RHP

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Brand new to this, what makes a profile stand out

May 09 2015

I am very very new to this( this is the she ) my partner in crime not so new but not overly experienced. He made the profile and there are some photo on our profile BUT what kind of photos are people looking for when looking at profiles? Face photos, photos together, photos together intimately, genital????? I'm sure this has been asked repeatedly over time, so Tia 😊😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but so have many other topics, its like a merry go round, Tia. Most people said face pics, because you do like to see who you are chatting to. Body shots are good too, genital shots are appreciated more in PGs. That seems to be the general consensus when this is asked? But....everyone is different. No nos are cock shots in bad lighting (some appear green? ) and photos taken with a dirty or untidy background. I think someone said once there was a pic with a pair of jocks with skidmarks on them in the photo,,,,,hmmm. For me personally, a smiling face, with a handsome cock in the private galleries, yes, thank you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Oh my... Really??? I think for me face pictures for sure, and body ones. Will have to have a talk to the other half about putting more photos up. I don't mind cock pictures but some people seem to overkill it, and/or think so highly of their anatomy that they assume everyone will 'love' it too 😂 We so far only have photos of me up so will have to rectify that. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why not have a look around at other couples' profiles? I think you'll see quickly enough what you like and dislike, what works and what doesn't, etc. One tip I'd give you is to have pics of both if you and preferably even some of you together. A pet peeve of many here is that couples often only have pics of the woman. Good luck and have fun x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks for that, we do have photos of us together both casual and intimate, I've read a few of the forums which mention that a lot of the couples only have photos of the her and not the him, and I'm not sure why that is.. He put this together for us and told me to have a look around and see what needs tweaking..! I would myself steer clear of couples with only her in photos too, seems a lot of guys on here state they are a couple when they aren't.. Nervous but excited😁😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Certainly works for me......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    thank you, can't take the credit for the profile, that's all down to him. Very articulate isn't he 😏 now to get him to thrown more photos up - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Lots and lots of women are guests on RHP and I can tell you right now that I can't view any of your pictures because they are greyed out. So as a guest I can't see any photos you have put up , you mention nothing about the male half of you on your profile, so another thing which makes me loose interest, and all you mention is all about you and nothing about what you can offer to people joining you. Harsh... But you know, you don't know unless somebody tells you I guess.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    he is all about me not him, he's out and about with his kids atm so will talk to him about it. He is pretty open minded but he's about fulfilling my fantasies.. Not sure why you can't see photos. Again will have to talk to him. I know what I want and what I don't want ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The explicit pictures of your vagina in your public gallery certainly make your profile stand out

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Always tackle the issues us mere males cant.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    YOU. So... Whatever best represents you as a couple; that's what I would want to see. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I didn't think my vag was all that. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Vulva. :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Meander,I guess I am not gynocelogicaly savy ...will cunt do ? XxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Take pics that you'd like to see yourself. If you find a couple with the same taste in what kind of pictures they find appealing, you'll already have one thing in common. Have fun with it too, we had some great times taking our photos. x Ms Shout

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We'll tackle the issues if you guys issue the tackles. Fair? OP, Freya is right about the pussy shots, they stand out. Thing with genital pics is that they turn many people right off, while others really go for them. It's certainly a way of weeding out people who don't share your taste in pics, though perhaps a bit more than you want to. Leaving the explicit stuff in a private gallery, to be shown on request, is a safer option I think.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Us males are always ready and willing to get the tackle out. Ready or not...... Sometimes it can cause issues. Sort of becomes the chicken and the egg Do the tackle come before the issues or the issues before the tackle. Personally, I'm the the type that sucks the tackle and then let them fuck my issues away. By the time they finish, im usually ga ga.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    have your face in your naked pictures that way if your pictures are taken and they can be or someone does a screen shot you can always say that is not me. alas I had a particular necklace on most of my shots that was unusual so yep you guessed it, umm no thats not me mr Post man, there are thousands of necklaces like this, and no the only think you can stick in my box is the bloody mail.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Absolute GOLD!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    thanks for the input.. Was just seeing what's people's preferences were😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm just looking to get started.. Trying to find people with similar fantasies! Help - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    … would be a mistake, setting you up for failure and a whole world of disappointment. As I see it, a profile should speak for itself in terms of who you are as a person and attracting what you’re looking for (based on your preferences) as opposed to what you think others are looking for. Ultimately, if someone is turned off by what they see (be it pics , written section or both etc.), then that’s a bonus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We talked a little bit about the profile last night and he pointed out that if people can't see photos maybe they should cough up and pay for the account so they can view photos, and that our profile pretty much States pretty clearly what I/we desire if one takes time to read thru the whole profile.. As for other photos we haven't gotten that far yet. It's a 2 day old profile, so add to it when we get time to talk about it properly.. Your right it is up to us what we choose to disclose 😊😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Women don't have to cough up for membership and most of is are happy not to see close ups of genitalia. Sorry to say, you will have to work very hard to find women that are interested and with the attitude you have displayed above I predict you will not be able to find any women. Blokes yes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    99% of women wait for people to message them. And they don't have to wait long as lots of women are spoilt for choice here. Therefore you will have to make the effort to contact the women if you actually want to meet any. So you are sending a message to a woman, who has a good chance of being a guest, and she will not be able to see any photos. So amongst all the other messages she gets there is a good chance that she will discount you straight away. But, don't take my word for it.... I am sure you will figure that out for yourself over time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Agree with Meeka. I think you'll find plenty of guys, but when it comes to bi women looking for couples you'll be one of hundreds looking for a few dozen. Without pics (as indeed most women I think are quests) and a profile that doesn't exactly read like anything is in it for them (because you will be the centre of attention), I doubt you'll get positive responses. This is honest and well-meant advice from two gals who've been here for some years, do with it what you will. :-) As for memberships, you pay less when you're a long-term member. I pay 6 bucks a month to see eeeeeeeeeverything. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What I say is 100% accurate. You will see many couples complaining that they have been unable To meet any women after months of trying. So hey, if you were a single woman and read your own profile and think it would appeal to you. Well... Look, I don't think it will appeal. Soz.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's too appeal to both men and woman, either way I'm happy, it's reflects is both, just got to sort photos out :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    10 years ago

    There is unlimited free porn available online. How valuable is your genital close-ups I well let you to decide. In my opinion there are 2 main objectives of pictures. How it differentiate you from others. Obviously face is our most unique feature and our minds are programmed to feel face. The second objective is to verify how well your definition of body type matches with their definition. For many this gives some idea how similar or different is your thinking from them.