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Breadcrumbing

October 20 2017

I'd like to know if people are experiencing this and of they do, how the deal with it? Definition: Receiving sporadic but suggestive text messages. The texter may be attempting to boost their ego by keeping you interested with the minimum amount of effort possible.

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  • megz85g

    megz85g

    7 years ago

    Quite often from guys I think are trying to catfish - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Message and sexting. One hand on keyboard, other on dick. They cum and zip up till the following week or month when partner is out. One way to silence them is to show interest and suggest a meet. Guarantees a few weeks of non activity. Their next step is to plan a meet, but of course never show. Busy at home wanking out the fantasy. Time wasters. Low life hapless wonders. Half man half child with small balls. Did l mention that l don't like the fuckers. Oxygen thieves..... I feel better now

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Very good conversation that boarders on flirty with lots of compliments and then silence for a few weeks before it starts again

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Breadcrumbing Perfect title. Seagulls but in reverse. Seagulls throwing us the crumbs. Then squawking. They exhibit the same mental capacity as seagulls at least. Fuckers......

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Step away from the keyboard.......

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    7 years ago

    Sounds like preparation for a nice prawn cutlet or lamb with a rosemary and mint rub.... Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    Have you ever met the woman? If not, you may be mistaken that its a female.

  • MrPlayful

    MrPlayful

    7 years ago

    Pretty sure I had one of them once... though never found out in person of course lol. Plenty of chat and it was pretty constant over a number of weeks. They were a couple who were talking to our couple profile, but anytime a suggestion was made to meet up, there was no response. Not a yes or a no, a reasonable reply, a reason that they were too busy, or even a shitty unbelievable excuse. Nothing at all, they just ignored the question and kept talking. I lost interest after I worked out it was going nowhere, but “they” didn’t, so each time they messaged after that I just repeated my previous question which was pleasant and a natural progression after so many messages. After the third repeat they didn’t message again... though I did notice the profile pic on the mobile app a few months later and clicking the profile saw it was now a single guy. If the profile isn’t verified then you never know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Keep u on the hook. Pretty std stuff. If someone does it to me after a ordinary encounter, say a few weeks later, I just ignore it the text or message. If it wasn't good enough for us to make contact the next day... then it's never going to be good enough to repeat. Someone I've never met? Well.... I might play with them a bit. I love filthy talk & text, send them a few random kinky pics. So it can be amusing playing them along, see if I can shock them. Doesn't always work tho. Haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    This with a woman on POF, we haven't been sending nudes or anything and the conversation has been more of an intellectual than sexual nature, if it was with a woman on Rhp and been more sexual in nature id probably dismiss it as a fake

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Seagulls but in reverse. Seagulls throwing us the crumbs. Then squawking. They exhibit the same mental capacity as seagulls at least. Fuckers...... Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Time wasters. Low life hapless wonders. Half man half child with small balls. Did l mention that l don't like the fuckers. Oxygen thieves..... I feel better now How about quoting from My Best Friends Wedding? They can be "pond scum". No, actually, "lower. The pus... that infects the mucus... that cruds up the fungus... that feeds on the pond scum". :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    mmm sounds very exitic. I'm interested 😉

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    7 years ago

    This is gonna sound all very old fashioned, but, it's pretty effective against these kind of communications Give them a call 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Oh it’s so common... I have this thing that everyone I have ever dated, they get back in contact, sometimes weeks, months or even years later. Just in the last week a guy that I had a thing with a year ago. And my first boyfriend from when I was 16! I just find it really strange.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I believe the term for the behaviour you're referring to is 'Submarining'. They always pop up again :) I get that a lot too. Bread crumbing is different.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Okay, besides the fact I only ever call my boyfriend or my mother, imagine calling the breadcrumber/person. Wouldn't they shit themselves. Haha Bit sad that it would never have occurred to me. Sign of the times?? 😲

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Exitic? 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well I don't know about boosting their ego but yes I have one throwing me crumbs atm mildly entertained the thought of reconnecting but I don't think I will. I believe he's keeping me in reserve, backup fuck, and that's not terribly exciting for me. Good as he once was, he took his eye off the ball. No crumbs for me, I want the whole fucking loaf 😛

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And here was me thinking that was giving a sailor a gobby... lol But back on topic: Ugh breadcrummers! Just respond to them 3 months later with a “who are you?” Text 3 months later 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' And here was me thinking that was giving a sailor a gobby... lol Surface vessels are called 'skimmers', and submarines are called 'gazundas'

