comfortable enough to try a few things, def broke some boundaries for me. I think boundaries are important, for me those boundaries differ which each sexual partner, trust and intimacy are most important, & a personal connection with the person will determine how flexible im willing to be :-) my only no is anal play, have tried just not my thing- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I like the word fisting. What's wrong with it? I really don't. I'm quite sensitive to words, maybe it's just a bit too close to fistula for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...and surely, they're your own.