M42
Breaking taboos
September 26 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
How would you feel if your partner showed an interest in being with a transsexual Or they confessed to you they've been with a transsexual? It would not worry me as trans-genders are humans with the same emotions and feelings as any other human being. So what if partner had been with a transsexual/gender - I'm not going to hold that against them. Or if partner had desires or attraction to a transsexual/gender. I mean who am I to judge two adult people? Hummm I am curious...Lets be honest here OP, why are your questions directed mainly at the ladies?? Has your partner come to you and showed interest in someone or they have confessed they have been with a transsexual?? Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said..!! My point exactly... Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
intersting topic OP and would be even more interested to know why you ask and what your answer would be? For me (female), I am obviously a little more "vanilla" than most on here and would not be into it at all if my husband came home saying he wanted to be with a transgendered person. And knowing him, I think it would be a cold day in hell when Id have to be concerned about such an issue. For me, being with a TG/TS/CD has never held any appeal or attraction. Following topic with great interest though. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally. I look at them as confused souls . You are either a male or female ,but that's just my opinion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nope I very much doubt it is getting more accepted in society. You go ask the average woman in the street if she minded if her husband/lover/BF was into trannies and I am sure their eyes would bug out of their head. I am assuming that you are into women with male parts?? Have I got that right? I think most vanilla muggle women would not like their men to be interested in cocks whether they are wearing a frock or not. if you want to confess to your girlfriend or future girlfriends OP I would try and gauge how open minded they are first.
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RHP User
10 years ago
People are people whats taboo about meeting people
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Cazz61
10 years ago
I wouldn't mind at all so long as I could join in or watch
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RHP User
10 years ago
as a trans woman ,,,i cant see the problem ,,,,,,,would she condemm you for having been with a woman with a phsical disability ,,,,,,,,,??????? after all ,,,isnt that we trans woman are diagnosed to be ??????
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Is there are reason as to why you look at Transgenders are confused lost souls, Bella?? Not holding it against you as you do have a right to post, just wanting to know why you think that. Just curious... Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
And also like EB's post. I would have no issues with it at all. Transgenders are people too. I said once before that to be with one is to have the best of both worlds. In actual fact, a transgender HAS the best of both worlds. Maybe we are the confused souls? At least transgenders know who they really are. Well, I would love to grow a penis for a day. I wouldn't let it out of my hand for a second. Can't imagine how anyone with a penis is able to get any work done lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Girls your both amazing and thanks for replying.. I defiantly agree with you Meeka the majority of people still find non vanilla relationships confronting:( I find it hard to comment about attraction because for me it's something that is just there without taboo. I'm attracted to the female form be it trans or straight. I can appreciate the beauty of the male form but it doesn't inspire feelings of attraction in me.. For me it's all about the femininity and sexuality of a woman, Trans or straight both are nurturing and passionate sexual creatures. With a trans woman having a touch of masculinity to add a bit of spice to an already perfect design... Nice to get a woman's perspective thanks girls...
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RHP User
10 years ago
It took Mr PC 5 years to 'come out' about his fantasies of being with trans gurrls and sine then we've both had lots of fun meeting and playing with mtf trans people as we have with men, women and groups :) Everyone is special in their own way.... PC
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well, society is you and me, not someone else. The problem stems from those who wish to tell you what you should be thinking, or what your morals should be. Interesting your comment is related specifically to transsexuals and not te generalistic basket of transgender, that shows you understand the differences between the labels, an often vexed subject for some on here. Crossdressers, transvestites dress for pleasure, shemales want to keep their penis, but transsexuals live in the wrong body and want to correct it. I read somewhere on this ste that society only reads the headlines before making an opinion, each to their own but transexuals. there for the grace of god go you or I, or someone we love.