  • compressor

    compressor

    7 years ago

    I am not here to waist anyone's time and would love to meet up. no games on here

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Fancy titles given to fuckn mind games more like...I wouldn't waste my time with this BS...if I sense mind games I just flic that person off, not worth the hassle because once someone displays this behaviour it wont stop.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I dont take the online world too seriously so don't get bent out of shape by people who play games. Its all part of the experience IMO. If you don't have expectations then you won't be disappointed. People can only fuck with your mind if you're taking this ride seriously ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Too true. In my experience, if I let them get away with it, the behavior is likely to repeat at some point, exactly like no shows. They beg and plead for another meet, then don't show up for the next one?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Sharonski' I dont take the online world too seriously so don't get bent out of shape by people who play games. Its all part of the experience IMO. If you don't have expectations then you won't be disappointed. People can only fuck with your mind if you're taking this ride seriously ;) Read between the lines...im not talking exclusively about the online gig, I talking in broad terms, and no I'm not getting bent out of shape I just don't see the point in contacting people months or years later as some people have commented on earlier in the thread ...end your shet amicably, balls up and move on is my point...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    How does that saying go?Fool me one once shame on you, fool me twice ...

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    If you are aware it's a mind game, it's no longer a game. It's when you are caught unaware, is when you are caught. And if you think you are too smart to be caught, you are just fruit that is higher on the tree. You'll be picked later rather than sooner. I don't subscribe to macho bs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Yes, exactly 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    This> "I don't subscribe to macho bs" Leaving the bs off, I do subscibe to macho. Love it, sexy as hell 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' If you are aware it's a mind game, it's no longer a game. It's when you are caught unaware, is when you are caught. And if you think you are too smart to be caught, you are just fruit that is higher on the tree. You'll be picked later rather than sooner. I don't subscribe to macho bs If I'm reading into your assumption correctly ...nothing "macho" about my point of view, i know the difference between playful flirting or seduction as opposed to mind games. Every apple farmer knows the best fruit is at the top of the tree...you have to make the effort to climb up and get it, otherwise the apple farmer is taking his cart home full of wrinkly tasteless old prunes...hot tip here peeps...climb that tree!

  • MissRedFox

    MissRedFox

    7 years ago

    Why people engage in this sort of behaviour but since they waste enough of my time I'm not going to spend further time analysing them any more than I really need to. I must admit sometimes I realise Im never going to meet a particular person but if I'm enjoying the exchange I'll continue it because hey I'll admit - I enjoy the online company. But it can be frustrating as a genuine (and I believe I am quite fun to hang out with) foxy lady to have to spend so much time messaging and still not be able to find decent reliable people to play with. XX

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Not so much about the Breadcrumbing, that's fairly easy to workout and sort. But general mind games such as catfishing etc, your too good for that attitude won't spare you the angst in the longrun. It's a part of being human

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Not so much about the Breadcrumbing, that's fairly easy to workout and sort. But general mind games such as catfishing etc, your too good for that attitude won't spare you the angst in the longrun. It's a part of being human Lucky I'm not human, more part man-part sexbot....now I'm of for a surf, need to get my mind of All Black defeat to Wallabies last night...enjoy the day peeps...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    For all your feedback.. just reinforces my thoughts. Enjoy the rest of your weekends 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    We have found in our short time on RHP, that there is a load of big ballsy talk (particularly from single guys, who, lets face it, are the overwhelming majority!!) early on. Then when you try to arrange a meet......... fuck all!! We thought that horny single guys would have jumped at the chance to partake in a no strings spit roast of a wet wife, but sadly the ones she likes lack commitment...... We are about to can our subscription due to endless tyre kicking and very little actual action........ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'shhhitsasecret' We have found in our short time on RHP, that there is a load of big ballsy talk (particularly from single guys, who, lets face it, are the overwhelming majority!!) early on. Then when you try to arrange a meet......... fuck all!! We thought that horny single guys would have jumped at the chance to partake in a no strings spit roast of a wet wife, but sadly the ones she likes lack commitment...... We are about to can our subscription due to endless tyre kicking and very little actual action........ - Posted from rhpmobile ...It's pretty much a waste of time being on here (read my profile for my experience/thoughts on that) except the forum is great entertainment for insomniacs. I only stick around to keep reading everyone's thread comments. Some comments are very insightful and intelligent and others have me LMAO. All the best to everyone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    OMG is this what it is really called!!! I love it and thank god I haven't had it too much on here!!I get a lot of it on messenger on Facebook though.Ghosting I though it was called.Nice to know lolCertainly does say a lot for profile verification.

  • smooth_gal

    smooth_gal

    7 years ago

    I've notice sone just love exchanging mails then swapping pics but when it comes to meeting and etc it's just way too much of excuses. I find it really annoying and wish there was a way to know it as it waste my time in Perth since I have limited play time here 😟😟 - Posted from rhpmobile