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Chillihoney
10 years ago
or maybe I'm simply attracted to men who are a little more open minded/perverted/devious etc? I appreciate that they feel comfortable enough with me to share these desires and/or secrets. Even I get off on watching "ladyboy, shemale" porn ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'BellaRH' Personally. I look at them as confused souls . You are either a male or female ,but that's just my opinion. - Posted from rhpmobile Let's round them all up and get them into some sort of re-training program until they conform to your narrow definition of right and wrong shall we? Interestingly, the high rate of mental health problems in the transgender community (including depression, anxiety, substance abuse and suicide) are generally considered to be related, not to their transgender status, but to the social and cultural responses to their transgenderism. When you look at it that way, maybe it's society that needs to change and not the person who hurts no one else by identifying with a gender different to the one assigned by their chromosomes.... To the OP, I wouldn't have a problem with it at all if one of my partners had been or wanted to be with a transgendered person. Is it becoming more socially acceptable? I doubt it. Intolerance and bigotry doesn't seem to be becoming any less popular....
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
Spot on foxy and Meeks and couldn't agree more with both your posts. :-) Bella, your certainly entitled to your point of view even if I don't agree with it. Happy to be corrected (songbird :-) ) but I would have thought living in the trans closet would be making you feel lost as compared to coming out to everyone and being proud and open as to who you really are both inside and out. Cheers W. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
can certainly say im not a lost soul anymore ,,,,,,,,,,,,i was before i started transitioning ,,,,,,,,,,,yes coming out of the closet was the best thing i ever did ,,,,im loud n proud to be a transgender person ,,,,,,n have found acceptance every were i go ,,,,,,,,love n kisses to everyone xxxxxxxxxx catherine
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RHP User
10 years ago
ive always been kean on transgender experiences I started Fred by taking him to a massage and helping TG massage him Now he is fine with it and we've had several excellent times. It's great for me an extra cock and breasts in one package haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Maybe it is you that is the lost soul, life isn't always that clear cut for many people. Until you open your mind, your heart and listen to someone story, their struggles, you will probably never know.......💋 To answer your question OP, wouldn't worry me at all. Getting the chance in life to meet, socialize, talk with, listen to, get to know, play with, learn from and enjoy the company of people from all walks of life, regardless of their sexual orientation, their choices, their preferences, then that's what's it's all about......💋
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
You are a truly beautiful woman, who has taught me so much, answered my questions without hesitation and shared your story with me. I'm regretful for having the opportunity to get to know you...butterfly kisses for you my friend...💋
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
While we don't necessarily agree with Bellas comments of being a "lost soul" but please explain why their vehement disdain for transgender experimentation makes them closed minded?? It's closed minded to judge in any way shape and form is it not?? Sooooo; pot kettle. It's way easier to run with the masses and jump on bandwagons of political correctness and agreeance. Cudos for them to actually have the backbone to say "no we don't like". We will admit that we've had mates that have had inadvertent and drunken interludes with "ladyboys" on vacation etc and they continue to be joked and taken the piss out of because of that. If every single sexual act was accepted and became the norm how fricken boring would that be..... Why does everything have to be accepted? Why do we all feel obliged to embrace EVERYTHING in life, be it sexually or otherwise. Sorry to get off topic OP but it just shits me when people attack others for having the strength to go against the grain and state it loud and proud. Proceed😊 Mrs😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
About past loves,if the person is interested in me I could care less who they were with in the past...I loathe how we categorise people,sexual orientation,gender.,race...and how people are exoticised because they are seen as being different and they are ticked of someone's fuckit list....just another way we distance someone from their humanity xxQ
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
As long as it was a respectful relationship between consenting adults, who cares.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Am I missing the point? The Topic tags that the OP has put in are threesomes, Thailand and Transexxuals. So to me he isn't talking about a past love or relationship. He is talking about having or wanting to have threesomes or hoping that the current GF won't mind if he has sex with transexuals. Is that how you are all reading it. WildSong, I am an absolute shocker every time someone talks about transsexuals, transgender, etc I have to google the terms because I have forgotten the difference. I know it's appalling. But it's mainly because I just take people at face value. If someone presents themselves as a female well that's good enough for me I am not intersted in all the details. I also think that people that have fully transitioned do not have to tell anyone about it and they are not obligated to tell potential lovers either. It's nobodies business but theirs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If they had stated that they had no problem with them, but it wasn't their cup of tea I doubt anyone would've batted an eyelid. It was the dismissal of a very real phenomena into people just being confused, lost souls that irked me (obviously I can only speak to my reaction). There's a huge difference between "no we don't like it" and "no it doesn't exist"
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RHP User
10 years ago
You take the piss and mock your friends because of some sexual act? How very... Just plain awful really. I would like to welcome you to this century. LMAO!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
PS: bella simply stated that she believes people are either male or female, since when is that displaying vehement disdain of transgender play? Maybe you are putting on your on views on a simple statement? I think, in my limited opinion, that lots of people have not been exposed to year issues, transgender issues, etc so it is a lack of awareness or knowledge.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72'Let's round them all up and get them into some sort of re-training program until they conform to your narrow definition of right and wrong shall we? Quoting 'Curiousplay1980' While we don't necessarily agree with Bellas comments of being a "lost soul" but please explain why their vehement disdain for transgender experimentation makes them closed minded?? As much as I disagree with Bella's opinion, that's what it was: her personal opinion, and she made that clear.I think it's totally not cool that she's being spoken to like that. As for the OP's question: I'm not sure, I've never been in a serious non-monogamous relationship. I'm pretty sure I'd be happy for my partner to play with guys, but unsure if the same would be true for women (whatever genitals they were born with).
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RHP User
10 years ago
As my comment that hers is a narrow-minded view is only my opinion. What else is a forum but a bunch of people stating their opinions? I don't understand why the statement 'it's only my opinion' is supposed to protect someone from being disagreed with. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
bahahahaha!!! Have your friends never shared their funny sexual stories with you Meeka?? I'm not the one that has categorised friends stories as being funny or misguided..... It has in fact been them. They then upon return share their tale of "mistaken identity/gender" with the group as a funny anecdote to their trip. How just plain awful it would be to live in a world and have friendships when some light hearted "taking the piss out of a mate" is now considered awful and old fashioned. Look up your little urban dictionary for the definition of taking the piss...... Theirs no malice in it whatsoever. And in rebuttal to your next comment about putting my spin or view on Bellas comment. How can I put a view on something when I don't have one on the topic. It's not something I am into and not something I am not into, it's not an issue to me. It was others attacking her original opinion that put that spin on it, I asked why people felt her opinion meant disdain for thee act itself because I never read it that way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
I have just re read my original comment and have realised that I worded it incorrectly. Blame the 3am posting or heated typing but it doesn't translate what I was trying to say. I felt that Bella was copping a bit of harsh recourse and that her comments were being misconstrued as a "disdain for transgender relations" and closed mindedness. However, it reads the exact opposite...... Not intended and apologies for that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bella is actually correct but probably for the wrong reasons. Transsexuals are the only subset of the transgered family who do qualify as likely to be confused, in that all their life they have had to struggle with their own identity and the disparity between how they feel and how they look. Confused? Who wouldn't be? Without putting words in Bella's mouth her comment reads of one of pity, one of a complete lack of understanding that many people are born with attributes of both sexes, physically and mentally. There was a BBC documentary on gender a while back, not sure if we can post links but if you go to you tube you can find or message me and I will locate. In short life and gender is a gray blend that is not as black or white as some want to view or are comfortable with. The OP tagged transsexual and not transgender, they are not the same, just a basket society invented to attach an easy label to things it doesn't care to understand or differentiate. Bit of a bummer if you happen to be in that basket.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I thought I would go through the search function to see how many people in the TV/TS category are actually either a crossdressers / transvestite (likes to dress up for fun or sex) or a transsexual (identifies themselves as a femalemor transexual specifically) I didn't go through every profile but out of a Hundred or so profiles there where only a handful who identified as TS. So what I hear the cry.. But it's no wonder people see ts in the same light, because in comparison so few are on RHP, I wonder if that's a reflection of reality or RHP and the responses?
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